| Show BLESS YOUNG MAN HINKS OF WEDLOCK AS SOLUTION TO ILL tion flea Of Up Pick Boys Who Think Girls Want J to Nurse Ea Easy y Chairs Every Night Are J Mistaken Correct Analysis i By BETTY BETrY BLAIR and women of today are pioneering In theYo the y Yo ung men roen setup as truly as did their forefathers who conoy con- con oy ic last frontiers The strength of their courage dei derd de- de rd the des Ces i 5 w whether Nether or not they will succeed and those who Sm day be heralded as are the pioneers of the land landI I m some a f Blair Blairr reading your colfO col col- n and have hav dei de de- time me some m fO ix far K td question I have a uk esk i 7 too td been going with a a girl for lor two years cars m and we want to get married but I have iri no work I am 20 years pears ears old and she sheU U is 17 Bo I have had a high school education M If and Ind she has not j-et j et ct finished high school schoot L U Her folks folia have offered oft of of- loti I to let us stay fad w t with them until I IJ Iw let jet work They w J It would be easier for me mea I mar mar- work ork after am ltd n a d da than It would Rould be as a single 3 Will you kindly give me II pent JL advice on the matter t you OU NEW EW COMER t New Comer being done tJ w been out of work for forS forend forr have ve S yo I end ind t three years for whom there r possibility of getting getling work et d n that they were being 3 because they were sin sin- ei against ti men cen and this year with more under the P W A andU and andr t rk still unable to get work r U A. A w were c Bedded rather than to remain idle J they would marry and obtain Vender under the preferred list of mar dm ji X course tf the they y married for love 1 w jet Job But the one benefit benent to 1 the other test fet t girls of 17 11 are too young to Some girls at 17 are arc as old a. a will be at 40 Others at t 17 feo ey develop mentally physically s p But 1 If it at this early they already have in them the till fer g of mature women with a sledge of housekeeping and home home- fer which their experience in a h taught them they are aretos aw tos as u ready for marriage a as aser If er r ill pil lacking this exp experience it at JO 20 l in Iia must lire sile up all of these j Yes and problems which I know I Ig J about and then make your youra a o decision fa fen eu roust must also think of the M dy of your Jour not getting setting work after i 1 ia ire e married f for r the lack of i t to carry through the plans of PW A and C W A. A I do not adelay adt ad ad- t elay lay man to marry a wife in into to kr to get a I job But to marry a aI aI I 1 you OU love loye her and have ts er Of securing curing work because of 1 you au have taken laken Is another u. u II- II And with wilh the offer of the girls girl's u to share their home until the codes that you can make one of if cow you have the beginning iTo fro loving borne young people to 10 o lave ban the thou thoughts of marriage d base uppermost in their minds K ng toward which to work install Interest Pioneers had hadus tl us a as great and won 1 f t. t A PICKUP r Bar itt Mb MIM Blair 51 I been Interested In inta t ta Haven Ha and have found it oases ary to present my problem IJ IEl friend and I had an argument se K the definition of a pickup tte person who drives the C car lr lid ad i picks up a girl the pickup t a it is the girl irl whom he picks up te e pickup Thank youE you E N. N picked u up becomes In the thee e of the day ay the pickup makes of the boy who Mr up the up cr er f Y A It RAP AT THE BOYS Del Stirs Mils Blair I ii y 1 girl friend and I have been 5 fI i I with two boys who are too p P to 10 take us to church let e to a I how or dance They tick k they dont don't have to How Eon tan can we drop them a hint 21 n arent aren't n S gOing to stay home h them any more morel We dont don't axt tto to Jose case th their ir friendship 7 Wee other girls out but they fri dy think we dont don't want b br go We e Would Uld like t to hear from ate Jj n who read your our column on of ot spending money I Uini you ou Miss Blair E PALS Did yea ever discuss the movies Bea with Hh your constant callers t you be very frank in the dis- dis tf Tour our movie idols and very I fa h fl g which on ones happen to at the cur current rent ent sitting nm q till came tactics can be employed we ibe discussion of your favorite s. s U if these boys bos dont don't catch on t YOU love the movies or rather ether dance away any eve eve- tn just JUl sit find some others OU ight sa say to these boys t the they he t ne the they y ask for a date Weve We've 4 ni k mad and arc c going to seea see G or Gable r whoever your our fa a tr tar be L Sorry but we won wont won't e. ag ul h a girls irla privilege to invite h ht her heri ads is to i call on her in her herthe t n not of the a privilege of a boy girl cirl for an ap appointment nt and it sitting it out In the ten room ere these boys just happen happ n along t invitation 1 I should 17 7 to ate a to It that they did not me Ine at no hOme to See lee any oftener than I 1 1 them If y they v. v ey break the proprieties take appointments s to o ice ec you yoi OU borne IntS Int'S 3 l I should have other the en eats I a to o CREATE IMPRESSION Mis Blair I m 1 an t girl 1 G years old Whon When Illy y Place or try to do Where here any aay- other PC people ar are astIS as as- td t l am t kind always always' thinking ot of impression a am m I Seine I g On them of my friends think I am but I am tar from rom be be- Letters questions and re requests requests re- re quests for advice should hould be addressed ad dressed to MISS B BET BETTY E T T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM SALT LA LAKE K E. E Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It Is u necessary that you ou append append ap ape ap- ap pend the right name and address ad dress but these will be held la In strict confidence and will not mIl appear in print Qu Questions involving in vo ving advertising information cannot annot be answered Ing lag that I think the trouble Is that I feel so small and try so 20 hard to overcome this feeling that others get the idea I am con con- Can DIn you OU tell me what to todo todo do dol Many thanks FAYE I think your analysis of yourself Is correct Faye A great many peo pea people people plc make the same mistake your friends are making and think a person person per per- son conceited when as a matter of fact he or she is laboring under a severe inferiority complex But Faye Fae you are wasting enough energy wondering what kind of impression you are making to do any Job fob ob properly and wel well From now on make up your mind to think of the task you have to perform and not of ot the people who may be seeing you or listening to you They are not thinking of you but of the goods goow to be delivered Work and play with this thought in mind and soon you OU will be doing everything c so well you ou will take pleasure in what you do regardless of what people think of it or you And the rewards come unsought for forIt forit forit it Is Ls then that people think well of you |