Show I HEARTS EART'S HAVEN HAVE Conducted by BETTY BLAIR Letters questions and requests for tor advice should be b addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT T LAKE Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It Is 15 necessary that you append I the right name and address but these will be held In strict confidence and will not appear In InI I print Questions Involving advertising Information cannot be an- an Letters requiring personal reply must be accompanied by tamped stamped addressed sell envelopes Ed HAS BAS NEVER GONE STEAD STEADY Dear Miss Blair I am 18 years yeara old and never have tone gone ne steady tudy with any girl girle I seem to have u no trouble In getting dates as aa I always try to treat a girl a. a as would like Ute to be treated But Bat BatI ButI I Just cant can't seem to find the girl Irl for whom I could fall faU I enjoy a date dater at or r two and then I am through Possibly Pos sibly In a month or two I could enJoy enjoy en en- Joy another date with this same girl Jhen hen IL its it's all over again Can you tell me what hILt Is I. wrong with Uh me md Will VIli I ever ver be content with any girl or am I slated to be an old hermit I have no desire to get rei married mar mar- ned ried for several years but It worries worries wor wore ries me when I cant can't set sd my mind on any girl A HERMIT I should consider you exceedingly normal and luck lucky Hermit That is 15 isif isif J if your mind at the present 1 iff ir concerned concerned con can with other weighty matters of interest to W the exclusion of the girl interest There Is Is' plenty of time for tor that later when preparation has hasl been made for serious thought in that direction And by preparation I mean background for your lifes life's profession or work of whatever na na- na ture I Too much girl Interest during the years that a man should be making headway toward his lifes life's vocation can hamper more than It helps help Friendly interest with the opposite sex yes That is the normal attitude judged by modern modem standards and exp ex ex- ex p A man must make mak his own life conform in values value sto to those he exp to in find In the hopes someday to find Otherwise discrepancies in moral and other values raise up barriers barriers bar bar- that early in the he marriage g game me become Insurmountable Love and marriage arc are life me problems problems lems over which you can afford to take your time over which you need neither hurry nor worry Your main problem will be once love and marriage marriage mar mar- have overtaken you to take care of the many problems that annex an an- nex flex themselves to this estate TROUBLES TROUBLES TROUBLES' S RENEWED Dear near Miss Blair I thought after my first call for help In your corner that my love troubles had bad all ceased but now they have started again I have been keepIng keep keep- Ing company with the boy of my dreams Lately he hasn't been to see iDe sue me Why I dont don't know Now Im I'm wondering wondering- If I should call cali him up or ret jet In touch with him some ther other way and find out his lions up PAT Ar ArThe The only thing possible for you to todo todo todo do is to act the part of the impersonal hostess and invite your friend to your home It is quite patent that his i intentions arc not all aU that you would have them be but you cannot for force e ethem them t to be otherwise Your invitation invitation tion will give him an opportunity to express certain Ideas that probably ably he would wo be glad to get off of his chest chests or to refuse to do so on the ground that actions speak louder than words Certainly this sort of French Trench Leave that boys think they should take after having gone steady with a. a girl Is a most undesirable trait They should at least acc accord rd the girl the courtesy of 01 an explanation n after she has given her time and hospitality hospital hospital- ity over a period of time for their entertainment But I shouldn't t worry too much about this situation Perhaps after all this boy of your dreams is in reality just that and nothing more Usually dream boys dont don't fit into reality Choose a boy companion toward to to- ward vard whom you have a practical sort of friendly feeling and rand interest him to the degree e that he he will want to w se see you oftener than at present The contrast should hould be good for you WHITE WHITE SPOTS Dear Miu Miss Blair Unfortunately hot dishes have been set on In my dining room table without adequate protection underneath and unsightly white spots have been left lefton lefton on the wood which Is it walnut Is there anything I can do to remove these spots without taking off the finish of the wood Many thanks ul Powdered pumice stone and linseed oil applied with a soft cloth rubbed dry and polished with the grain will remove the spots Another method that has been found effective is table salt and olive oil applied in the same manner S LUNCHEON SERVICE Dear Miss Mis Blair I am entertaining my bridge club at luncheon I should like to serve chicken and noodle stew Would It b be correct to serve this In Individual ram ramekins ekins' ekins I have these and would Like to use them but am doubtful as ps to io their correctness for a function of this this' natured nature Also just h how boW w are ramekins served Thank you MRS 0 O. Chicken Chicken and noodle stew is isa a particularly par par- fitting food to be served in ll ramekins whether the course isto Isto is isto to be an entree or the main course Usually ramekins are used for an entree b but t for tor a luncheon or an informal informal in in- formal dinner they could be very well served fO for the main course The food is of course prepared and cooked in the ramekin It Il is brought to the table on a small plate and pla placed d immediately on the service plate If It no service plate is used the ramekin is brought in on the small plate and set from a tray on the luncheon lunch eon plate Potatoes au gratin or other vegetables accompanying the ramekin would then necessarily be a aside aside aside side dish Dear Miss 1115 Blair I am employed In a small man office and my mana manager er is at present III ill In Inthe inthe the hospital Would It be all right For me to call can on him at th the hospital Shall I have a florist deliver some flowers with my card the day before I call Thank you DOUBTFUL Unless your manager sends for you do not call on him at the hospital Inquire Inquire In In- quire over the telephone of hospital officials officials' daily dally concerning his ress You may send the flowers or ora ora ora a basket of fruit the latter only by permission of the hospital dietician It would be better still if you sent a book or magazines of the kind he prefers to read U l MISERY SERY LOVES COMPANY Dear Miss Blair My husband objects to my dieting because he says he be never gets lets enough to eat unless I go 10 off the diet and on an orgy orcy of eating He needs to diet cUd too If he would only do so sowe sowe sowe we could both obtain results But when I have to cook coot for him the smell of the food makes me ravenous and I eat We might as well both be miserable together while we starve and then be happy when we eat but It never seems to work out that way What do you ou advise DIETING That you ool cool down and explain your philosophy to your husband It Itis Itis is true that misery loves company but also does happiness Then when you do eat prepare delectable dishes that will make him glad he was one with you both in misery and joy |