Show OME COl TO TO- 1 HEARTS HEART'S HA HAVEN YEN VEN 1 I 11 0 With BETTY BEIr BLAIR Affairs of ot the heart and kindred problems ONLY will be discussed I In this department Letters question and for dv be bc addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN r TELEGRAM SALT LAK LAKE Write legibly upon only one side of ot the paper PIP It Is necessary lIry that you append the right name und Pond address but these will be held In Jn strict confidence and Wilt will by no means appear In print prints Ed VACATION FRIEND Dear Deir Miss Mh Blair La Last t summer I went to Honolulu for or my vacation On the boat I met meta a college boy who was oln to 0 Hone Hone- lulu to take a a. position lie He was the very nicest bo boy I have ever met We bad had a a. wonderful Ume time on the boat and after afur we reached Honolulu he looked me mc up and we went places and saw things and spent some very happy happ times time together on the beach a JJ Since my return we have corresponded corresponded corre corre- and now he Is Ia askIng if It he may not come here In the summer for or his hb vacation I just dont don't know what to say to him I want him to come and md yet I am afraid to get rd t too o deeply In love with him I do no not think he is the marrying marr in kind and I am I want a husband and home and babies babica I want the permanent life lite I want things to call my own And I dont don't want any heartbreak mixed up In It lie He writes the most Interesting let let- rs lIe He reminds me often of our good rood times together I know he expects ex cx- they will be repeated and I fear ear earthe they the wont Hawaii Itself lent so much to our happy vacation I hate to have Ju him come and let him find ind the gone rone I should like to remember re reo remember member him always as he was An experience repeated can never be the same What shall I do LUANA You are afraid of ot reality t Luana Why be afraid You will vill have to face Cace It one day It is true that the same experience is never repeated twice with the same emotional response re But why not accept the experience experience ex for its present and potential value You are afraid to have your our friend come for fear all the and romance romance ro roo mance of your previous encounter will be gone cone Even so the experience ence will be valuable for its own worth And nothing except time itself it itself self sel can dim the memory of ot the happy time past Memories l are permanent permanent perma nent things as much as tangible things are permanent All of oC our experiences experiences ex ex- are permanent things since they help to build the sum total of ot what we are The richer the ex experience experience ex- ex whether for weal or woe the he more valuable our hoard of oC treasure treas treas- ure ure ure-it if we can glean just one little truth from each Even heartbreak is a valuable cx cx- if it you dont don't let it get you There is a peace to be found in heartbreak heart heart- break after you have come through he the mill that is found in no other way Nothing can touch you then or harm you Dont Don't be afraid of life Dont Don't be afraid to let your friend come Dont Don't fear rear the consequences even though you may have to say Hail and farewell fare tare farewell well and nothing more Dont Don't let your life JiCe fall tall into the dull monotony that lack of oC experience can bring Reach out your hand to grasp each new untried opportunity that comes your way as you would for a jewel that was offered you ou And keep all the jewels little and big ble brightly polished But you must distinguish between opportunities and pitfalls The pitfalls reward you ou with no Jewels jew Jew- els They have no value except to stand as warnings of what never to todo todo todo do again It seems to me that your friends friend's coming is an opportunity HUSBAND UNKIND Dear Miss Blair I dont don't know what this old world i Is coming carnine to It isn't enough that we should have to suffer because of the depression but the depression It Itself Itself It- It self leU mu must t change chane those we love lo My husband Is fa capable of doing doln skillful work but he can only find work vork to todo todo do now and then I have tried to be cheerful at home to keep up appearances appear appear- an ances es to keep the children happy In spite of ot the thinK thIngs they cant can't have but even so the gloom ii is upon us My husband was the kindest m mst mt st considerate man in the world Now he speaks harshly both to me and nd the children and seems seem all wrapped up In his discouragement He hates him him- r CO 1 r self for tor the way he treats us but he cant can't seem to overcome it lie He says the most cruel things to me as If It 1 I were in some way to blame for all the bad luck that has lias come our oura a way It just seems sometimes as If It I couldn't go on another day with things as u the they are Please help me SORROWFUL Once in the long ago there was to tobe tobe tobe be a great contest between musicians who were competing for a noble prize One musician had practiced hours of oC each day and night to win the money he needed it so badly When the day came and it was this I musicians musician's turn to play he put his whole soul into inlo the performance and it seemed the prize would be his when suddenly his E string broke At just that instant a cricket hopped on his violin and chirped out the required required re re- required note The day was saved forthe for forthe forthe the one in need You must continue to be the thc cricket that chirps in time to save the day for Cor all of ot you It takes courage and will power and endurance But these arc are your possessions Use them con con- The violinist may win the prize but he will never for forget et after the hard struggle that it was the crickets cricket's cheerful chirp that made him lim win MAKEUP PROBLEM Dear Miss Blair lair I have fair wavy hair a clear clur complexion complexion com corn and blue bine eyes I am never successful In snaking making in up my face Either I dont don't buy the right shades of ot powder rouge roue and lipstick or else elseI I dont don't know how to apply them Will you help me MYRNA The blonde must be bc more skillful in her application of cosmetics than her dark haired sister or she will appear artificial and uninteresting If IC her brows are colorless a very slight application of ot light brown pencil pen cil may be applied but here too care must be exercised A very light rachel powder will blend with the natural tint of oC the fair Cair skin A soft tome of ot rose rouge placed slightly below the cheek bones will bring out the oval contour Lip rouge too must be of a lighter shade than that usually worn by the brunette The blonde who has her eyebrows plucked to a mere wisp wilfully disfigures dis dis' disfigures figures herself and lessens the beauty of ot her blue eyes Wear black white all pastel shades and all shades of ot blue and the softer greens green Avoid shades of oC orange harsh yellows and most shades o of red FACIAL BLEMISH Dear Miss Blair II There is quite a a. large larKe red blotch that comes quite frequently on my I face just below the eye ee I dont don't know what causes cause it It though it appears I sometimes after I w wash h my face Can Canyon you yon please tell me how I can get ret rid of ot it Thank you P PAM A I. I There are arc so man many causes for tor blotches of ot the kind you describe Pam Tarn that you would have ha to have havea a thorough diagnosis by a skin specialist specialist specialist to determine the thc particular Irregularity that causes yours ours Watch your our diet closel closely Do not cat eat rich foods nor foods strongly spiced Stimulating beverages are arc also hard hardon I Ion on skins that are arc sensitive Take plenty of or exercise e and drink at least two quarts of or water daily dally Buttermilk often orten helps one who ho has digestive dis dis- dis Try drinking one or two glasses of ot buttermilk daily for a awhile while Get plenty of oC sleep and dont don't forget the daily dally bath with the brisk rubdown following NOTE TO IDA Kindly send a a. stamped self ad dressed envelope for or our circular on Games Game for Adults A long list of games are ue described and a a. number o of books listed which may be had bad at atthe atthe atthe the public library and which contain games for tor every occasion |