| Show t. t ii A AI I LETTY Letters and questions for forthe the department ent should hould be addressed to Miss MI Betty Blair Hearts Heart Haven aven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on one side j of ot the paper It Is necel necessary ary to append yo your r name and addre but these are ire held In confidence and will not be published Lost and f found und notices cannot be published In the column A 9 MARRIED MEN EN D Dear lar- lar Miss Blair Brair r Tarn ram am coming to you with my problem as so many do I am m 18 years year ra old ord and en engaged to be mar mar- ried ned Nearly all of my girl friends are already ready marri married d. d I guess it is is s true true- that girls girl in hi small towns marry marry younger than city girls p do Yesterday I went to an afternoon part party parly where all these married chums chum of mine were They are all alla alla a a year OP or two w older order than I I. I and their being married makes them seem seem much older order and wiser Miss Miu Blair Blairr they y got on the subject 0 of married men stepping other women than their wives I don dont don't t kno know what whai they were thinking about tin un- less leu each ach wife excepted her own husband but bitt they all decla declared ted that all Jill married married- f men go out cut t wi with other w women men I r stuck up for the men and said saidI I didn't beli it it But ut they s swore ore and Arid declared it was so 10 Were they j just st stringing me ne because I am am an engaged ng ged girl or is this true about married men If it is I am never ever g going ig to get married I I. I would rather g give gie e up uP my swee sweetheart heart whom I love rove with my whole my-whole whole heart and soul then than to marry matry him and give him hirt up to another woman af af- af Oh please tell tel me that these W women were weri wrong wrong and and yetI yet I 1 want to know the tr truth th Also Miss Miss' Blair Brair please prease a answer thi this question Should a girl contribute contribute con con- tribute to the collection plate when ah the she is is' accompanied to church b by a ayoung a yo young young- young man man who pays a liberal amount Thanking you for the te help r Ik ow I shall receive DISTRACTED f A parlin you remind us of ot the English tourist who had just ar arrived ar- ar rived America and was writing home While rhUe he was was writing writing- the Uie chambermaid who had red hair came In Ir to c change t the l linen and h he pr n wrote rote This I is a queer The chambermaids have hric re red rc h hair h Xo while hIl hU it is true tru that some men do doso so go go out with other women omen it U.- Is s not more generally true truc than that tuat all American maids have red cd hair And we e cann cannot can can- can can- n 11 not think that hat y your ur friends were In the belief complacently saying s so tl that t th they j were ere sp speaking truthfully If It so so the there there- are arc l' l malt many maily modern Ananiase se among mong us oC ot the fairer ec th wc had hitherto believed Observing the wives of ot some m. m men n we have often orten wondered why some men were as as' faithful as the they are But there r U are arc re Some n men en are are just b by nature faithful Others arc arn aas as hard to hold as quicksilver The rhe sa same Mme e is true of ot only ohn oh n as an a. a a whole more are faithful faithful faith falth- ful ful u than men nien They are more generally generally gen gen- with Ith th the duties of OCI home children 1 and nd th the tho thousand sand and or on 5 services series es of oC narrIed na life tha than n mii and men ale are then they lia haVene nt o many nHun- temptations It Js Js all according to o the tho na nature and andl l typo n of oC the individual A woman nho wb ho would hold her husband must d lo ao O by me means ns of ot tho many bland blan- blan d she emI employed in her pre pre- marriage days das Many women as as- urne o the attitude altitude that once they man m n their theft worries are are ov r fLet I Let et me inc tell you u worries 1 begun begun if if lt worry be used sly with arts and md deVices devices de- de vr Vices es necessary to be employed to toe keep kp e p a a aman a man interested keep keel him Rt at home in his leisure hours and Inlove in inlove love Iove with his wife jn In regard to your qu question of or the Coll collection cUon l J tc let Jet me say ay that the J l f represents the chUrchs support support sup sup- port and nl g should be he contributed t to toby by all aU members who can afford it 1 iou Iso wih t to give what hat you can nothing whatever to do with your sweethearts sweetheart's contributions L US hear fL from m you again JO TO rO ORGAN ORGANIZE ZE ORCHESTRA Dear Miss Blair Brair J This il i is my first venture into frito your cozy corner orner and I hope I am wel- wel cone e. e I lam am organizing a a four o r piece pece orchestra and am badly In In need heed of ofa a g id pianist I would like a boy preferably of cur our own ages ages which h average 17 years He must be able abre to tor d ad piano music at sight My telephone number erl is i. Hyl Hyland nd 1 J. 1180 T Thanks l. l J. J C. C C. C 1 h I find i itt your pl pianist b by means of e his announcement anno In the col coI column mn We Pe think your our IH project so satisfactory I to 1 that we we wonder vonder more more young people do d not organize their abilities s in like manner The practice tl tice makes excellent training tk t Ji BOTANY BOT V B BOOKS De Dear Deir lr MilS Mias Blair summer BUmmer and a autumn mo month th I do quite a lot of hiking In the In h mountains mountain in and aid J I I find many plants and shrubs shrub that I Iy I 1 Lf y would d lik like t to know the names of arid and tI their ul uses st if they have Jave any you tell where e I could get got geta a book containing this information Thank you yot for fop any help yo you may b bible babie able t to give MR MRS M M. M I. I LBurton L. L I Burton Eurton 0 O. Longyear ar ha hap WL written a IL ook entitled d Tee and Shrubs bs of tl the Rocky Mountain 1 Region Regon that b by D D. P. P Putnam m Sons Sons- 2 West Forty fifth Direct I New NewYork e Tork or Y Your u book