Show COME ContE TO TOi i HEARTS HEART'S HA VEN YEN I. I With BETTY BLAIR oJ I Dear Miss 1 Blair While away at college this year I Imet Imet met a Cr very cry Interesting boy Our friendship grew and before I came came home for the summer zummer vacation I was I liking him more than an anyone one I knew V When I left he took me to the train It has hos now been several months and ond andI ondI F I have not he heard from him until the he theother oi other er night when ho he called by long lone i distance telephone and asked me inc why I had not written I told him that I had be been n waiting wafting for tor a n letter from him He lie said that I was wrong that I should have writt written n first We argued a minute then I changed the subJect subject sub sub- talking bIking about our plans for school this year When he said goodbye good bye he did not mention writing to me Inc Miss Blair this has spoiled my whole vacation I have ha watched for forthe the tho postman all summer and I feel that It would be foolish to eJ expect ct a letter leUer now after the telephone con con- erso What am I to do Should 1 I have hare written first I would like to lo I renew o our our r friendship BLUE A short friendly note written withIn within with with- in two weeks aft after r you ou left your friend to let lct him know that you ou were home and that he might write to such and such an address would have averted the whole misunderstanding A young oung man needs encouragement and usually usual usual- ly 13 will not otherwise show such at ate ak After Alter he escorted you ou to the train you ou should have hare written and arid thanked him even 1 If U bu did not care to continue nuo corresponding He has hns taken the first step now in renewing l old friendship and if you ou are arc wise you ou will write immediately Be sure to make it an Interesting letter hotter so that he will want another soon One or two letters between you ou should clear up the standing S TIIA THANK YOU NOTE Dear Bear Miss l Blair I have ha just returned from my vacation vaca vaca- ton tion where I met two nice Cr very boys bos who bo took me out One of them was wasa a relative c of the friend I visited d. d I Idid Idid Idid did not get a chance to say goodbye g to one of them as I was called ba bas Ji rather unexpectedly Would it be correct for me to write to them and thank them for the good bood times they showed me rue I thank you yon ou for all the help you have given me through your column BOBBY DOBBY It would be a a. breach of etiquette for you ou not to do so Bobby Thank you ou notes to people who have entertained enter enter- tamed us are as necessary as the bread and butter notes of thanks due duea a kind hostess Dont Don't forget to write such ucha sucha a not nota to your hostess either I NEVER TOO OLD Dear Miss Blair My ly g greatest desire all my life has been to get an education I am now 42 years old Do you think I am too loo old to start now to gratify my wish and if Ie not where could a woman of my age go to receive this education I only went as far as the seventh grade but but- butI I have never nc b been n able to get the Idea off oft my 01 mind that I an on education CRAVING EDUCATION It depends on how much you have let the thou thought ht of AGE ossify your mind and body C E. E as to whether you can now start in to satisfy your era cravings In years you ou are arc still a ayoung ayoung young woman If you have good health and an active mind these coupled with your desire for an education edu edu- cation should remove all barriers Many a man and woman now famous fa Ia- n has started at a chronologically greater age than yours ours to achieve a a. career Mental and physical buoyancy buoyancy buoy buoy- ancy is the real test of youth Personality charm poise belief in yourself and your our own powers to win are assets that will help you achieve your our goal more quickly The state university which offers much in its extension courses correspondence schools night school under the city supervision all offer means of gratifying gratifying gratifying your wish You are doubtless more educated than you think if U you ou have made contacts with life and kept up with your reading There ar are many educated people in the world who have not applied themselves themselves themselves them- them selves to obtain what is known as a formal education Experience Is a wonderful teacher Certa Certainly if you youcan youcan ou can do so gratify your our desire for a n formal education WRINKLES UNDER EYE EYES Dear Miss 1 Blair I have tiny wrinkles under my iy eyes Will you yon please t tell 11 me what to lo do to remove them Thanking you yoa B B. B Practice this dutiful daily dally massage to eradicate e eye e wrinkles Sit before before