| Show Conic to- to ff H AVEN 11 With h Betty Blab I AttaIn ot of the hem heart and kindred probes ms ONLY ONIX wU be In In this t f Letters questions uc requests for advIce sli should ass B BElTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN be to VI Write rite legibly upon only ono One side aide or ot the paper BALT LAKE It Is necessary ry that you append the right naj Dam num 1 r thea will wUl be held In tn strict confidence ao and bV address but bute will wn in print Letters requiring personal perron Tire reply mu Sue must by bo be n no means appear appear e tamped e self addressed ed envelopes Ed accompanied by J C IGNORANT OF WAYS OF LOVE Dear Miss 1 Blair VIf u I were not ao so appallingly ranI of matters concerning men sex gad ud love lore I X could probably work this problem out cutler for myself but I cant can't do Jo iJo and Ind nd am asking you to help belp me inc save I jay T l' romance from going on the rocks f f The man mm In the case Is big biff and fine and ud nd affected me inc from the beginning IS is no other ever had bad Ive I've been out with hundreds bundre of fellows but this one i seemed emed to fit right In with the family He lie seemed very affectionate and I lId let him kI kiss me often but lately his kisses have made me afraid of him and aDd I dont don't want him to touch me He agreed with me that it was no novise not vise for us to be together too much 10 10 sG In the event of his his' having a two weeks weeks' vacation when hen I might see him bin every night Instead of just over the week week-en week ends I t decided ed to be strong enough for both of us So instead of letting him take me In his Ma arms arm when be lie me I evaded him I could see he was hurt But I thought even this was better bett than the other way sin Since we C had bad already talked bIked of marriage mar mar- when he c could uld have money enough bough saved up he asked ed me ens If I II didn't love Jove him any more I told him himI I Idid did but reminded him that since o our or marriage was vas at least two hyo years awal we were going to stay by our decision not to kiss or caress cach each other as we had Iud been doing I let him go 10 0 away that night without kissing him goodnight Maybe I did wron wrong because the next day when be he came for me and we we went to the beach as usual he ho was different lie Be didn't even try to tob b hold bud ld my my hand band but lay on the sand and and slept most of the time lie He seemed hardly conscious I was there I went away and rrie crie but decided not to let him know bow how I felt When he woke up he ba didn't even try tryla to la find me Later we walked for or about three edits ailes on the damp I sand und on on ona a a. sloping 1 be beach h. h I was va really really real real- ly 11 very tired when i we came back and r protested walking nt on the pier He lie Hint talk to me all aU tie IWAY way home At home I went over and sat on the arm t f his chair and asked him what was wasie the ie matter and if he didn't love lore me meIn mei i In any n more He lIe said I guess 1 dont You Tea just were not made to be the mother of my children When I asked him why be he said wd The mother of my children must be strong Strong enough to help me lie He didn't think I iwas I was strong because I had got so tired walking on the beach lie He said saidI i I 1 didn't have any life Uee or passion in me He lie said he had bad changed the night before belore when I had showed him so 51 VIably plainly that I J was afraid of love Somehow 1 want my love to be free e et St th the Uit f fi eling Ung I J get when he kisses me Maybe I expect too much Maybe May May- tIn be that Is Ii a part of love that I just dont don't know how to cope with I want vant him him and love loe him but when his get Id sloppy floppy I have a feeling of cl re rev revulsion revulsion re- re v for him I want to play safe ufe sad tod still I want a happy normal ro ro ro- mance nance Can you help me BURLINGAME Passion must be a part of love in that a happy union be So far tar Burlingame you lave ave idealized love and have not been to passion This may be inc to your our Immaturity of years It nay be due to the fact that you do not MW low and never will have a feeling or or this man that thatis is a mixture of spirit spirit- it- it ial al love and passion Sometimes pas- pas is awakened in an idealistic girls girl's icart only after marriage to the man jf f her choice Then rhen