Show Make sex sexy T 11 v 1 tf Have an affair with spouse your I 11 L Edited and adapted by Ter Terry Dillon Associate Editor ting a sense ense of e excitement excitement excite excite- Cre Creating ment and anticipation tion is isan isan isan an important component of fooling around that goes beyond the bedroom Its It's not 4 i just the actions you take right before you ma make e love loye but rather an attitude attitude you have about abou your your- relationship By continuing to do all the crazy little things thing you do now now now- that that- couples in t the e heat of passion do you'll do-you'll you'll be ensuring ensuring ing a love life that doesn't doesn t get dull Couples who are the most with their s sex x lives devote plenty of time to petting They make petting petting pet pet- ting a sexually and emotionally emotionally emotionally emotion emotion- ally fulfilling experience all allon allon on its own Bridal Guide The How to for I 1 do March April 1992 and your own c creativity will suggest a vari variety ty of Id ideas as on how to have an with affair your spouse Dare to ex experiment t its it's the middle of th the day a and yo youre you're i e engaged in a boring task at Your work wor thoughts turn to your spouse You experience an erotic little thrill Act on it Call him or her up make a date for after work For Forthe Forthe Forthe the rest of the day you'll both have a hard time cOncentrating concentrating concentrating cony cOn con con- y on your your jobs Try talking dirty Learn how to perform a sexy exy tease strip-tease for your mate R enact Re-enact enact a scene from the L pages of a steamy novel or movie Go to a bar alone and let your spouse pick you up Make your act completely b believable e lie va b Ie sue such h t that hat anyone around would think the two of you had never met before Try erotic dressing Give your fantasies free rein and put on sexy wild wild outfits One wife as a joke after her bath put on her herL L husbands husband's leather jacket cowboy cowboy cow cow- boy poy boots dark glasses glasses and and nothing else He found her hervery very exciting Take a shower or bubble bath together either is is a relaxing sexy way to get ready for lovemaking especially espe espe- dally if you take your time and ma make e the whole experience experience experience ex ex- a form of foreplay Give each other leisurely sensual massages those s. s loving touches promote physical and emotional in in- If you dont don't know how to begin go to tot the e Golden Gold Gold- en Braid Bookstore or the library and get one of the many to how-to books on J couple massages I 11 L Some partners like to use scented oils which they warm up by rubbing between their hands to add even more sensory pleasure If you dont don't on t mind spending spending spending spend spend- ing big bucks sometime stand on a a street corner like corner like a do downtown town hustler hustler and and let your spouse pick you up and make love lov to you in the back backof backof backof of a limousine This idea works well because of the fantasy fantasy fantasy fan fan- tasy atmosphere a limousine generates Couples can c'an add even more sizzle to their sex lives by creating an atmosphere that stimulates the senses Lovemaking in an unfamiliar unfamiliar unfamiliar un un- un- un familiar place is certainly different and special But you can make your own home seem more exotic with scents soft lights and music Studies show that music with a tempo faster than the human heartbeat raises tension tension ten tension ten ten- sion and triggers a sense of excitement A clean house or apartment apartment apartment apart apart- ment with no children around is a luxury you will long for after the two of you become parents most of your chance for a sexy love life now After youve you've started your family memories of the lovemaking you do donow donow donow now will help get you through th the low moments in your relationship relationship low low ebbs which are quite normal in fn inthe inthe the course of a married life If either a husband or wife suffers from feelings of revulsion revulsion sion in any way connected to their legitimate sex life the couple should immediately immediately's s 's seek ek a physician counselor or member of the clergy to help them |