before be be- fore your jOur mirror and cultivate a cheerful expression Dip the ml middle dle fingers in a good beauty oil and trace an arc from the eyebrow rounding the eyes' eyes comers corners to the cheek bones Do it lightly but firmly Every third I Affairs of the trie Heart beart and nd kindred kindred kin kin- dred problems ONLY will be dl- dl S I I cussed in this department Letters questions and r requests I 0 for advice should be bo addressed to 0 MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S 0 H HA V B EN N. N TELEGRAM SALT SALTS S LAKE Write legibly upon only I one ouo side or ot the paper r It 18 Is necessary ry that you append the right name Dame and nod address but butI I these will b be held beld In strict confidence ecu con and nd will oy Dy no means mesne appear appear ap ap- pear peor in itt print Ed I J I 4 stroke stop right at the corner of the eyes and make tiny circles with the finger tips Ups Dip finger tips again and work lightly from the corner of the eyes out in a a. straight line toward the thc temples Remember to keep lIght lightness of touch and fingers well oiled I PROBLEM OF EX SAILOR Dear Miss Blair I have been reading Hearts Heart's Haven Ha and the affairs 0 of the petty lovers for some time I suppose they'll all live through it f for r as you ou say times a a. great healer Now for my own problem I am an ex Just Justas as soon as the girls find tind that out about mc me they give gl me the cold shoulder shoal der derno no matter how friendly they were before This embarrasses me mo very cry I much Please tell me why it Is that girls are all so prejudiced against the fellows who have been in the navy and are now trying tr-ing to be good civilians civil iI lan ians I know that most girls think the gobs all get drunk carouse around aroune until un un- til II the early hours of or the morning smoke heavily and dont don't know how howo to o behave toward the tho ladles ladies This is s not true truc Believe Belle it or no not Ive I've never nc drunk smoked or caroused around Yet as soon as a girl finds out ut Im I'm a sailor I get the air One girl said to me when I asked her for fora a date Sorry old dear but my mother never allows me mc to go with wilh sailors What can cnn I do to get gel rid of that terrible stigma that Is attached to the he mere name of gob I learned In n the navy that a gentleman allows the he girls girl to lo decide where to lo go and what to do for entertainment Is that hat a good rule to cling cling- to I have ha tried that rule ou out but bul it doesn't seem to o work Wh Why even en my old schoolmates schoolmates school school- mates will hardly speak to me inc since I have baye returned from the navy Y to be bea a civilian once more EX Prejudices will always sway the mob Ex The thing for you ou to do is to continue living as a gentleman gentleman gen gen- and a 3 sailor would do and keep your ey eye eya open for the few girls In n the minority who accept an Individual individual Indi vidual for what he Is worth and not for what prejudice would set him up to be Sad it is but true that the actions of some sailor boys have established d a reputation for all sailor boys s 's that is far from true It Is so sOl sOlan with an any group who arc are closely closel held together by a common belief bellef or set sel rules of discipline The wrongdoing of one or two can wreck the reputation reputation tion of a whole hole crowd But remember ber this they cannot wreck the characters characters char char- act rs of any but themselves The discipline that obtains In the naV navy the training and examples of men high in office should be a safeguard safeguard safe sat e guard from any such stigma But this Is s never the case Se for as the poet said The evil e that men do lives after them the good is oft Interred with their bones People who are not swayed by prejudice know that there are as fine young joung men in the navy as were ever out of it Do a little parlor advertising ad boy for forthe forthe forthe the fine discipline and the high standard standard standard stand stand- ard of morality taught the navy boys and let people know that when the rules are broken it is because of the weakness of a few and not the willIngness willingness will will- of the many HEADDRESS FOR BRIDE Dear Miss Blair Is it correct for a bride to wear a headdress either cither veil or hat during the ceremony in a a. church Thank you ou WANT TO with a formal format for for- Yes Want Know mal mat bridal costume a bride will wear wea weara a veil with a semiformal costume a ahat ahat ahat hat with a going away costume a a. hatIn hat In any event some form of headdress head dress is worn with the corresponding costume when the ceremony takes take place In a church |