Show 1 Hes He's Worth Hanging On To ToI I DEAR DORIS Last summer sum sum- mer I wrote to you about how I wouldn't be able to lace face the theman theman man Id I'd marry with the burns burnson on my chest You said that if the man loved me enough h he wouldn't care how my chest looked Well since then I met a boy of 20 I Iam Iam am also 20 and last st week I told him about the burns on my chest We Ve talked about it for an hour or so and he told me You forget one important factor factor fac- fac tor beauty is deep I asked him how he could still care for me and he said Its you isn't it and I love you He has made me so happy that I could cry Now I feel I can go through anything with him by my side Joy DEAR JOY Im I'm thrilled too Now theres there's a young man who has his values straight Hang on DEAR DORIS The nice letter let let- ter I received from you a couple of years ago has prompted me meto meto to write to you again My daughter who is 14 is trying to make up her mind whether to continue with the arts and science subjects or tJ b change over to commercial She is just an average student Janes Jane's Mother lother DEAR MOTHER Not all careers call for a university education but commercial is not the only alternative Examine fIrst what her aptitudes tulles tudes are If she is basically cut cutout cutout out to work with people this might indicate a nursing or nursing assistants assistant's course if she enjoys cooking should she be bea a dietitian Skill with hands and fingers may point to ing Or perhaps her flair for English does indicate a future at a typewriter Id I'd urge her to talk with her guidance counsellor or teacher s so that her ac r e arid l interests may be linked tp iJ with possible lines of study My article arti arti- cle on Choosing A Career may help too It is on its way And may be had by anyone writing in and enclosing ten cents and a stamped envelope DEAR DORIS I was wi wi- dowed and raised two boys and andam andam am now 42 I met a very fineman line fine lineman man of 45 a short time ago he has met the children and they are very fond of him My friends think it silly of me meto meto to consider marriage at this point of the game They tell me meI I am free now and say the most discouraging things They ten tell me I dont don't know him that Ive I've never seen him under various situations and conditions He would like a family of his own and this I can appreciate although I wonder at my a age e if Im I'm too old I enjoy his company very much Am I taking a big risk as people say I am Risk Or Not DEAR RISK Any marriage is a gamble You are the one who knows the loneliness of paddling your own canoe not your wise too friends You have havea a lot of life ahead of you If you dont don't know your man manwell manwell well get to know him better Adjusting ourselves and our lives to another is tougher as we get set in our ways but more mature marriages have been known to surpass first loves DEAR DORIS Before my sister left for an unknown destination destination desti desti- nation in Australia she gave a farewell party As I waS about to be married she asked me if I would like to hold my mv reception at the same time This I agreed to and gave her 15 towards the cost of the hall I now have a letter from the owner of the hall saying there is isan isan an outstanding bill of 30 It appears appears ap- ap pears my sister had not paid up They say I am responsible How can this be when I took no part partin in the actual deal Anxious DEAR ANXIOUS I cant can't cantsee cantsee see it either but isn't he just looking for a way of oC getting paid And are you willing to 3 30 dollars dollars' worth pr ier than pay him How about a duplicate duo du- plicate bill from him to p pass ss on onto onto to your sister when you hear from her Then pay him yourself yourself your your- self but get his promise to repay repay re re- pay you when a cheque comes from down under |