Show vL w to HEART SHAVEN BETTY BL S Affairs of the heart and kindred problems ONLY will be bc discussed dis dis' s sS S cussed in Iii this bis department I IS S Letters Letter questions and requests quests for advice ad should be addre addressed sed I II I to 0 o MISS BETTY BETTI BLAIR HEARTS H. HAVEN YEN TELEGRAM I. SALT I LAKE Write legibly upon on- on one side Ide of the paper It ii is nece ary that you app append nd the right name and address I but these will be be held in strict confidence and will by no means a appear in print Ed MEETS 1 FORMER SWEETHEART Dear Miss Blair I am anI a a. young oung oun girl of 19 years ears About a a. 3 year car ago I met a bo boy with whom hom I went for three months and for whom I learned to care a great deal Mother Moth Moth- er sent Bent me away and thinking I would never see sec this boy again I married another man My husband is wonderful to me mc and I am sure he loves lo me mc a a. great deal Ho Re o had to go awa away on a business trip so 50 I came home borne to visit About a a. week after I had been home borne I met my former sweetheart Oh Ob Miss Blair I still love lo him and he loves s me mc My husband is old fashioned d and thinks a a. divorce is scandalous I I was going to talk to him hut hot Im I'm afraid he wouldn't understand What shall I do Thanking you WORRIED If happiness were the basis of mor- mor and the chief end to be ob obtained ob- ob in life then I l' l might advise e you ou to play the tricks that easy di divorce dl- dl vorce seekers play and get a or dl divorce diverge c from yoUr wonderfully v. kind husband hus bus band But happiness is neither the basis of morality nor is 15 it the greatest thing iii In life Happiness obtained through true love lo is a beautiful thing hung but life Ile itself is greater great than love And happiness based on this act you contemplate would be so fleeting that you would scarcely know you ou had been in possession of it so soon would it be gone Then would you in fact begin to app appreciate your our kind old- old fashioned husband ROSY ROMANCE FAILS Easy divorce getters have hi in most cases found to their sorrow that the rosy roo romance they failed to find in their first marriage ge was even farther out o of reach with their second since the steps on which the second was based brought unhappiness cs to others If people would forget themselves es long enough to give up this search for happiness and go about their lifes life's work with a determination that was exclusive in its purpose happiness of the most substantial kind would begin to dog their footsteps The trouble with many of ot us is that the they mistake sensual enjoyment for happiness and they fail faU to find the deeper wells of pure delight that are dug not with the sharp tools of jo joy and pleasure alone but with ith sorrow sorrow sorrow sor sor- row and poignant grief Until you ou have known the use of th these latter tools you Ou will never know real happiness happiness happiness hap hap- of which peace is a large ingredIent in in- in Happiness without peace is an empty mock mockery cry Dont Don't let this emotional wave wa carry you ou off of your feet DATE CARROT-DATE PUDDING Dear Miss I Blair Will you yon please print in your column column col col- col- col a a- recipe for or carrot and date pudding Will VilI you also give me sue the recipe for or one other steamed pudding pudding pud put ding Thank you NANCY LEE date Carrot pudding One cu cup carrots canots 1 cup potatoes grated 0 ove oer er night 1 cup sugar 1 cup suet 2 cups shredded dates 1 2 1 cups flour 1 teaspoon soda Mix and steam tour four hours To be eaten with sauce Fig pudding quarter One-quarter poun figs chopped fine 2 cups bread breadcrumbs crumbs 1 cup brown sugar 4 1 pound suet chopped fine flue 2 eggs grated rind and juice of 1 lemon 1 d dessert crt spoon of molasses 2 1 grated nutmeg 1 tablespoon flour Steam three hours and serve sere with ith boiled sauce SALLOW SKIN I Dear Miss 1 Blair My 1 skin is quite sallow although I am in perfect health Can you jou ou tell teU mo mc what will clear it Also what wha Hind of makeup should I use Th Thank you C K A sallow complexion may have various causes but in general it is 15 a symptom of poor circulation and consequent consequent consequent con con- sequent of skin Regular exercise Including outdoor sports a n mind happy and alert precludes precludes pre pre- eludes as a rule the sallow skin kin A good gooday way ay to stimulate a sluggish complexion is t to give it an occasional occasional occasional occa occa- steaming Pour boiling water r rin In a basin and hold your face in the steam Throw a Turkish towel over your head to keep the tile hot vapor in When the water stops giving off steam massage your our face with pure Castile soap Rinse in warm water and be sure we to finish the with a rinse in cold water of several minutes duration or 01 an ice rub A Askin Askin Askin skin tonic which may be purchased ready prepared at any drug store stare will finish the treatment You do not tell me the color of your our eyes and hair but as a rule the sallow sallow sallow sal sal- low skinned person perron should not use the brilliant shades of makeup Choose rose rogue and a dark darl shade of lipstick with powder Avoid wearing purple or lilac colors Choose old gold maize golden browns deep russet old rose Avoid also bright blues and blacks n SHOWER INVITATION Dear Miss Blair Is it ft proper to invite men to an evening e shower for a a. bride Thank you JENNIE In the evening ening men may always alwa's be included in the Invitation to showers showers showers show show- ers for a bride Especially is this so if the shower is for the couple after marriage or for a clergyman The morning shower for a bride usually includes none but the girl friends Men are sometimes included in the invitation to an afternoon shower I FIFTEENTH WEDDING A ANNIVERSARY ANNIVERSARY ANNI ANNI- I. I Dear Miss Blair Please tell me what the fifteenth w wedding anniversary celebrates Many thanks P G. G IThe The fifteenth is the crystal anniversary anniversary an an- P G. G Welcome I an-I |