Show R o C CO HAT Every Woman oman Knows WHAT or or ought to know about certain points of or etiquette closely connected connected connected con con- with polite society Is an Interesting Interesting interesting inter Inter- esting problem For instance the question of or acknowledging invitations which might be referred to Edward Bok or some other unquestioned authority au au- au- au Of or course as to dinner luncheon and weddings eddings there is s but one course to pursue J prompt acceptances or Qt re regrets regrets re- re grets as the case ma may be bc The same system holds good for tor card parties where the hostess plans for a certain number of or tables table and a definite answer is imperative c The obligation as to Invitations for afternoon teas may be discharged by presenting presenting- cards carlls at the time one for each hostess if It there thero be bemore bemore more than one and also for tor the guest of honor while those not attending are arc expected to send cards beforehand if Ir possible The telephone has rather changed social conditions alon along the tho lines Jines of acknowledgment ac ae- I of ot Invitations for Informal Informal in informal In- In formal affairs and man many hostesses claim that It is satisfactory in that the tho acceptances or re regrets can be received at the time of or tendering the time tion Large evening receptions and balls leave a wider latitude The ver very formal private affairs have the Insistent Insistent in insistent In- In letters or legend R. R S. S V. V P P. in one corner which simplifies matters In demanding recognition Invitations for large evening functions functions functions may be responded to In person but ut in case of or Impossibility to be present present present pres pres- ent regrets should be sent in order that some idea ma may be gained of the the- number to be entertained The question question question ques ques- tion must b be considered of the time work entailed upon tho the hostess who has issued Issued is issued Is- Is sued several hundred Invitations beIng be beIng being be- be ing Ing- obliged to open and read that number of responses unless Indeed she boasts a social secretary And yet et It would seem seen when all is said aid and done don that the compliment of an in invitation invitation In- In should receive gr graceful recognition 1 The cool crisp October Oct ber da days s 's are arc an incentive to renewed vigor Igor In a 8 social l direction and now that the he semiannual semiannual semi semi- annual bugaboo of ot housecleaning is sarel safely over for tor six months the winters win ter's wardrobe pretty well planned I furs taken out of ot tho cedar chest and the tho custody custod of or the p pungent moth ball baU society begins to take talce on a new lease of ot life Ute As a a. matter of ot fact tact the season season is starting out at a a. giddy pace jace which promises much in the way of ot brilliant social entert entertaining V x The coming week weel will wm be distinguished distinguished distin distin- b by the large Jarge reception an and dancing party part at the Hotel Utah for tor which Senator and ad Mrs Irs Reed Smoot have sent out many hundred Invitations invitations invitations the tho event ent probably to be bo the most brilliant function yet given at th the splendid new hotel Frida Friday FridaS' night atthe at atthe atthe the same game place the Utah club recent recently recently recent recent- ly formed will inaugurate a series of ot four tour dancing parties to be given In Inthe i ithe inthe the ballroom each of or the succeeding months months- Then Ihen on Thursday evening Novem November ber 2 comes the annual charity ball which event for tor thirty years ears or more more has held the time place of ot honor as the most n notable table function in Salt Lake Lkc S society so society clet and this y year r gives ever every prom promise promise ise of ot unusual success as a brilliant social affair There are cards out for tor fora a number ot of teas and luncheons with the tho promise of or several Sc early cady winter weddings while num numerous rous smaller affairs affairs af at- fairs supposed to be strictly informal are are on the tapis University The The University club which is an important im- im important im im- factor in exclusive entertaining entertain entertain- ing in Salt Lake society has announced announced an an- pounced that two formal dances will willbe willbe be given at the club house one in Thanksgiving ing week weck the other to occur during the Christmas holidays s Other affairs have e also been planned b by the social committee one to be a musicale followed by an informal dance The regular monthly dinners will be resumed re resumed resumed re- re the first to take tale place Saturday Saturday Saturday Satur Satur- day evening of or the present week A stag party part will be also given the Saturday Saturday Sat Sat- unla evening before election Novem- Novem Noyem- Noyem 1 Cl 4 at the club house which will be bein bein bein in the nature of or a surprise night I Last I but not least the presence of ot the new military contingent at Fort Douglas is Is sure to Increase tho the gaiety of the social season both at the post and In town society t I CHARITY BALL J. J For the seventh Ume time since Its or- or or or-J g