indeed her mate matelas mateas ia las as a tremendous responsibility of caching ching her th the elements clements of human Love ove without driving her from him Jr T r arousing in her a feeling of ion for him Every girl needs to educate herself Lo 10 o th the reality of life and love before arriage It would save many a marriage mar from rom going on the rocks You have a very wonderful public library in your city Obtain from it ite the e following books and read them thoroughly The Psychology of Marriage by W. W M. M Gallichan Love Loveid Lovend and id Marriage by T. T W. W Galloway The he Marriage Crisis by E. E R R. Modern Marriage by Paul Sex and Common Sense yA iyA A. A M. M Royden Happiness in Marriage Mar by Margaret Sanger CONFIDENCE NEVER NEVEE VER DISCLOSED Dear Deu Miss Blair Some time lime ago IO I wrote you a letter kiting all nIL about my love affair with 1 I young man mm and nd about the quarrel we Ife b had which broke us up He lie Is Xing to tell tel me now that he knew all we the time that I wrote that letter and anda a t to prove it he wrote to you ask ask- Lar t for tor my name and that you gave ItCo it itt Co him bi 1 I At t the heading heading- of your column you youlay y lay that thai the real name must be given l tat but that this will be held in strict confidence Miss Blair I just know raa didn't give f e him my name but I want kant you yon to say so in your column so that Jut be he will stop slop talking to me about f. f Please print this WORRIED Yo You can ean set your heart at case ease on onue the ue matter of our ever disclosing the I Ume of a corr correspondent to anybody Worried We mean just what we weY wely 17 ly Y in the heading of the column that eal 1 names must be given civen but that es ese will be kept in fri the strictest con con- den dence e. e Furthermore we have never elved a letter from your sweet sweet- tart ears asking for the name of the perm per per- Jn m n who wrote the letter revealing plain tain love affairs or any other mat mat- mat mat-I IS You may be assured we would I not give the name to him had he done doneso so nor will we ever disclose a name under any circumstances as many have already found out Furthermore we receive many letters from different different differ dUler ent correspondents dealing with the same problems in similar manner S BEAUTIFUL EA NAILS Dear Miss Iss Blair Blar Please tell ten me how to take care o omy of my nails at home l I My iy income does not allow of a weekly manicure thaI that tha I have been accustomed to having Thank you LOUISE Tepid water soap and na nail l brush must perform the first function of the manicure Then file your nails with a soft flexible metal file lIe Use an upward motion from the sides toward the center The shape in which you file ile them should be that best adapted to the cushions of your fingers Rounded founded pointed and sharp nails are all accepted Soak your hands and push back the cuticle Use an orangewood stick tipped in cotton and dipped in cuticle c remover for tor this step Remove the dead skin from beneath the nails with the he orangewood stick and arid snip all the I loose han hanging ing skin kin with the cuticle scissors but do not cut the cuticle Itself Push the cuticle back daily dally after washing the hands Wash your hands agnin dry them and then begin the polishing act NOTE TO P S. S Kindly send a stamped self self-ad- dressed envelope elope for our circular Blonde Rinse Follow Instructions to o get rid of the streaked condition of your our blonde hair ANNIVERSARY GIFT Dear Miss 1 Blair I am very ery low Jaw on funds and yet yd want to so much to r Kake ake an anniversary anni annl ver ry gift gUt How can I do this In Inexpensively inexpensively In in- expensively n l Many thanks CHURCH MOUSE 1 Write a note with an original verse or at least expressing warmly your personal regard and offering congratulations congratulations con con- or send an appropriate card or if it you can cnn afford them a few tew flowers lowers Garden flowers will vill be lovely ovely if you have them Real friends will understand and will appreciate the he kindly remembrance People must get away from the idea that it NOTE TO I B. B takes money to preserve friendships Our circular Games for Adults will assist you jou ou materially In entertainIng entertain entertain- Ing ng your our friends at an outdoor party part Kindly send a stamped tamped self-addressed self envelope for it |
