| Show H HEA Come Com Comelo- Comelo to to-s to HA VEN RT T S Jj EA EAR R El With Wit Betty Betty- Blair Affairs of the heart bem and kindred problems ONLY will be discussed In this department Le Letters questions u and nd requests tc for tor adviCe e mould boud b be b bea a addressed sed to MISS arr r BLA BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only ono aide of oZ the pap paper r. r It is Sa necessary that you rou append the right name and antS address but these will be held beld In Lu strict confidence and end will by no means meana appear In print Letters requiring personal reply be accompanied by stamped envelopes Ed BOY DOY DISAPPOINTS Dear Miss Blair About three months before belore chool closed I started going with a very nl nice e boy I think he was as M much attracted to me as I to him We just seemed to live lire for th the evenings when we could see aee each other and md pour out our hearts to each other It n seemed scented we had so much to say there was vas never time tinie enough in which to say It all aU Each Euh wanted the other to know all about his past life lite in enry every detail He lIe hadn't gone rone with as many girls as I had with fellows and It n seemed to worry him that I had kissed most of the fellows n I had gone out with I tried to make him bins himo o understand thAt thai kissing them hadn't me meant nt a thing to tome tome tome I me that it ft seemed to be the usually accepted thing Other than his cousIns cousins cousins ins and sisters I was th the first girl he had kissed He lie would look at me and say I wish you yon hadn't kissed all those other guys us When he would say this I would feel stabbed to the heart hurt It just seemed that I didn't have a 00 good 1 excuse excuse ex ex- cuse for having done so We e both thought that love such as u ours re required required xe- xe a kiss and was p part of it Ii and that nothing less lees than this did When school cios dosed closed d he went up Into Int Id Idaho ho to work He lie told me before he left that I was his first love but he had Iud always s 's had It In Lu his mind that when he loved a a. girl other fellows fellows fel Eel lo lows couldn't look at her and remember her beT the times they had bad necked with her He lie said he was stilt still crazy about me lUe but that It was in spite of f himself He wrote me when chen he be first arrived at his destination I wrote him back Immediately and since that time I have not heard a word from him bIm di dI- dI Indirectly I have heard he was t taking another girl ont out In the lit littie little lit lit- tie tle town near which bleh he works work This nearly breaks me in two I didn't think It was possible for one human being to love another as I do him I loathe myself for giving away all those meaningless kisses as a common matter matter matter mat mat- ter of form when there was somebody real resl wailing for me to come to him Now Nov I am afraid I have lost him forever I Is there anything I I can do about It Be He see seems s so much a part of or my very soul loul that even to hear his name mentioned mentioned men men- makes me tingle from head held to foot fooL Shall I write him and tell him how I feel Thanking you ou EZRA No Ezra dont don't disclose your feelIngs feelings feel feel- ings on paper to your friend You may some time f feel l sorry for having done doneso so Spoken words may vanish Into thin air and nothing but the memory memory mem mem- ory cry of at them remain but the printed word may be produced as evidence against you long after the feelings which you describe have ceased to exist A good rule to follow is never neer to put anything on en paper that anybody at any time could read without producing producing pro pro- a feeling of dismay or shame In 10 the author Perhaps the boy has found his un kissed girl You Yu have alre already dy faced that possibility which if it true must continue to be faced You will not be bethe bethe bethe the first girl in the world who has had to learn to give up her sweetheart sweetheart sweetheart sweet sweet- heart and nd to live on on and like it But we really have our doubts about this being the case Not that there arent aren't girls whom he might find in any uny town but if it he hc loved you as much as you think you would not be so easily forgotten I Every boy has to sacrifice something to his love No girl is perfect While it may be a very fine ideal for ev every ry boyto look forward to that th the girl he loves will not nt have made h herself common by necking with every boy who takes her out as a mere matter of form toxin still he hmay may find that such a girl will lack in other characteristics or elements of or personality that he also had set up as asa a part of his IdeaL Then he must choose between values value Those which he consid considers rs the most worthwhile worth while he will be likely to hold fast to to the exclusion of the others Bide your time Ezra Let him have time for a little more experience experience ence and r reflection It is 15 easier to forgive when one is in love than to forget torget But you must give love time timeto timeto timeto to find itself ANOTHER RESPONSE near Dear Miss Blair We Wo are arc two girls who who- would like Uke to respond d to Ds version of the nod modem girl If D really thinks he has been out with every type of girl then he has bas a perfect right to say uy a they are all gold diggers If U this I is the only type he has encountered But we doubt this and he e Is wrong to place us os all aU In the same clue class Girls like Uke to be shown a good food time The boys bave have always assumed It was their privilege to pay for the enter enter- In the put and will wUl likely continue to think so hard as times time are We doubt doub much nuch that all aU boys ollow rollow Dos Ds train if pf f thought We Wo like outdoor ports p orts and other 4 arms of cheap ent en en- t e r t. t but bu these hue would ge get rei monotonous in time line LAND L AND M. M 11 If It the discussion has as done nothing nore than to cause better etter understanding understand understand- ing between boys and girls we shall not begrudge the space it has pied Th There re is nothing like hard hardtimes hardtimes times tIme to prove a persons person's real char char- acter actor The girl today who selects gold goldIn In preference to real worth brings down the wrath of her sisters as well as the opposite sex HANDS FOR BEAUTY Dear Miss Blair I think I have the ugliest hands of oi anybody I know So many hands I Ilave have lave seen are so lovely they seem seem lo to speak Please tell me how to make mine that way Thank you ELLIE Hands have personality They talk and sometimes they tell more about their owner than she wants told First of all In grooming your hands make sure that they are clean Tepid water a soft brush an and a soap that knows how to enter the pores and remove the dust and grime that has lodged everywhere are necessary Dont Don't use a highly scented soap Rinse in some more warm water Dry thoroughly Hand exercises of at course consist of simply pret pretending that you are pulling lulling on a pair of ot gloves and fitting them hem p perfectly Knuckles need specia special special cial cia attention Keep yours soft Dont Don't let et them jump out at people in a mad red ed manner Cream the ends of ot your fIngers and work the skin toward the tips Massage fingers individually lally once a week Make your hand limp imp Take the other hand and use itan it as an agent to shake your fingers one oneat oneat oneat at a time Circulation is b speeded up and circulation circulation cir cir- cir cir- is necessary for a vibrant wide awake hand After removing your hands from water use a hand lotion This will assist in correcting any tendency toward to ward dryness and arid roughness Gloves like stockings must never be e too small Make sure that your hand has ample room Tightness hinders hin hin- ders circulation and nd circulation is vital vitalo to o beauty I If you wear gloves for tor softening purposes after massaging or for protection when your hands are aren in n water insist on a size iu that is large enough to let your fingers do doas as they h y please If you follow a few simple rules anyone who reads your palm will find beauty lines IRISH SETTER FOR GIFT GIFTA A winning prize Irish setter needs a preferably among adults who ho will wilt appreciate his fine qualities as a a. hunting dog dor Call Hyland R fl or go ro to lOIS 1048 Windsor street for further further further fur fur- ther particulars S NOTE TO OPAL Our Oar circulars Treatment ment of Dry and Oily Hair and Blonde Blond Rinse will care for your problem nicely Give the oil oU treatments aa as directed until your hair begins functioning normally Use the blonde rinse to bring ou out the sunshine of your hair |