the members of ot St St. Marks Mark's Markl Hospital Charity association are asking asking asking ask ask- ing the tho people of ot Salt Lake to buy tickets to the charity ban ball which la tai taito to be held helel in the Hotel Utah on the tho that I evening of or November 2 The Work of ot this association has become so 50 well known that there is no longer any any need of or giving giving- to the public the details details' of ot Its aims alms and their accomplishment and the people have become so accustomed tomed to think of this this' contribution to the care the care of the the thet sick and needy of ot ou our ours city as a part of ot th their lr duty as cI citizens zens that i there there- would be no need to urge urge the older residents to residents to make the contribution contribution con- con but as there are always new residents who would be glad t to know of s such ch an opportunity op t to give help where it is most needed and as ns there thera are some some new neww features in the work and the demand this this' year ear a a. few tew words of at explanation will be given cn The object of ot the association is to I give hospital aid to the unfortunate who would be bo supporting self butt who when illness JUness or accident come to themselves or their families are not alil able to procure proper proper medical or surgical sur- sur sur-j sur attention Cases of actual pauperIsm pau- pau pau-j pau are re provided pro for or by b- the city ands and county count but bUL this asso association laUon provide pro for the respecting self self respecting poor who would give up health or even life r rather the than become public charges and yet et might b be saved for fOt years years of or happiness and usefulness if the they could have a a a- little help in time of or misfortune St. St Marks Mark's hospital gives this help helpt at t t b bare re cost of or material aI and d the physIcians physicians phy phy- give their services but the time ac actual actual actual ac- ac money mone needed must be furnished Continued on 00 l Two 1 1 SOCIETY 1 i Continued From Prom Pa Page ice One I b by the association and ond it Jt has only on Oft onway I way of getting It the It-the the charity charit ball bal There arc three good wh why there should treo be unusual Interest In ft Inthe 11 tho the charity charlt ball ban this thiB year yer Firstly because because be be- cause it i IB Ic 11 to be held at our new hotel hotels which has the charm of or beauty beut and novelty novely and in which every er e citiZen citizen ct citi citi- Secondly Secondly Secondly Sec Sec- zen of or Salt Lake has ha Just juet pride because we C have Increased our work ork and therefore our c expense penso by employing a a district nure nurse who at ot the call cal of or the committee goes from house to house to give e counsel sympathy hygienic instruction and care to the unfortunate and thIrd thirdly and and most Important important important im Im- im- im because the funds of oC the as- as are exhausted and the work cant can't go on until they arc are replenished Up to this time the Income from tram each ball hal has been more moro than enough to satisfy y the tho demands of or the year but this year either cither because of unusual unusual unusual un un- un- un usual misfortune or because of wider knowledge of or the work among the people tho the demands have have been one- one third greater than ever before and thero there is ts Immediate need of or money if It the work ork Is to go on without tion In a to town n as prosperous as a Salt Sal Lake where a majority of ot the people have havo not only the comforts but the luxuries of ot modern life there should be beI beno beno I no possibility of ot interruption In work wore which is so much needed and I is done by women who have have proved themselves themselves them them- selves so faithful and aud so 50 capable by years cars of or service ser lc It I Is i not a pleasant task for ladles ladies to go from house to hoU house e and from office to office oCco to ask men to buy tickets even eyen for such a a wort worthy cause cuso and it i has ont only been made possible Informer in informer former years b by the ready response and courtesy which these women have received The Tho members of or the tho ticket undertake the task this year with confidence that the re response ponso and the courtesy will wI not be bo less and that the generosity will wf be increased as a the te need is I known to be greater geater WEEK IN SOCIETY J JA A beautiful autumn wedding took tok place last Jast evening at tho the homo home of ot the brides bride's parents Mr Air and Mrs J. J W. W Farrell when their daughter Miss Laura Laura A. A A Farrell Farrel and Joseph Le L Ro Roy Boy Hall Hal Hal were married marred at o'clock by bythe bythe bythe the Rev W. W K K Ryan Ran of ot St. St Marys Mars cathedral catedral in the tho presence of or the families and a few tew Intimate friends frends Tho Hawaiian Troubadours stationed in an alcove In the hall haI played the tho Lohengrin Bridal Chorus as the bridal party part took their places In n the tho bay window In hi the parlor which was banked with palms and white chrysanthemums chrysanthemums chrs- chrs chrys chrys- streamers steamer of formIng form form- Ing inga a canopy The bride who entered on