store will m be to ord order r the book for YO you Wild Flowers Every cry Child ChUd Should I Fifty Flower Friends With tho the first b by Fred Fred- y erick erich W. W V. V Stokes the tile second by Edith Dunham would b be a a. a valuable valuable- addition n. n Flowers and plants sent to the ethe botany department University of Utah In care of Professor Leo LCt C. C Fisk will be anul analyzed z d for you OU providing providing pro pro- viding enough of or tho tim plant plant- plantis is sent henl Blossom Blosom green Jea leaves Yes stem stein and a portion o of the I root OOL should bo bG sent ent for purposes of or analyses ses We Ve aro arc sure stile you must derive grea great reB t- t pleasure leasur from your hikes with such a a. d de delightful de- de purpose I in vIey HAT BATHING PROBLEM Dear Miss Miss Miss' Blair First of all I want want- to thank you for the answers to my my first questions ques sent to to your cozy corner I want to get a a white felt fert hat ht f for r fall falland falland falland and winter wear as white seems to be the best color to go with the hc rest of my winter clothes I should shourd like to know how t to clean a white felt fert hat Would it b l all aU right to t take ke a 11 warm bath th and then a cold shower hower any ny hour in the day or should shourd the warm bath be taken at night and the tho cold cord sh shower w r in the morning The last way would be bc a a little in inconvenient inconvenient in- in convenient for me mc Any information information information tion you can ve me regarding this matter I sh shall H appreciate In which water I should shourd the the bath bath ath salts and toilet water wafer be bet put Thank yOU you sincerely S S. O. O 5 S. S The TIle matter of or cues bathing must must of ot course be adapted to ones one's conditions conditions con con- rind a ri dall daily warm bath with witha a c cold ld shower afterward could very cry well replace the warn warm evening bath and the cold plunge or r shower sho first thing thing- in iii the morning at it whatever l hour our in the day it Jt is convenient for you OU to take it it Tho The bath salts is used in the regular regular- bath water or if ir one one onet t takes a rinse bath dh Instead of or a shower put in tho the latter Jitter Toilet Toilet Toi Toi- I let water is used to spray spra over the body after the bath and andis is is not put into the water A A white hat w washed in naphtha gas Just as one would uld clean anything anything any any- thing else will keep tho the hat clean But my dear may I suggestion tion that if It you ou are to have b but t the tho one hat you ou will be kept Icon Icon- constantly constantly con con- cleaning it for or winter wear Whites and oU other er light felts arc are worn torii for spring and summer but felts felts' are aro k daf-k for fall all and winter Is the there re no other shade that will viII nize in c color lor with ith the cloth clothes s I you you OU have One who can wear white can an also wc weir wear l black and a black blackhat blackhat hat for tor winter wear wear would give far more service er than the white Think it it over You are welcome WEIGHT CALORIES DATE Dear Blair This is my first attempt to enter yo your r corner corner and I hope I wont won't be too much b bother tJ r. r I am 16 16 years years old ord and 4 feet fit 4 t inches inches tall How much sho should rd I 1 weigh I am amnot am amnot amnot not fat from the waist up but from rom the wai waist t down I j am am too fat My knees knees' nees' nees are especially large How Howshall Howshall shall aU I reduce them I II go to high school schoor and could you tell teU me how many calories J f. f should l eat each cacti day My jast question i is on what day did dd February 18 1913 fall faIl I hope I haven't bavent asked too too m many ny questions M MM M. M M I You should weigh in the thc neighborhood neigh neigh- b of or ninety eight po pounds M M. M. M Take trunk bending and twisting exercises ses to reduce from the waist down Stand erect hands handson on hips and bend the body forward for forward for for- ward sideways s. s both oth l left heft tt and right and backward Sit ona on a chair with first right Ight and then left heft lC ex ex- ex i- i fended tended straight out Jut Rota the the knees ten or or twenty times ea each h morning and night Try kicking the thc top of Or your our bedroom door with each ch leg alternately ten times night and antl morning for knee reduction For your OUr weight and sedentary occupation occupation tion you OU should cat eat in the i neigh neighborhood of or 19 1960 0 calories each day clay Send for our prepared leaflet leaflet- which at last last- t we are arc e. e ready for our readers readers' on readers on diet and an I ing inS stamped self addressed envelope with your our February IS 18 1913 fell on Tues rues da day We arc are glad l d to answer all your our questions J JANET NET GAYNOR R Drar Dear Miss Ms Blair Brair Will you please teH me how old Janet Jariet Ga is s 's Also and weight nc nr the color fit nr her eyes yes and hair Th Thank you ou G G. G GB B B. B i Janet Gaynor Is 22 2 years old weighs pounds is 5 feet tall talland talland and has bro brown n eyes e and auburn hair WOMEN URGED TO HELP OWN SEX SEX- IN N BUSINESS NEW EW YORK CAP Ap patronage of oC women by WOm is Itc advocated by Miss Miss' I cna fn Phillips honorary honor honorary r- r ary president of th tho National RI IFe- IFe Federation Fed Ped- of oC Business s' s and Profession al Women omen The Slie believes believes' that Hint if Jf women me arc are areto to obtain opportunity and equal pay a with wilb men they must help each other In lil a a. bu business wa way Before her retirement from Crom the pre presidency in ln June Miss Mss urged a a. business reciprocity eity pro pro- gram An experiment In this thI al alre already already al- al re ready d has beep been tried hy hythe tl the c Mississippi Mis Mis- branch of ot the thc federation B By the tho plan each ach m member of a group of women selects Iron from her a acquaintances live w women whose product or skill considers consider ns worthy of r of her r She systematically promotes s these for a a. pell period d of three 1 C l C |
