| Show i J BETTY r Letters Letter and questions for the department should be addressed ed to Miss U. U Betty Detty Blair Hearts Heart's Havens Haven S Salt lt take Lake Telegram Write only on one oneL L Hide Ide of or the tho paper It Is Is' necessary to append your our name and address but these ar ar held in fn confidence and will Wilt not be published Lost Loat and found notices or words to songs IOla and poems cannot be published in the column ww- ww w- w GIRL IN ADVANCE OF MATES Deer Dear ear Miss MI Blair Like Liko many other people I 1 have hav my trouble troubles and am coming to yo you for advice Since I was very young youn I I. I gone with girls girl from one t to two years year older than myself I am till going with these lame girland girls girl and now now that they are ar are 16 I am only 1 14 but yet I I leem seem to be just like them in n every way 1 I Most MOlt girls girl of m my own ag age bore bora rne m. And nd are not yet in in n high school j is s I am The girls and boys a at high nigh school are much older than I Iy y yet t they think I am about their age ge But this is i. my problem When I I. I am asked to go out my mother says ays You are too youna to be out with the boys I cant can't go do fio with them and I have to makeup make makeup up some ome excuse other than that abo about abot t my age as th that t is very em em- My mother says ys it will be plenty early for fop form m me me t to ro rp with boys when I I. I am 16 But I feel 16 now and when I really rully am 16 I will be out of or high school chool and the tle good times Umes will be over for when a person is Ia out of school one ono doesn't meet half hali so many nany people and there will not be the opportunities to go out Do Oo you think my mother should let me go now with m my group while I have havethe I the chance Thanking you in ad adVance advance advance ad- ad vance BUMPS Your Tour advancement ad la Is beyond what 4 our chronological record u your years and andl l for 91 that reason I think you should ot be deprived of ot all tho good times the girls sirls and bo boys s 's of or your our kroup aro arc having Provided of ot f that tho fun is of ot a a. whole whole- varlet varIety Yours Is an t t. t t lanai lonal case cae If It you went ent with boys boya nd girls I of t 14 years year I should say eay k your our mother does that 14 Is s too s oung an ago age for you to be going golrig ut with the boys oos The fact tact that your our our mental development Is 15 that thal of 16 year olds suggests also that development has also that advanced stage tago taK and roth 1 of these ages agee are aro a a. more Important Im im- Im- Im In rules ruIe of or conduct han is the chronological age or ort t Jho tho mere number of ot years that have haye passed since o 1 You were born I To d deprive e you ou of or all the good times your our group Is having will be beio beto to io you OU later on to fit It into I I f a 16 16 year group when mental mental- Jy and otherwise except In actual years cus cu's you OU will bo he 18 t p l Yet perhaps there aro certain Conditions about this problem of or yours our that your mother knows knowe and that I do not know Imo Dont Don't you ou think It c you OU talked with her about bout the three ages rises for which everybody e must bo accountable that she will wm find Vid a a. solution to make you OU happy bapp ond l keep you OU afo i FIANCES FIANCE'S GIFT Dear Dur Miss Blair Elak Christmas will soon be her hers and I intended to do domy my shopping early but first I need a little advice Could you give me a list flat of nice nice gifts for ones one's fiance He rather caters to sports He has skis a dun un ice ico skates skate a wrist watch a a traveling set a fountain pen set ut and nearly everything a fellow could have I want to give him something re real 1 nice Also Alia is Ia it proper for an engaged couple e to list their names together en on a Xmas card which is going to toa toa toa a mutual friend What are th the rules governing th this sort of thing One Ono One more more Is lIS a girl supposed to give gifts to her fiances fiance's mother father bre brothers and sisters ister if f they are re quite well acquainted with each other Thanking you in advance ANOTHER WELL WISHER Has your our fiance both rifle and Has he ho golf clubs and leather case caso In which to carry them Has lie e a a. a set of oC decoys decos Is IiI his fishing tackle complete Have you OU been to tho the sporting spoiling goods houses to sea seo what thc they have hae to offer Until you jou OU have it will not be an art Cas easy matter for you ou to make makeup up your our mind what t to give sho him Or you you ou may want something entirely different from tho gIfts of or the sporting goods houses A A. Tom Thumb silk umbrella that folds and tl fits fis Into a leather zipper case articles In compact leather cases leather shoe bags shirt ba bags s hose bose cases silk sport handkerchiefs ma mao mas looking culine-looking l paper weights we and paper papel knives es and other desk articles articles arti arti- cles des In sliver sll bronze copper or other finish ln smoking equipment favorite books hooks and magazines the magazines the shops and nd department stores store's