| Show ADOLESCENT MISTAKES REAPED WITH REGRETS IN YOUNG WOMANHOOD Appeal to Readers to Avail Themselves of Opportunities Opportunities' for Household Service Now Offered Through r Telegram Information Bureau By BETTY BLAIR No matter h w mt much h an adolescent girl of 15 or 16 thinks sh knows no matter how secure she feels in a knowledge knowledge knowl knowl- edge that is a depar departure ure from the ways civilization has learned through ages ages' of the trial and error method there comes a time in n her life liCe when bitterly she says I 1 wish I i Dear Miss Blair When I w was s at the age of 15 or 16 I thought all men went with girls just to pa pass their time or to see sec how well thc they 11 J could put up a 3 love II 1 scene M My y girl Cirl girlfriends V. V A I 1 friends also thought I A R I the saine same thing so soI sowe I we made up our ourI I- I I minds minth to make love loveto to all aU fellows who iIII made love to us f At 15 everything N. N i was okeh as s the felI fellows fel fel- Ii 1 iii II lows I fooled foole around I H with were my age and wouldn't take it seriously But at 16 I started going going going go go- ing with a young youn man seven years my senior All my friends thought he was handsome so you see I just let Jet him go He made love loveto loveto loveto to me and asked me mc to go steady he even promised to marry me All the time he thought I was wasl l rious Having inc the wrong attitude to toward toward toward to- to ward men I played the game until un til tU I met another fellow who was very popular in one of t the te e high nigh f schools No matt matter r how much it hurt my b best st girl friend I took him away from froni her It wasn't long before he asked me to go steady tead with him What they didn't know wouldn't hurt them so I Icons cons consented en ted My first steady found out about it He was hurt terribly to think I wasn't the sweet Innocent girl he thought me to be What didn't he tell me mc Oh Oh well such thC thC- will happen Tarn ram I am 18 now and have really fallen In love with this boy friend rl nd Im I'm quite sure he likes me but since knowing my past he doesn't believe a word I say He looks at atme me as i if ii he thought I was the biggest liar that ever was born This hurts me terr terribly bly Is there anything I can do tomake tomake to make him believe me Ive I've changed altogether now and wouldn't hurt a soul if I 1 could help it Id I'd do anything to have this boy believe in me and trust me Is it possible that the mistake mis mistake mis take I I. I made Imade can be held against sac me even cven though I have grown out of my foolish ideas VAMP It would take a very mature mind Vamp to recognize the fact fad that at atthe atthe atthe the age of ot 15 you were an adolescent child Jn Sn spite of The Iho fact that you considered con con- yourself very grown gron up and very ery wise and to forgive you for the utter lack o of honor and consideration you displayed both toward your boy and girl girlfriends friends The unfortunate thing about it all aU is isI I that you began at 5 to have freedom in the sex world that should never be accorded girls of that age You should now at 18 jl just t be starting in where you did at 15 to keep steady company with boys No year old girl no matter how wise vise she considers consid consid- ers be can possibly have havethe havethe havethe the stability of mind and emotions that a young girl at 18 or 20 can have Girls of 18 or 20 learn through proper teaching and training through h the stability that comes with the added add add- ed cd d years what you rou have learned to your sorrow through actual ence Those whose home guarding and training raining have imbedded in their minds the truth about the reactions o of the sexes toward each other learn also that regardless of the looseness of ol morals in many there are still those thos and always will be those whose high sense of the moral quality will not j tolerate looseness It is an utterly abhorrent ab ab- ab thing to them Ideals of Youth Especially are fine ine young people trained rained with a r regard gard to right and wrong in the matter of morals apt pt to regard a departure from their standards stand stand- ards with utter loathing There is no too truer thing in life lire Vamp than that we sow what we r reap ap You are now harvesting your sown crop at a time when you were were utterly irresponsible You did not even have the honor to be true to your girl friend but made her suffer for lor or your selfishness What a pity someone meone couldn't have got hold of you at that time and drummed some same Ideals into your our system Would you have bave listened But you are coming corning to the point now flow where you see the necessity of them i if you would mingle with the worthwhile people whom you really like Stay by these ideals regardless V of the snubs and hurts hurLs you will re re- re- re You have hav a double burden on your shoulders a past to live down and a future to make It will be hard but i I. 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