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I C Come me to to Hearts Heart's t sHa Haven En I With BETTY BLAIR ELAIR BROKEN BROKE ENGAGEMENT Dear Miss Blair I am m 23 years eus old and live lire In a email town I went with a man for foi three years rears and nd then he asked me meto meto meto to marry him But when the depression depres depres- sion slon came he thought we had better wait It a while hUe as Ls he lost Jost his job and went to the city to work My 11 has hils' been announced announced an an- flounced and everybody In town to knew I was supposed to marry this man Some of the even bad had parties and nd showers for me me and I had my trousseau ready My sweetheart wrote to mo me every day for tor about a n month After that he wrote three times ft a week and then his letters dwindled d to one one a week Then suddenly suddenly suddenly sud sud- denly without an any I re received re- re a telegram telling me that the engagement was WilS all aU off There was no no excuse and no pretense at an apology nor has he written me one line of explanation since I feel that the whole situation Is beyond endur endurance At first I thought I would commit suicide but later decided that no man was WitS worth that much But the humiliation Is almost more snore than I can b bear r. r 1 My friends have tried to console me mc and have saId Bald I will be better off oU without him Others h have ve thought I should sue suc him for breach of promise I believe I could have let him go and forgiven him had he gone about It In a nice way to break things off oft But now I feel that I can never forgive forIe forgive for for- give I e him Do you think I should sue him for breach of promise JILTED In the courts today thc the breach of promise action Is considered as a le legal legal legal le- le gal contract and construed closely as such Euch You must have proof that a contract to marry existed between you ou You may have sufficient evidence evidence evidence evi evi- evi- evi dence In lii the letters he has written you If you feel reel that by suing this man and getting payment in money mone your wounded feelings will receive balm th that t th the unmerited disgrace brought upon you by his heartless ac action action action ac- ac tion will b be alleviate and that probably probably proba proba- bly blythe the solitude you would otherwise feel because of his desertion will be somewhat l lessened ened then we feel that you ou should go ahead with your our suit sulL We do feel however that there has been much abuse In breach of promIse promise promise prom prom- ise suits but In your case we are arc in inclined in- in cUned to think that thata a man who can canso canso so ro heartlessly sly break a contract in involving in- in the human affections should be taught a lesson The final linal decision as to what you ou will do about It If I anything must rest with you Would such action Injure you ou Inthe Inthe in inthe the estimation of the friends who have remained true and loyal t to ro you ou Do they not moan mean more In the way of 01 helping you to reestablish your yourself 1 in inhuman human contacts than any amount of money you could wring from Irom your fiance ex would do Think i it over NO LONGER FRIENDLY Dear Miss I Blair About four weeks ago I met a young fellow who treated me very well until about a week rcck ago t then en he just seemed to turn against me rue for some reason or other i I I. have a 3 girl friend who lives right next deer t to this boy and I visit h het he in the Afternoons 2 as he works until unto 8 ocl k But when I do see him he dc nt speak or doesn't seem to know Im I'm there Now I have hare another girl friend who accused me of going roin to the first girls girl's place for no other than t to get getto to see sec this fellow She also told me that this fellow never did like me And that sh could have ha had hIm herself If she had not been going steady with another tel lei low This cut me badly d What shall I do I am ant nearly 16 years cars old and my father and mother both like this boy very much and his mother seems to like Uke me a lot Im I'm considered d good looking for my age e. e Thanking you BOY Neither your our parents nor nr his can make the match natch for you Boy Cr Crazy Young people today prefer pre pre- fer ier to make their own If this boy bor shuns huns you ou you are probably at fault for letting him know how much you rou like him Why not Invite the thc girl who lives es next door to the boy to Isit visit you at your home rather than have it appear that you arc running I aft alter after him Nothing can sicken a aboy aboy boy on a girl quicker than to let him mow you are hunting him Why not try leaving lea him entirely alone He cant can't see your good qualities quail quail- 1 ties for thinking that you ou are bo boy crazy crazy about him Give him time in which to get over this idea Let him make the first advances ad to be friends Then rhen you ma may be sure your friends will wUl not be accusing you wrongfully Why not forget forset all aU the boys entire entirely for lox a while until you ou get over being boy struck truck about them You dont don't want your friends s repeating such things about you so show them definitely deli deli- that It Isn't true And there will bo ho plenty plent of 01 time for you to fall fallIn fallin fallin In love loye later on SALLOW COl COMPLEXION ON Dear Miss l Blair My skin is cry very sallow Is there anything I can do t to correct It No matter what I wear nothing n looks well veil on me inc because became of my yellowish vish skin kin Thank you for any auy suggestions you ou may make ADDlE ADDIE The sallow complexion Is more than skin deep To correct it begin e each ch day with a a. bath a cool rinse rin and a rub Drink a glass of orange Juice or lemonade every ery morning before bre breakfast k t. t Eat plenty of ot fresh fruits and ve vegetables and take a brisk walk walkin in the fresh air daily preferably daily preferably early in the morning during the summer summer sum sum- mer flier months to escape the beat A sallow skin kin is sometimes the thc re relt result re- re sult lt of a a. sluggish mind as well as a sluggish skin Keep your mind healthy and alert keep your our blood in good circulation if you ou would have havea a clear healthy skin REFRESHMENTS AFTER BRIDGE Dear Miss Blair I am having some mme friends In for bridge one evening next week They are arc business associates of my bus bas band and their vi wh I have hac never nefer entertained at bridge antI and I do dont don't lt know just how hon refreshments should be served or exactly what to serve Thanking ug jcu cu uj imS T T. The tea wagon Is 15 a convenience on which to serve SIrve refreshments alter after bridge It may b be prepared In the kitchen and rolled Into the living room when ready read to serve erve Or the bridge table ma may be covered with a lunch cloth and lemonade and sandwiches sandwiches sandwiches sand sand- served from it U To set a table formally for after after- bridge refreshments is too suggestive o ot of a meal The Thc lap luncheon is bet bet- to ter The host hostess sits site at the table and anc i Affairs of the heart hem and r kin kindred Ln S dred problems ONLY will t b be dla- dla cussed In 10 this department I and requests Letters questions for tor advice should be addressed to toS S MISS MISO BETTY BLAIR BLAm HEARTS HEART'S I H RAVEN HAVEN A V E N TELEGRAM SALT 0 LAKE LAE Write Writh legibly upon only 0 ono one side of the paper pl r I Itis that you rou append g gI I tho thu right name and address adress but g gI I these will be held in Sn strict confidence con eon I and Wilt will e by y no means appear ap ape 0 pear In print Ed 0 J pours the ti t tea or whatever ht r c-r th the bv beverage beverage bever bever- age is she he serves while h her r h husband passes the plates and refreshments refreshment It Is poor taste to serve too elaborately elaborately clabo at b between tween meal occasions Merely a drink and ond something light to nibble on is in better beheld form Tea and cakes a salad and cocoa wafers and an ice ico punch and nd wafers very dainty bread and b butter sandwiches and lemonade lemonade all all these are appropriate RETURN GIFTS Dear Miss Blair When a girl breaks her engagement ment and returns the ring sh should ud ah she also give Ive back all the other gifts rifts her fiance lance has given her Thank you yon M 1 M. M When an engagement Is Is' broken not only the tho ring but aU all other gifts should be returned |
