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Show -. 't I r ' VY stubborn and set on everything. every-thing. There are so many different dif-ferent ways to do things. If we are always selfish, then we are not thinking about our other's well being and happiness. We are not listening to their concerns. We are not bringing bring-ing them what they deserve. There is room for both parties to be happy, and it all starts with putting aside selfishness and opening our human nature to other possibilities. It is not hard. It may seem so at first, and it is a continual process of growing and learning, learn-ing, but we will always have to keep working on it. It will get easier and it will improve our lives and the quality of it. So, don't let human nature get the best of you. Learn to remember those values that by Marissa Walker Human nature can always get the best of us. Pride, envy, jealousy, all different human traits that one doesn't want, are always there. How we choose to handle them is the key. I have found on many occasions I had been selfish without even knowing it. It's so easy to fall into a routine of thinking about oneself and what one thinks, wants, and needs. It's harder to step out of yourself and look at others around you. Most of the time we don't even realize that what we did was selfish or acting with another human trait that comes from just being human. The world that we live in is full of shows, movies, music that teaches us that we are im portant, the most important. In life you have to rely on yourself your-self and it's hard to just forget it all, to become Christlike in helping and serving others. It is more fulfilling to look outside of oneself and to try and uplift someone else's life. It is uplifting to yourself without with-out you thinking that it would be to begin with. It is true that you should be looking out for yourself, but you also need to remember there is always room for error. That although we may feel we are right and that you will not budge, sometimes you just have to open your eyes to find that you are possibly in the wrong. In marriage it becomes about unity. It is coming together to-gether to talk about things, to have an open mind and not be will truly better your life and improve the quality of your mind, heart, and soul. I promise prom-ise your eyes will be open and your knowledge expanded. You will find joy in numerous ways that you didn't know possible! |