| Show expression OF f OPINION INVITED my dear little lady of venice As it Is setting getting lato late in ili the week and no answer to your letter published in ili the richfield reaper last week has arrived as yet I 1 will try to answer its as good as I 1 know hovi am rather glad not to know you personally so nally for it enables me to alca speak more frankly and without tear fear that my views view might offend you your complaint is nothing new it is a known fact that most husbands dont pay attention to hoir hair wives but the wives who complain about this often forget that they suffer with the same fault in a good many homes the man is merely the bread winner and outside of this no one trios tries really and earnestly tries to get him interested by putting ma matters before him in a I 1 way that would appeal to his individuality vi of course this takes some scheming but it if you lovo love your husband you will not mind the trouble it will viii bo be worth it to you yell you say your husband takes no notice of what you do or say perhaps he has gotten past that stage of tile the game because lie he got tired of never seeing anything new in you there Is a leason for everything and we must not always look for the reason in the other party perhaps you stopped working on oil your own improvement provo pro ment since the lay day you were married so many of our he sex do and for this reason the men often stop paying attention to their wives in life everything is under the law of perpetual motion and perpetually changing love changes there is no license tor for everlasting love was there such a thing we would not need the marriage ceremony ony we have to keep going and growing as the years go the wom ans mind must grow that liar her intellect can elevate and raise the love between man and wito wife to a higher plane so their souls enjoy the caresses and words of df their happy hours only it if man and woman are soul mates also only then they will not tire of each other but the theme is too big to explain c plain all in ili a few sentences some later day I 1 might have more time but my dear lad lady of venice there are many other little things that have to be observed in married life to keep the husband a lover the main thing is to keep smiling do be a laugh and your husband laughs with you though your letter impressed mo me as if you were more of tile the gloomy kind but as I 1 said I 1 might be mistaken as I 1 dont know you and your husband might be tho the gloom pot however it will improve matters to stile smile you know smiles are contagious furthermore I 1 would suggest that you take up some study something to improve yourself get interested in something worth while and you will not notice so much if your husband does not notice you sufficiently you might say that you have no time but it you really want to flail find time you will everything in this world depends on our cur ov own n will anvill and now my dear to your question are all men alike yes I 1 think all men mail and all women are alike in the fundamental lines but every human being should have its individuality and this no woman should try to kill in ili her husband and no man inan in his wile wife it is something sacred E M N 1 |
