Heart Interest t Health T Women t-rm t f I fv A and 4 the gi k Horne Horn Li rv Reci Recipes es Menus Bridd 1116 e Your Children VV VI omen anu First Run Fiction 1 HEARS E ARTS ART'S HA HAVEN VEN Conducted by by BETTY ETTY BLAIR I I Letters questions and arid requests for advice should be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S flA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side at ot the paper It is necessary that you vou append the right name and address but these will be held in strict confidence and will not appear in print Questions involving advertising Information cannot be an an- an Letters requiring personal reply must be accompanied by stamped self addressed envelopes Ed TO CREATE IMPRESSION Dear Miss Blair Jair I have been wondering for a a. lon long longtime longtime time what hiLt was wrong wrong- with my ray personality per pcr sonam up make that I couldn't makeI make I lasting friends I seem to create a coot good g impression right at first but after the thi first time or two of meeting new acquaintances ac ac- ac all m my efforts seem to fall flat Either people tire of my attempts attempts attempts at at- tempts to be ga gray gay or they are just try trying In to be nice to me In the first place It II is s always worrying me what people think about me inc me If It I go to a a party I try not to show my natural shyness and so I talk a great d deal alan and laugh and try to make the tho wise cracks c expected of young youn people these days daSo I get an audience around mc me but I 1 find I cant can't keep the show shaY going When hen couples start walking away laughing and talking to themselves I 1 always imagine Ine the they arc are saying Unkind unkind un uno kind things about me rue This turns on the gloom g and makes mo rae ver very quiet for tor the rest of or the evening evenIng- There is a bo boy lIkes me mc a great gred deal dealand dealand and lie he says I pa pay too much attention to what other people arc are thinking and saying saing about me mc He lie thinks they Just pa pay attention to their own affairs and expect me mc to do the tho same I I. I try to do this but it is very cry painful pain ful fol to me to think other people do donot donot donot not like me mc Can you tell me inc what to do so 50 that other people will wUl like Uke me better Thank you VEE Your boy bo friend is right Vee Vec In thinking th that t other people are not thinking about you nearly so much muchas as they are about themselves It II takes a mighty good comedian or orator or tragedian to continue to hold the middle of the stage and you arc are not practiced in the art of ot acting Why not just be your other self for tor fora tora a long time to come Dont Don't try to create impressions impressions' on other people Let them find you just as you OU are Think more of o strengthen strengthenS strengthening ing some of at your finer qualities not for the purpose o of showing them off oU but just in order that that- the real you shall be better fitted to have hav lasting friends Try to forget what other people are thinking about you OU In your sincere enjoyment of them Nothing is more painful to others than to be around someone who is forever trying to create an impression The only impression impression impression im im- im- im such a a person makes is that he is trying to create an impression You cant can't fool your audience more more than a few minutes Then they are Wise wis to you and turn away A person person per per- son who tries to create an impression becomes a dreadful dr adul bore As a matter of fact you have an inferiority complex rind and the dreadful fear that you are not making good is th the sauce for that particular dish Dont Don't try to be the center of attraction it is is' not your forte On the other hand dont don't creep into yourself like a clam into its shell and become uncommunicative uncommunicative uncommunicative toward your friends Enjoy other people to your fullest extent Make mental notes of their good points Promise yourself to be bemore bemore bemore more really worthy of good friends not by being imitative but by being inwardly the kind of person descrying deserving descry descry descry- ing of good friends Then they will seek you out The They will know you youl are genuine They will enjoy your genuine humor sense of fair play loyalty originality Merely pretending pretending pretending pre pre- tending in order to create an impression sion Zion never did win lasting honors for anyone S GET ACQUAINTED CLUB ORGANIZED We are happy to ann announce that at atthe atthe atthe the Thursday evening meeting of the middle-aged middle Get Acquainted club a complete organization was effected About 75 people attended Notice of the date for the next meeting will be announced later We shall be happy to announce the date and time of the meeting if it you will let us know not later than two days in advance We congratulate this club on their progressiveness We know they are are going to have some very happy times together We don't dont want any more lonely people complaining that nowhere nowhere no where in this city is there a place for lonely people to go and get acquainted with others There are certain good behavior rules attached to your becoming becoming becoming be be- coming members members- Were We're sure you youcan youcan youcan can qualify if you really want to make good friends Were We're hoping to hear soon from the young set Get Acquainted club concerning con conS their organization I GLAZED TOMATOES Dear Miss 1 Blair Will you please plese tell me mo how to prepare prepare pre pre- pare glazed tomatoes for a salad Thank you A R R. Glazed tomatoes are ripe tomatoes stuffed with salad made from leftover leftover left left- I over meats fish tish or vegetables and dipped clipped in gelatine After Atter the dipping let them chill and set before ing lag They take lake on an aristocratic air when served on a tiny pastry tart with a tablespoon of ot mayonnaise put in ja before you set the tomato on em This is a nice variation from the lettuce let tuce luce base NOTE TO DEAN We feel teel dreadfully sorry about your fox terrier being poisoned We hope you will watch w our column so that you may be the ver very first to make a abid abid al bid for tor the first fox tax terrier any anyone one has to give away through Hearts Heart's Haven We Wc dont don't have many however however however how how- ever so you must keep your eagle cagle eagleeye eagleeye eye on the column and be sure to be bethe bethe bethe the first to go to the telephone and md ask k the givers rs for it when offered And Dean you must hurry and get well so you can romp with the dog when you oU get him l PERMANENTS L Dear Ml Miss Blair I am going to have a permanent wave Please tell me inc all you can high school girl and am aan wondering about the nc neV v chemical waves that tha arc being given Arc Are they Injurious to the hair Dots Dos the tho wave stay Inas In Inas Inas as long lont as It does with witha a machine wave Please tell me all 1111 you can about them Many Mans thanks PATTY I If you dislike sitting under a h heavy avy hot machine by boY all means make a hand firsthand investigation of a the th them new m permanents before you OU make your appointment Let the operator examine your hair to determine determine deter deter- mine whether its particular quality will take well to this kind of permanent per per- manent Shop around a bit before you decide and talk to several operators about it waves take much less time ime arent aren't painful at all and there is no danger in gett getting ng burned since no heat is applied The action takes place in the pads which are arc treated with various chemicals The pads get jet hot the minute they are put around the he hair and then start to cool in less than five minutes In spite of all their seemingly simple good points have no fear tear that they hey wont won't keep your hair waved as long ong as the other kind They too are guaranteed for tor six months S AFRICAN GOLF Dear Miss nuS Blair Please shed your enlightenment on my dumbness and tell me what AfrIcan African African can golf goll Is Is I have been terribly embarrassed through not knowing JIMMIE UE Perhaps your OUr embarrassment comes from being an addict at ot African golf gol without knowing the nickname for it The ancient and royal game hazard otherwise known as as craps acquired its nickname African golf because of its popularity among American colored folks