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P Pertinent Q Questions D Demanding e an d. d Ing A Answer t Group Invitation to Party Overlooks One Oile Book f i i I f. f By BETTY BLAIR In the scheme of marital relations jealousy has been L fi first st place as a happiness wrecker by courts of human relations onSe No doubt many manya a second marriage could be traced tofts its incipient ravages Dear ear Miss B flair Blair I had bad a husband once as good goodrid rid considerate a husband as any wIle could wIsh for and I deliberately de- de deliberately drove 11 him from me mc into I the arms arms' of ot anAL another an an- AL other woman Jealousy did it il I II I knew all the time I it s would do so so as my husband had warned varned me many uI I a time that he couldn't a and n d dI I wouldn't stand my tirades I was j jealous e Iou s over every little thing j jealous alous if he heven even ven talked to another woman I wanted him at my side every minute of of the time we were out together at a party or or with friends When I look back on it now I Imo mo know it was va my fear of of- losing him that made me lose him him him- that made me jealous I know kno 2 now too that he loved loyed me dearly dearly dear- dear ly Jy in the beginning but that my jealousy killed that love as all j jealousy will do I dont don't thinK he will ever love wife ife No 2 as as he once loved me but I have the bitter pill to swallow swallow low Jow that he has m much more peace with her than he ever had with me me Peace after all aU is something every very man must have If ItI I had hadIt hadIt It It- to It-to to do over again I could be a better wife a tl more reasonable wife I I. I just didn't know that my happiness was worth all the control con con- I I could muster to put the green re n dragon in chains GAVE HIM CAUSE W Well n it is something for tor any first w fe o admit blame in the question question of ofa a second marriage And it is someThing something some some- thing also alsoto to be able to publish a letter let let- I ter that may y lead many another wife attention to the shortening of the Jong leash on which she permits theold green dragon of jealousy to fatten on other peoples people's deeds or mis mis- d deeds 1 win WIFE PAINTS PICTURE Dear Miss Blair I have gained gamed much good a adVice advice ad ad- l- l vice from your column and enjoy reading it very much I have much in interested the letters letterson on second marriages fr from ni Bachelor and Experienced I would uld like Experienced to picture pic pie ture in his mind a wife nd mother moth- moth er er bf of six whose husband decided h he made madea a mistake A A. girl who gives all she has hasto to the man she loves byes oy s and trusts busts bears his children chil chilO dren works to to help him support them and then when her health and strength taU fall must face the f fact ct that be loves another woman His ins beautiful baby stands at the fr front nt gate watching and waiting and hoping day after day wee week weck after week until the time tim runs Into years for her daddy to corn com come home And what can an a a a. mother say lIay ay to h her r query as she asks with tear filled eyes Why doesn't daddy come home What she can an- an n she say Lay when youngsters come come ome home borne from school hungry and nd ask asic Why doesn't daddy send i something to eat We are hun bUn gry When they cant can't go to school for need of shoes When they huddle around a stove and anday andy say ay y Why doesn't daddy send coal We ar are freezing When hen day ay or night a mother hears on one of f her little brood crying with toothache or some other ache and vo wonders ders if daddy will send the money to have a bad tooth pulled ora doctors doctor's care 1 I ask you yop Experienced to t. t tell eIl U me Inc what answers to these Letters questions and requests requests re re- re- re quests for advice should bo be addressed to MISS 1 BETTY BETT BLAIR HEARTS HAVEN RAVEN TELEGRAM S SALT A Lr I LAKE A K E CITY Write legibly upon only one side aide Ide of ot the paper It Is necessary that you yon append append ap ap- pend the he right name and aDd address ad ld dress but these will be held In strict confidence and will not appear In print Questions involving in 10 advertising Information lIon Ion cannot be answered questions this mother may properly prop erly giVe Full Fun well wen a man knows no other man will wm marry the woman he has cast off No one else will carry the burden he h has s shirk shirked d. d All AU I can say is that if a man can find happiness with a second wife with these haunting pictures in the background of his mind he deserves it IL I only hope he never finds he has made more than one mistake WIFE NO 1 f p Here is a picture that will tvan twang in minor key on the heartstrings of ol any man who has left tiny tots and the he mother who bore Dore them in want while he take takes his own sweet way with another woman And the woman woman wo woo wooman man who shares his pleasure can surely feel no less her share of the I blame if she has any heart at all Life is so complicated and our acts can have such reaching far-reaching results that hat surely it behooves every everyone one to ook well to his slightest act or word No doubt the wife left at home with her tiny Uny- brood upbraided herself hersel many times after her husband had gone for tor conditions at home that could have ha been made more pleasant for for- forthe or the man whom she truly loved but probably nagged How far that little candle throws its ts beams So shines a good deed in ina a naughty world And true it is that good deeds at times and arid under c certain ertain human actions actions' and ions sometimes seem all too few BOOK FOR FOIL READERS Every woman wants to know the essentials of how to dress how to behave in her social groups groups how to entertain correspond correspond correspond corre corre- spond pay calls leave cards at atcaS teas caS and nd on the few occasions on which cards card are arc arc now being left In fact how to conduct with an an ease of manner that only a complete knowledge of social detail can give her Her opportunity to know and do all these things properly now awaits herin herin her herin in the booklet on modern manners man man- ners rs that she may have for the mailing ch charge rge of 10 cents Particularly would we like Uke readers of Hearts Heart's Haven to have this booklet Send your name and address and the mailing fee of ot 10 cents with your request forthe for forthe forthe the booklet to The Telegram Information Information Information In In- formation Bureau Frederic J J. Haskin Director Washington D. D D.C. C. C GIRL UNASKED Dear Miss Blair I 1 I have been terribly hurt by bya a girl who us used d to be one of my very best friends A lA group ofus of ot ofus otus us u-s were standing talking together er when this girl approached and invited every ery girl in the group but meto a party she was giving I felt feU like crawling into a hole Theother The eother other girls all noticed it and made remarks about the girl after she had walked away Some of them thought she intended me to come too but had just overlooked overlooked over over- looked mentioning my name They insisted on speaking to her about it but even if it were an oversight I 1 wouldn't go now anyway any any- way Do you think I 1 should MIFFED If y you u had d done nc nothing t to warrant war wat rant the displeasure of ot the girl who did the inviting and you had pr pre previously been friends it could well wen have been an oversIghts oversight it if the girl didn't invite you It s seems seems' ems ems' hard to conceive of a girl girI bred in in social usage usage inviting individual members of a group and leaving one out She should certainly have taken some other occasion to offer her invitations invitations invitations' intended not to invite one of or them There Therel are times when we all hav baye to be generous and overlook unintended unintended tended slights so if it this girl should come to you and assure you that she thought she had bad included you in th the invitation with the others I think you should overlook the fact that she overlooked you l If no such apology is oU offered r d or or if it you feel feel- she is insincere cere in an apology that may be offered offered of- of ered of course there is only one thing hing- to do But your sta staying away from rom the party in rt this event will not jeopardize your our own own good taste in the matter |