the arm of her father was handsomely handsomely handsomely hand hand- attired in a bridal gown of or lace laco over white satin made In Empire effect Sho She wore a a long tulle veil vei fastened with orange orage blossoms and carried a bouquet of or brides bride's roses with wih showers of or sweet peas and streamers of or tulle tule She Sho was wasi i attended by her sister Miss Al Alice e Farroll Far Far- ar- ar 4 roll rell reI who who sore wore wore a pretty f costume of ot white chiffon do dotted te in silver sier over pink satin carrying an armful of ot pink bridesmaids bridesmaid's roses roses John W W. May of- of J as best man beat betman man and the te orchestra r played Berceuse by Goddard durIn dur- dur In tho eremo Fi From m g- g gi S to i 11 a largo large reception was held when the guests were received by tho the newly married couple Mr r. r and Mrs Irs Farrell Farrel and Mrs K 1 Y Hall Hal mother of ot the bridegroom The rooms were elaborately decorated throughout tho the dining room where the tho buffet supper supper sup sup- per pcr was as s served neing in pink and white Killarney roses forming the centerpiece on the prettily appointed table Assisting Assisting- in the dining room were Mrs Mr rs R. R B B. B Campbell Campbel and the Misses Mary Roberts Irene Delaney and Claire and Romaine Little LItte Punch was as served in tho the hall hail hal which was a mass of ot palms autumn leaves and flowers by MI Miss s Eva E Rae Rao and Miss Mis Katherne White hite Mr Hall Hal and his bride left on the late train for a trip trip-to tho the coast coat and md the Pacific northwest northwest northwest north north- west and later will wi go to Los Angeles to reside The bride brio wore for tor or her go- go away Inc away inG-away gown a dark blue broadcloth tal tailored red suit with hat to match c c Mrs R. R n J. J Jessup and Miss Linda Jessup received between fifty and sixty sixty sixty six six- ty of or their friends yesterday at an afternoon tea tea from 3 to 6 G the affair being In the tho nature natura of a housewarming warm house ing in their new home in Twelfth East Eat street street A delightful musical and lit literary literary lit lit- l- l crary program was a distinct feature of tho the occasion The hou house o was bright ht and attractive with wih quantities of autumn autumn autumn au au- au- au leaves and flowers cosmos being used In pretty effect Mrs R. R W W. Fishes Fisher read one ono of or the unpublished stories stones store of ot Miss Emilie Emie Jacobs Mrs Mr John Reed was wa heard in several readIngs readings readings read- read Ings and nd recitations and instrumental selections were given b by Edward Bay- Bay hiss lias Tho The hostesses were assisted in tho dining dininG room by Mrs Mn Ernest Gay- Gay t ford tord and Mrs H. H K and the Misses Misses- Marguerite Jessup Luc Lucy Le Lewis and Dorothy Gay Gaylord Gayford ford Mrs Ir W. W T. T Benson was wn one ono of ot tho the thoi i hostesses yesterday esterday afternoon when she Bhe entertained three tables of bridge vcr very Informally to meet Mrs Richard Dorsey formerly Miss Iss Merle Lynch who is visiting in the city with her parents parent Mr and Mrs W. W J. J Lynch A successful and delightful social c t and musical event of or last evening took place at the home of or Mr Mt and ana Mrs Mr Hugh Hugs W. W Dougall when they entertained enter enter- about seventy five friends In compliment to Miss Mis Edna Evans and MUss Mig Hazel Barnes who have recently returned from Europe A choice musical musical mu mu- program was enjoyed given by a number of oC well wel known musicians and some Bore of oC the advanced pupils of or Mr Dougall Dougl One of ot the pleasant pleasnt events of Friday Friday Friday Fri Fri- day afternoon was tho the informal at homo home of ot Mrs Edwin F. F Holmes tho the first affair of or the kind to occur at the Amelia Palace for Cor a month or more The hostess received her guests in the theart theart art galer gallery which was wa well wel filled durIng during during dur dur- ing the receiving hours from 3 to 6 G and arId tea ten was served during durInG the after after- noon Ann no c cOn On FIda Friday a afternoon te o n the Misses Genevo Geneve and Alice Alce Felt entertained with witha a n charming bridge ge affair followed b by bya a tea ten given to meet their sister Mrs J. J P P. Marshall on the eve of ot her departure departure de do- for Seattle to make her hor home Attractive decorations in pink pinic chrysanthemums chrysanthemums chrysanthemums chrys chrys- w were re seen in the parlors and hall hail hal and yellow was as used exclusively exclusively sivel in the dining room where a crystal basket of or chrysanthemums graced the tea ten table tied ted with wih tulle tule with autumn leaves in the yellow clow tints tnt wreathing the chandelier chandeler The hostesses hostesses hostesses host host- esses were assisted in entertaining b by Mrs Irs W. W S. S Ellerbeck Elerbeck Mrs C C. M. M I. I Benedict Benedict Benediet Bene Bene- dict diet and Miss Ada Ellerbeck Elerbeck The most elaborate evening event of or orthe the week was wag the largo hargo dancing party part given Monda Monday night in the thc Hotel Utah by Mr Ir and Mrs Irs Louis Simon when they formal formally introduced their daughter daugh daush- ter tel l Miss s |