Show SHAVEN BETTY BLAIR 0 ONLY will be discussed ills dis I Affairs of the heart and kindred problems cussed in this department Letters questions and requests for tor advice should be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR LAII HEARTS HEART'S UA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM I SALT LAKE LAIE Write le legibly upon only one side of the paper I It is necessary that you append the right name and address a but these will be held in strict confidence and will by no means appear in print Ed 0 MOTHER CHOOSES FRIENDS Dear l Il Miss Blair I I. am a girl Irl of or 16 and I believe 1 am old enough to choose my own guI gill I friends but my mother insists that she he choose them for me mc If I bring bringa a girl friend home and Introduce her hero hert herto t to o mother and she does not like her she he forbids me to go with her or to again bring her home I like this one girl so much that like a ar arrange arrange at- at range to meet her at a certain time and place so that we may be to to- to gether It Is just the same with my 01 boy friends If one comes to o take me mc meo meto to o a show or dance lauce she will not let me meo go unless she favors him What can I do I am the one who has to chum churn around with my girl friends friend I 1 am the one who has to be in the company of or m my ray boy friends not m my mother And because of what she Is s doing I hardly have a friend Please tell me what that to do Thank you 00 DENE uDENE MARIE J I suspect that your mother is thinking largely of the group of peaple people people peo pea with whom you will likely mingle most in your adult life Ufe and she is trying to prepare the way for you yoa to continue to 1 associate with that group or class of people whom she has las always chosen and therefore whom she expects expect you to select elect You ou might prepare the way for tor her to become better acquainted with the he friends whom you bring home by talking about them to t your our mother beforehand Talk also about the mothers of your tell something something something some some- thing of or their home life Ufe th their ir ideals and the ideas that govern the active principles of their lives It is quite a source of or worry to mothers t to have their children chum churn intimately with girls and boys bOj's concerning concerning concerning con con- whom they know nothing whose families the they do not know concerning whose moral and cultural background they are unacquainted I You could ease this worry by taking the he initial step t to make your our mother acquainted with the of your choice before you ou bring them home It is quite natural that mothers should want sons and daughters to find ind friends among the tho same sume class classo o of people with whom they them l CS CSare are friendly This view may be entirely entirely entirely en en- narrow since there are many splendid people in all classes If II you ou are a a. good social missionary you will TIm convert your mother to this point of view But to win her respect for your our views you must choose friends who ho fit into the moral and social structures which your own family life liCe has reared about you Try to do this and there will be less friction in in your our own life Ute o 9 APPRECIATION PERSPIRATION Dear Miss Blair We wish to heartily thank you for tho helpful suggestions we ve have read and carefully digested d in your cor car ner ncr Before BeCore reading ding Hearts Heart's Haven Hann we wore the wrong colors said and did the wrong thin things s and committed commit commIt- ted numerous other faults Although not specially especially beautiful we can a aleast at least make ourselves attractive with Hearts Heart's Haven help Will you yon OU please tell us an effective remedy for un un- perspiration Thanking you uTO TOM I AND JERRY Thank you girls for the kind v to the Haven Frequently it needs Just such bolstering up Regarding Regarding Regarding Re Re- garding your perspiration problem some persons perspire more freely than others do therefore they need nero to be unusually careful to cleanse clean e their bodies daU dally daily Upon the thc basis of immaculate bodily cleanliness only a faint perfume is not amiss Perfume should never be used to cover up unpleasant body odors A Afew Afew Afew few drops of toilet water may be added to the last rising water after the shampoo to impart a delicate fragrance to the hair or a n little perfume perfume perfume per per- fume may be sprayed ed behind the ears With the tho body freshly bathed commercial may be used under the armpits to allay ex excessive ex- ex perspiration and the accompanyIng accompanying accompanying odor Ever Every morning after aur your our bath dampen the armpits with toilet tonet water and every night wash them with a salt saIt solution or a lotion made of two ounces an anone and andone one tablespoonful bicarbonate of soda If you are arc dressing for work after the bath and toilet water rub U use C the commercial Call Cal Wasatch for information concerning concerning concerning con con- your first question which we wedo wedo wedo do not print e aLADY'S o Q e LADYS LADY'S MAID Dear Miss 1 Blair I am going going- abroad with some people people peo pee pie for whom I am in to act as us ladys lady's maid to the mother and md daughter of the family Although I have hae served as a sort of nurse companion in the family I have not undertaken the duties of a 3 ladys lady's maid They will wil probably tell teU me just what I am expected ex ex- I to do but I would like Uke to be forewarned if possible Thank you for any help you may give e ELLEN A first class ladys lady's maid is a combination combination com corn of expert hairdresser b beauty uty I specialist needlewoman and a good packer She must keep her ladys lady's clothes in order and help her when required to dress and undress She draws the bath lays out the under- under things always brushes her ladys lady's hair and usually dresses it gets ou out the dress to be worn as well as the shoes and stockings and other As soon as the lad lady is dressed everything that has been worn is 15 gone over carefully the rents rent mended mend mend- ed clothes pressed everything thais that tha thatIs is not Immaculate is washed or cleaned cle with cleaning preparation everything thing is put in perfect order orde and replaced in iii the closet Underwear Under Underwear wear and stockings are mended the maid usually washes the stockings fine handkerchiefs silk underwear and lacy things herself Some maids maid are required to wait walt up until their thel ladies ladles return others are not re required required re- re t to remain up beyond a certain certain tam tain hour 9 G 9 Q C 0 NOTE TO AILEEN For graying graying- hair that has just Jus started to turn send a stamped self self- addressed envelope for our circular Sago Sage and Tea Treatment for or GrayIng Graying Gray Gray- Ing lug Hair |