will Add materially to tho the choice of oC cIC gifts He mu may mar not flot o gl you nor you ou him gifts that are classed as n maintenance rr If your engagement has hoi been heen announced an an- I pounced you may write write- your our names together ether on a Christmas card to a mutual friend but under no circumstances circumstances cir clr- cir cir- may tho the two names be engraver or printed on cards until the tho wedding And even en the two written names must be governed governed gov gOY by the tho degree of Intimacy between between be be- a. a tween the two of oC you ou and the mut mutual mutual mu mu- t ual friend Tim matter of choosing to whom Christmas gifts must or ma may be given Iven is ono one that can scarcely bo bl settled b by a A. third disinterested person Gift giving gl becomes so BO much a personal matter and eo so man many Intimate angles enter In to determinate whether or not rifts gifts I I I shall hall or shall not be e given riven that It must rest with the tho individual 1 himself him him- self elf to d decide clde Under ordinary etc cir it Is not hot expected that an n engaged girl give SI presents to every very me member ber of or her fiances fiance's fam fam- 11 ly ily After marriage tho the two of you OU together may give ghe presents to 10 the Individual members of or each others other's respective families Watch the Make l It Yourself series for gifts for or both men ana and women women WelCo Wel- Wel Co come ome SALMON BOX Dear tar Miss Mias Blair I 1 a am coming to you for a recipe In n which I Ican can used canned salmon AI Also o I would like to know the different different dif- dif ferent erent kinds of salmon from which I to o choose I lik like the deep red v V vc- vc I r ety but dont don't know what to ask askor for or to get it Thank you I M MEL EL I With five fLo different species from which to choo choose o it is difficult to I know sometimes just what one Is 15 getting To 0 many salmon means mean I the ho deep red oily Sockeye e or 01 the I Chinook of ot uncertain color sometimes some some- I I times Imes red sometimes white again red halt or white halt or mottled To some the medium red of of the tue Silver To others other the pink Humpback humpback Hump- Hump back ack or 0 the light colored and less oily Ony lly Chum or Keta Your g grocer ocer not know these names but only I tho ho brands In canned salmon which I may offer tIm the different colors I Salmon box is a for tor canned salmon aim on that I a am n suro sure you will like ike It Is served with lemon sauce Muce Ono One Ono Ono- cup dr dry diy rice rIc 1 teaspoon salt boiling water water- r 1 l' l largo larso can salmon grated rated nutmeg dash cayenne Place the he can of or salmon In a saucepan over cover with Ith w water tel and let heat at least 20 minutes Wash the rice and nd cook in iii sauce pan an with boiling water vater at least 1 inch above rice Let sImmer until the rice Is cooked al almost almost almost al- al most dr dry Do not lift tho tIm cover for fOl 20 0 minutes Every grain of or tho rice should hould stand alone two holes in the top of the salmon almon can when It is removed from roni tho the water to let tho the steam cs- cs 8 cape ape Open the tho hot can and drain off ff the tho liquor to b bo used in the sauce Flake ako the salmon picking out ut bones and skin akin Season with nutmeg and cayenne yenne Line Lino the baItInG baIt bak- InG ng dish with tho snowy rIco rice and fill the with tho flaked sal sal- mon non Set In tho oven while whilo the sauce jis 15 Is being made To Fo make inako sauce use uso 3 J 3 cup Clip butter butter but- but ter cr divided ed into two J parts larts art 3 tablespoons tablespoons table table- spoons of oC flour Clour 1 2 1 cups salmon liquor yolks of 2 eggs salt alt paprika Melt parsley and ami lemon rounds rounda one half tho the butter buller in saucepan add lour flour flour blend and let lct cook a minute add salmon calmon liquor diluted with hot water to make 1 2 1 cups CUIS When smooth and thick season eason with salt paprika and lemon on Juice Take sauce sauco uco from heat and add a tablespoonful tablespoonful tablet table- table t spoonful at a timo to tho well veli cn beat beat- cd ed yolks olk Beat In the tho second part ot of f tho butter buHel cut into luto small pieces Pour tho the lemon sauce I over the salmon sal- sal mJ non mon 1 and garnish with parsley and lemon rounds t Welcome NOTE TO LEERY tho the Better Belter nu Business bureau of or Los Angeles concerning your our question of oC tho tim reliability of oC the Hie firm Inn you mention Come again WEIGHTS BIRTH DAY Dear Doar Miss Miu Blair I enjoy your corner every evory evening evening even- even ing ng and hope I may enter How much should one weigh at the age of 17 who is 5 f feet ct 8 S inches tall How much should one weigh who is i. is 5 1 feet 7 inches tall and 15 years year old Also Alao on what day did December 8 1913 fall Thanking you kindly BILLY BILL Y A A. girl at 17 years cars who Is 5 feet teet feetS S Indies should weigh welsh in the of pound Jound One at 15 JS years ears 5 6 feet 7 Inches should weigh I T pounds oun December S t 1913 1013 Cellon fell Cell fellon fellon on Monda Monday You are arc welcome j |
