| Show 1 COUSINS SUSPECT SUSPECT F THEIRS Te T. BE THE PERFECT PASSION c By BETTY BL BLAIR IR Parents should be wise to foresee and fore forestall tall cousin at attachments r that may verge verg into the realm of love The wrong in cousin love affairs comes in the fact that that marriage marriage is forbidden forbid- forbid t den ir n by law and aria that a high quality of mental e may not noti nott t i be e applied to rid them of ot the passion t r Dear Ear Miss Blair I Z have como come to you for advice that X I need very much If you can give this question Id I'd Hio JnO any on appreciate It I have gone with many boys boys' and thought I was In Inlove inI love lov but at nt last a It aboy at boy has come Into I my Ufo lila and proved that I was wu never In Inlove Inlove I love before We love lo each other r and andt t t know there could be no other for or either of ot us But IJ as ns it tt happens were we're cousins I don't dont see fee how fate taLc could be bo boso so go cruel when wo we love each other so EQ much learn that marriage be between be- be tween us would be wrong Would our marriage marrage really be wrong or Is there hope that we may happiness Thanking banking you UNHAPPY A law exists in this thie state forbidding forbidding forbidding forbid forbid- ding marriages between first co cou cousins sins Bins Unhappy Aside from the fact of this being a sound law to prevent prevent pre pre- vent the inherited d d' d weaknesses of the family faintly from front being passed on to offspring though it frequently happens happens happens hap hap- pens that the combined strength of the family is inherited in a degree there is another side to your question I wish to discuss with with ith yo- yo you It t is your our statement We Ve know there could couI be no other for either elther of us In In making this statement you you are in In positive error At the time of life Ufe when youth is in love with love rega regardless as to how many times they may have th thought they were In I love c before with th the physical is In progress until they reach adulthood the thc object of their love Is Is likely to change frequently The Tho r result is that they fall faU in love with the p pc person son with whom they come most fi frequently in contact In your case at this p particular time of a mental and physiological change In your your your- ideas or id ideals als that person happened to be your be-your your cousin If Y you had been thrown in contact with another boy who measured up t to your expectations and nd one who f found und in you his dream girl it would it-would r have been that other with whom you would have haye fallen In love In other words there ain aint t no RIch sich animal as the factual suppositIon supposition supposition tion that there is Is' only one person In the world cut out to be another e er Cr persons person's mate There are many 3 others whose background training t tastes stes disposition on and heritage hertage may fit them for companionship as much an and in hi some cases probably ly moreo more 10 9 o than you two suit ca each eal li other othe It It Is only that ri nc riV now V v while you arc are arcIn In th the depths of the grand grand' pass passion on that you can see none but ea each h othe oth oth- oth- oth e er Cr And since you have your your former former for for- for for- mer flier experiences on which to base your comparisons and since inco your more advanced ag age makes you more capa capable le of a d deeper emotion now t than an y you u felt formerly you naturally natural natural- ly Iy think there is no other for either of you J I I assure you that in this belief you are wrong r If you are sensible since you cant can't marry you will take steps to give each other up If you persist too long in your association and your our emotion you may develop a fixation th that t will make it very difficult dif diC- dit- dit for you to transfer your affections af at- f to another who may be bemore more mor fitted to become your com corn j panion panon n.- n. Modern girls pride themselves that they are arc able to consult the philosophers philosopher's philosophers philosopher's philosophers philosopher's phi phi- stone atone and to abide by its decision Lets Let's see just how modern you rou ou can be in in this respect 0 WEDDING BREAKFAST AST Dear DeAf Miss lIas flaIr Blair What Is i served at nt a wedding breakfast breakfast break- break fast last and how ho hoare are the guests and Ind bride and groom seated Thank you WANNA VANNA KNOW 1 r. r An early morning wedding breakfast break brcak fast may co consist of grapefruit filled with white grapes fricasseed chicken chick chick- en 1 breakfast rolls or muffins currant currant cur cur- rant or crabapple j jelly coffee A AJ J 1 later ter- ter we wedding ding breakfast or lunch lunch- eon may be bc chilled tomato juice cantaloupe cantaloupo or Cr honeydew melon cre creamed n d sweetbreads and mushrooms mush mush- rooms pms in pastry patties relishes such as s olives or celery fresh fruit alad saiad al d with cheese dressing a assorted sandwiches d ice cream small cakes brides bride's cake coffee and bon boa bons bone The The bride and groom are r re given th the place of honor at one end end of the table and are arc seated together at M the wedding meal At the opposite op op- op- op R end from them the host or hostess of the occasion is seated Attendants Attendants At At- in the order of their Importance Im Im- Im- Im S. S t port rt nce are seated to the right and left ett of ot the bride and groom alternating alternating alter alter- slating ushers ushers' and bridesmaids or i matrons For example the best bestman m man n to the right of ot the bride the theS S matron or maid of honor of if rankIng rank rank- I Ing g first the thc bridesmaid to the left of the groom arid and so 50 on The Tho he mother mothe moth moth- e er et of the groom sits at the right vt f t the e father of the bride and the r fJ Letters questions question and requests for advice should be bo addressed to MISS l BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S IIA HAVEN VEN THE TILE TELEGRAM SALT LAKE LAIE CITY Write legibly upon only one ono side of 01 tho the paper poper It is necessary 1 that you append the right name and address but these will be l held ld in strict c confidence coat coat- dence and will vIll not appear in print Questions in involving advertising Information cannot be bo answered i father of the groom by the mother of f the bride I shall be glad to clear up any ot of f these questions that may not be quite clear cleat to to you by telephone e if you ou will call CLOTHES FOR OCCASION Dear Miss Blair If II a boy that A girl likes and with whom she has been wishing to have havea a 11 date asks her to go to a swell party and she hasn't the proper clothes to go In and ond knows knoW's she cant can't get them what sort of ot excuse should she site make so hp hJ will asic her for an another another another an- an other date data for tor which she docs does have suitable clothes Thank you Yo DISTURBED In a manner that hasn't the slightest slight slight- est st trace of ot self pity in it which rather seems to see the h humor mor in inthe inthe the he situation let the boy know how greatly you appreciate his tion on but that if you were to go in your our sport togs or or af afternoon dress dressor or r whatever It is you have for tor best he ic would be embarrassed and that it would be impossible for you to provide the proper clothes In time for or the occasion Then with mirth in n your voice say Now if you were inviting me mc to go to the cilcus cir cir- cus cue us and let him draw his own Inference It is an excellent plan planor for or one to be able to laugh at her own wn dilemmas It does more to cover coyer cov- cov er r an embarrassing situation than anything of which I know and has hashe he the advantage of helping to keep by making them laugh with you instead of at you And most certainly you wouldn't want them to feel sorry for you because you ou had whined about the situation o or r had in any way let them know you ou felt sorry for yourself And j just st t to be sure you arent aren't crossing any bridges before you come ome to them ask the boy whether the le occasion is to be form formal I or sport sport port Sport clothes are worn worn for forso forso so 3 many occasions In this day and there lore is so much latitude in what is s worn it kt t is a a good plan to make absolutely sure that whatever clothes lothes you have may be suitable for or the he occasion NOTE TO SLIGHTED It Is impossible to print BO so Intimate Intimate Intimate Inti Inti- mate a question as yours ours in the inthe the col col- mn It has been answered ered frequently fre- fre on the tho wom womans woman's ms m's page e under undera a camouflaged heading that those in n need would understand But If you ou haven't seen It and will twill send a stamped tamped self-addressed self envelope with your our request I shall be bo glad glado to o answer it privately |
