Show eart Interest Children d Health alth VV d and n rl f 1116 the the tl O Home WI Recipes Menus u Fc iC m g HA VEN Conducted by BETTY BLAIR x 4 1 Letters questions BUd and requests tor tar advice adlIce be addressed 0 russ MISS BETTY EITY BLAIR HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT j KE E Write legibly upon oni one side ol 01 the 5 J s It is 15 necessary that thai you up append pend the right name and address addres C th these thee will be held In tn strict and will not appear in dat Questions involving advertising t Information cannot be an an- ered Letters requiring personal reply repy must be accompanied by tamPed self addressed envelopes Ed ADVICE VICE TO PERTURBED Nr nil MIsi Blair iBe n wife ICe also mother I want write just Jast a Do few words to Per Tears fell lell as ns I read your try rr Tv You have ha a 3 government go posS posS- iii 1 This Ibis should mean all nU to you ou ju UI have e your flag flag- and my flag bend be be- nd d you yon The red the white the thee f for bravery that to toe tot ce ue e R Red d r pass pas e t wile wife White for purity Have you i for r hon honor r. r What about that U n have stolen something that did didt Ii t belong to you He ic w was Vr enough until you came along I 1 wager wafer you could not fill fUl with the place his bis wife wile has filled hIs faff life JIle This Ibis affair has bas been going ong on over period of many years The humilia humilia- m In you h have ve caused this family can ver Tee be estimated The wife wile spent e springtime of her life Ufe helping to lid nil up the honor and integrity of 01 E g man to make snake him prominent hit bat h have hc c you done for him rhe Fhe reason he told his wife and idles he did not love them an any more b because he be is just a a. spoiled boy oiled ailed by you ou You call caU this wife tee fish for not granting hl his request a divorce His Ills wife knows thAt thai i I happiness does not exist In a n amp amu mp mu heap fats rou object to fo his living at home lat at have han you u to say about it You 3 only the creature of 01 his desires i the guardian of his material and ritual welfare The home is the Ice ce where those finer things are tided d. d It U Is the place where he fou ou are the woman behind the lamp t 1 What does docs the sanctity of 01 the thene thene thene ne mean to you Its It's just a place you yon to hang out to have a side sider P r through which you ou can slip in inI I out oat You can do nothing for this as a's honor and aRd prominence They e behind the skirts of lii his wife Perturbed get gel et out stay out You the snake in the grass Reco Recognize l ize mother nother who bore you vou and whose Tee fee you have refused d to take fake And Hence with head bead up uplifted let your rles go toward possessing honest honest- what can be be- really yours ours not it belongs belons to another GOOD MORALS MORALS' here are certain fundamental gs of ot life that cannot be gain gain- L I. The race has learned them jugh a long uphill climb of varied And when one of its memo mem- goes s-goes goes against the rule of that so dearly learned so defined the mass mass- has little with her She should know knower er they say If she were not rely centered self centered entered she would know t she zhe cant can't get vay 3 way with it She Sh Sh have to pay and pay dearly nd it ft is true Life or the fates you ou wish to call it il sees t that no io mortal escapes without payment It is in reality the things do that make of you what you OU that make you do other things add add to the s sum sim m total p o of what are and do that bring down clown sequences on your head The law aUS ause and effect in action As simple the sequence of the man who ved ed his field to raise grain to buys buy s to sell to buy more land to raise a Lu to buy pigs here is more to life than love A AP Ap P 11 sight more BRIDES BRIDE'S LINENS r r Miss Blair lien hen a Do girl is going going- to lo be married it 1 initial does she place on her heras herus as us Also If It a monogram is to towed wed aled what combination of initials proper I have heard so many treat rent answers and arguments for against that I am quite perplexed feel you can settle th the Issue wIt hank you for nil all past favors and PC pe you had a a. restful and enjoys enjoy enjoy- s I T vacation catlon BRIDE TO th the brides bride's linens are arc mono- mono before her marriage the consists of the Initials of o own name The same is true of silver Many modern brides are lUng this old age custom and are ung ting until after the ceremony is to have monograms em em- ered dered and engraved and are then Ig 2 the initials of their new name ny y girl is taking a risk to have fiances fiance's Christian initial i 1 on linen or engraved on silver re is many a slip and to have plans fall through would be a travesty to undo what would be useless ne lie v vacation cation was all that a vaca vaca- should ld be Restful entertaining satisfying 0 CAN OAN CARROTS AND BEETS r Miss Blair read your our column every night and andely andely ely elf enjoy It t. t I would like Ilke to ask I. I how to can carrots and beets cooking them right In the thc bottles ink r yo you for the Information f HOUSEWIFE If 1 Pleases u us to know that you find ind le ie enjoyment in Hearts Heart's Haven can cai carrots sort and grade them uniform size Wash and scrub with lIf JU vegetable Ve brush Scrape if car car- 1 I. I iare are old Boll Boil for 15 minutes e or pack whole in hot jars Add vel ve teaspoon of salt to each quart With Win With water in which they were k iced d partly seal and cook for two twos Ira lIa s in iri water that covers them 2 es es s or in a steam pressure cooker lO u 0 1 po pounds for 45 minutes Remove Seal immediately should be canned before they w too large Small beets should whole Leave on 1 inch lof of the stem and all of the root while blanching Wash and boil until skins loosen Slip skins ot off and pack into hot lot jars Do not add salt Fill with lolling boiling water partly seal and process processor for or 2 hours in a hot water bath keep ing water at least 2 Inches over bottles Or process for 40 minutes in ina a steam pressure cooker at 10 pounds Seal immediately after removing from rom water or cooker SURPRISE Dear Miss lIss Blair I want to give e a surprise party and I hardly know how bow to go to about It t. t Will wm you help me My Iy guests will willbe willbe be girls and 1 boys OS O'S between the ages of 16 and 18 Any help belp you can give me will vili be sincerely appreciated The surprise party is to be given for one of 01 the boys Thanks a a. lot DUMBELL Ul D The idea of the surprise party is iso isto isto to o have the guest of honor bewitched out of the way and utterly oblivious to o the fact that the event is pending Everybody else is to know about it t of course If the affair is 15 on a boy he le is isto to be inveigled to the house housa of a friend and that friend will wiIl suggest that they go o to his girl friends friend's house get jet her to accompany them to the house louse where the party is to la be held heldo to o call for the girl who is acting as hostess in order that all four shall shaIl go some place or do something to to- gether jether The rest of the party is collected when these thess three arrive and surprise sur prise is called as they enter the door Since there is only one person surprised if the secret hasn't spilled out he realizes that he is it and acts surprised There are various ruses by which the guest of honor may be brought to the rest of the crowd and surprised Get the crowd to o help you think of something that exactly fits fits' your circumstances The games I enclosed in the envelope en you sent will vill help in the matter of entertainment For refreshments refresh ments meats have haye a delicious cold punch with cake and anCl salted nuts Or cake and ice cream with nuts and candies candles CARE OF SILKS Dear Miss Blair A white wash washable silk dress that I have c washed a a. num number cr of times Is turning a 3 yellowish color What has caused this and md what can I do to tomake tomake make It 11 white again Thanking you EVE White silk clothes should be rolled i up in a towel while they are wet Never hang them on a line Press with witha 1 a too hot iron while they are damp Put just a little bluing in the th last rinse water when next you wash your white dress Then roll in a towel before ironing This will remove the yellowish hue |