| Show GIRL LOVES TWO MEN FOR BOTH OF WHOM SHE FINDS LOVE RESPONSE Bo Boy Courts One Girl GirI Marries Another Yet Seems Insincere it cere cere in Either Case Genial Boys Attracts 11 Housemaid f j By BETTY BLAIR BLUE Some women and men are built like a set of ot chimes which require more than one stimulus to bring out their thel harmony Such people should probably y marry a career and keep their friends It It Is for those built like an alarm clock who work on the all crall or none principle who fit best into the high mono- mono order prescribed by our civilization Dear Mi Miss s Blair I am 26 years ears old old enough you will say to know m my own mind and yet I am ani far lar from knowing it As a matter of fact tact I am in love with two men I dont don't want to give either cither of them up our association has been so pleasant yet neither man can tolerate the other and now one of them is insisting that I choose between be tWe tween n them Both men have asked me to tom m marry them One insists that I 1 make my decision within the next six weeks or consider him out of the picture If I marry him I must turn the picture to the wall that discloses the pleasant landscape land of oC my association with the theother theother theother other man Yet if JC I give gi him up upI I have lost something n absolutely essential to my happiness One man is a business man yet he combines with his ideas of making money a high artistic sense sens ense of oC what is most worthy in life lite He is Inclined to take life me mever ver very seriously yet he enjoys the lighter moments that my frivolity makes for him The other man is 15 a gay roman cere He s sees s the joyous side of life lile He will never never have much v of the substantial things of life to offer neither in material sub sub- stance Yet he feeds leeds my whole in inner inner in in- ner being with the beauty and poetry of oC his makeup He doesn't write poetry His whole life Isn is isa isa a n poem If he were to have knowledge knowl edge dge of impending death in the very near future he would do all I the gay things he loves doing doing- p have a 3 drinking party go fishing invite his friends to his apartment apart ment for a trout dinner and wave wavea a red flag lag in the face of death Ills His income is insufficient for his own needs yet he never worries worries wor ries about trying tring to get tet a promo promo- tion But I love him so dearly that I would be willing to cat eat a crust of bread in any kind of shack he might offer me He will willbe willbe willbe be disappointed d in me if it I accept the offer of oC the other man He will ill know that I am doing it In order order or or- der to feather my own nest He cant can't understand that I also have havea a very deep affection for the man who offers m me his love a substantial substantial living a comfortable home He will scorn m me mc and I cant can't bear the thought of that Be my fairy I godmother and settle this problem problem lem for mc me BEWITCHED Are Arc you a woman of ot enduring courage courage cour cour- age of at un unending patience Is the promise you hold out of being able to endure poverty real or a sham If It so 50 take the highroad of ot adventure with the man you love for in reality you love only on one of them and that the gay romancer But if it you are arc not sure of your our own strength if there arc are doubts that you cant can't endure the meager material life the irresponsible one offers of fern fen if jf you feel leel sure that you ou haven't the coura courage e to pull both your our boats together for often your our strength will demand that then let your our affection for tor the stronger man win You must take the rejected mans man's scorn into the bargain Each of your loves as you choose to call them makes a different sot set t of appeals to your intellect and emotions Each fulfills certain ideals completes areas of experience that the other does not Love for lor you and for many women like litre you can never be just one simple emotion easily described and limited It Jt is rather like I your heredity made u u up of large combinations combinations com of separate units of ot emotion emotion emo tion sensation and idealisms I Many other women are not like this They find tind complete absorption in one object o of love They respond for lor all they are arc worth to the love of one man or not at all And if it theroan the theman theman man roan they love loves them in return happiness becomes for lor them a simple matter You must change your heredity or change your friends particularly the first one for tor life me and happiness to ever be a simple matter for lor you I am amno amno no fairy airy godmother and even if I were your grandmothers for the past untold generations summed up in Letters Letter questions and requests requests re re- quests for advice should be addressed addressed ad ad- dressed to MISS BET BETTY T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEAR HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT L LAKE A K E. E Write legibly upon only one ODI tide clde of the paper It Is necessary that you append append append ap ap- pend the right name and address address ad dress but these will be held is a 1 strict confidence and will m nc t appear in print Qu Questions involving involving in advertising ad information I annot b be answered I one have cast the die for lor you ou beyond what any simple fairy might be able to change MARRIED ANOTHER Dear Miss Blair I am m 19 years ears old and for the past six months have been going with a young man who came in from another town Now he Is married to a girl in his home hometown hometown hometown town but he still comes In to the dances and I 1 see him and dance with him He claims that he still loves me and wants to take me home after the dances He acts very jealous when another young man whom I also go out with dances with me Do you think I ought to encourage encourage en en- courage him BLUE EYES If It the man really loved you ou he should have said it with a wedding ring rint I J feel teel sorry for the woman who believed him to the extent that she accepted one from him Surely the fellow lellow is a cad to marry and neglect his wife in this manner Dont Don't be beh foolish h enough to accept any of his attentions There are arc plenty of nice boys in whom to encourage friend friends friendship sip ship who have a sense of loyalty and decent regard for tor promises when they hey shall be made You are arc not add add- ing ng to your own self self respect respect by dancing ing ng with this young yount man and listening listening listen listen- ing to his light minded light talk MARKET ROMANCE Dear Miss Blair Every morning when I go to market I meet a avery very nice boy who waits on me He thinks I am the lad lady of the house I suppose by the way he talks He is very nice Shall I Ilet let him know I am only the maid I dont don't want him to act snobbish with me It is nice niceto to have people treat you as if you ou were really somebody This is one of the nicest boys I have ever every met and I dont don't think he is married I wouldn't want him to think I was trying to make a hit with him I only want him to keep on being friendly OLGA There are many little ways you might have of letting the nice clerk know enow that you are not the mistress s of the house in which you work And your our honor need not thereby be lessened for you ou are the maid and doubtless a good tood one The person who fits lils his or or her own place well wen need not be ashamed of it If the clerk becomes less affable when he learns that you are the maid I should look up another to serve ser me who treats all aU his patrons affably regardless of their station in life Ife But ut I am really of the opinion that the boy who now serves you ou so 50 well is genuine and will continue to tobe tobe tobe be genial with you After all all we are all servants In one capacity or another another an other th the boy no less than you |
