Show youth possess right to live own lives one of outmost our most famous psychologists has said that the detachment of the growing individual from the authority of his parents is one of the most necessary and most painful achievements in evolution but painful or not each parent owes it to his child to let him grow up tip as an irr individual in his own right to ste see that he stands on his own feet and that eventually he be allowed to lead his own life and what if the parent is the selfish clinging or short sighted type who refuses to let the child child grow up normally and find a self dupon d ep jant life of his own this ques question tion is answered by raymond G fuller eminent psychologist who says to the growing child in claiming a life of your own you are only claiming what rightfully belongs to you so refuse I 1 to be ba bullied into feelings of guilt ailt u when you dont always mind the parental back seat drivers each child mr fuller claims has his own personal bill of rights in legardis to his parents the are arc as follows 1 to refuse to be coddled co idled and petted to I 1 ave friends of your own oiin age and choice to have brends of the se oil to ti I 1 po out with them 4 to choose dour our life wor and it a I 1 obby hobby cr 1 twi 5 to choose your mate ani mary mar y another way of winning this freedom mr fuller advises the adolescent further is to wean his parents away from him this method which i requires equi res great tact simply means thinking out ways of lessening bit by bit parents dependence upon tile the child such as diverting their attention into other channels brighten up the home with A POTTED PLANT see them at the onyx cafe I 1 roosevelt Roose roosevelt veli utah |