Show MOTHER WHO VHO TAKES UP CHILDS CHILD'S QUARRELS NEARLY ALWAYS LOSES By MYRTLE MYRlLE MEYER l ELDRED Bring BringS your our problems about diet general care and management manage mont ment to Myrtle lyrle Meyer Eldred Your questions v vIll l he be e answered promptly if you will viIi send a self self- addressed 3 cent stamped envelope card card- ope with your request to Mrs 1 Eldred Eld Eld- reel red In care of the Your Bab Baby and Mine department of this newspaper A mother who makes her chil- chil drens dren's quarrels her own is is in hot water constantly It ought to be paint pat pai cut ent nt to any grownup that dhe uhe cant can't cantor or 01 r ought not to try to fight her chi chil childrens drens dren's battles Children can quarrel and nd part happily They c con can n forget the he insults hurled at them and stand any amount of oC teasing without its itt leaving caving anything ln but a temporary mark upon their good nature But let the thc mother appear at the thedoor thedoor door and indignantly berate the small boys who tease tense her daughter and ond she deprives the child of the experiences her immune immune im im- im which inevitably will make mune mun to teasing and a happy grown grown- up P. P Let her take the childrens children's quarrels els to other mothers and endeavor to o enlarge upon them and she makes herself unpopular and disliked by byboth byboth both oth mothers and children children children-azid and she cuts out a lonely childhood d for Ir he het championed youngster S Sonic Some me mothers do not quarrel with oth other r children or with other moth Cs C's rs b hut but t the they do changa th their ir chu- chu dren ren's rens s estimate of nei neighbor children by y unwise remarks about them To tell ell your our child that thal Andy Brown i te a t nasty boy bo- boor or that those header on children are arc mean and always the thi- thi wn v ny is js to bl bios the thc children against aGnin t them Such an attitude altitude breeds tr trouble My I leaflet Childrens Quarrels may aid you jOU in handling problems which arise constantly where a child is one of f a group You may have it by sendIng sending send send- I ing a self addressed cd cent 3 stamped envelope with a request for it to Myrtie Myrtle Myr Myr- tie tle Meyer Eldred in care of the Your of this Baby and Mine dep department newspaper If a child only knew it his mother is a poor jud other children She is too deeply interested In the welfare welfare wel wel- fare of her own too Intense in her effort to See gee that my child gets the best of ot all social situations and is the popular member of ot any group Any companion who frustrates this maternal maternal mater mater- nal ambition becomes willy nilly a amean amean amean mean child The mothers mother's best efforts should be directed toward making her child chUd as good a mixer as possible Then popularity is assured She must mUt make it J clear that to get along with neighbor children and school companions her child chUd has to compromise compromise compro compro- mise with some of his own desires in order to allow for th those se of the theother theother other fellow He may arrive at compromise com corn promise by some childish squabbling from which the mother should stand aloof If It mothers would take an Impersonal Imper attitude toward the conflicts Into which every normal child Is thrust and would inspire in the child chUd a n good natured not a chip on the shoulder attitude altitude she would help to develop her childs child's ability to take teasing slights and quarreling as e experiences ex cz inseparable from childhood and not harmful in themselves |