| Show making macinga a choice A inde independence T indence and loneliness or dependence with ties of affection TO MOST persona perilous there comes A sometime in their lives the opportunity for a choice between independence and loneliness or ties and affection the wise mature person thinks long before choosing the former above the latter there are many young people however who feel so sure of themselves and their ability to get along all right that they are irked by the least restraint they throw it off only to discover later in life that tha t affection is worth the curt curtailing a II 11 restraint and dependence entailed companionship has been their portion up to the time of their decision that dependence is what they must have at any cost they have no idea of what loneliness means separation 1 the adult who is separated from his family because of distance domestic estrangement or who has outlived the other members realizes to the full what it means to be alow alone it is when estrangement causes the separation that there are times when the aloneness is bearable or agreeable but these times are interrupted by hours when the feeling of loneliness creeps over him or her and companionship though with but a small degree of affects affection 0 n is craved individuality human nature is so constituted that people cannot live in the same atmosphere and always see eye to eye there is wisdom in this plan individuality would be queued quelled it if what any person thought how ever beloved could always be accepted without dissent by those around him or her nor can a actions of even those dear to us in variably arl ably meet with our approval whether expressed 0 or r u n e x pressed it is when we learn to permit personal differences without censure that companionship in the home or out of it develops best even when children ore are young they must be allowed a madi modicum curn of such fre freedom edo m or wh when e n od older I 1 e r they will long to break away and it if they do then there is loneliness in store for or the youth and sadness left in the home divorce married couples when they contemplate divorce have the choice between independence plus loneliness or dependence each on the other with affection restored or remaining less than could be 19 desired it may be there is pat ability but it should be remembered that no two persons married or single can live together under the same roof and always be congenial however this does not signify that at heart affection is gone separation means loneliness for one or both of them families within a family there is sure to be come some dissension at times young folk may quarrel and adults dispute but when these times are aver over the ties of affection the associations that intertwine and the fabric of their lives so closely woven together should prove a firari arni foundation for continued companionship panion ship the door to loneliness should remain barred 9 bell syndicate service |
