Show DEAR d DORIS IIi 1 We Need Affection DEAR DORIS DOlUS A milestone in the life lite of or every reliable husband husband hus band bam occurs when he has discovered discovered discovered ered that should he have omitted omit omit- ted the affectionate greeting his wife wire will not make the first move to greet him even at homel home Call it Mom Mom ism Ism if It you like but is it not natural that a young man should expect that affection affection tion should be mutual after aeter marriage mar mar- ringe As writer of a column mainly feminine will you commit yourself yourself your self sell to some criticism of wives on this score Male Of 01 Seventy DEAlt DEAH MALE I Yes Ves Indeed d dy Some wives take husbands for granted Other wives think ItIs itis it itis is unladylike to initiate affectionate affectionate ge gestures tures But then there arc are husbands who rebuff them And males who all life liCe long fail to show consideration in all things physical physical cal sad to say Humans need the human touch the pressure of a hand a loving arm a kiss This goes for whether one is eight 18 or BO 80 O Love thrives on affection DEAlt DEAH no DOKIS IUS Why does docs everyone everyone everyone ev ev- consider that when a teen teen-ager 16 really falls in inlove inlove inlove love with wilh someone 10 to 20 years her senior she falls for him because because because be be- cause of a fatherly attitude de t to towards towards wards him a fath father father father-daugh daugh daughter ter affair Dont Don't you feel that if he feels that he loves her herand and th that t she loves him and vice versa they are in love I 1 have been going with this guy for two years Wh Why cant can't my mother accept the fact that I love him Truly In Love DEAR DEAlt TRULY You'll have to number me among the everyone everyone ev everyone mentioned in your first line Id I'd suspect that your distant distant distant dis dis- dis- dis tant relationship with your parents parents par tints has made you turn to this warm warm and sympathetic adult The Ther Thereal real al tragedy would be if you promised yourself to him or anybody else at this stage of your young life r DEAR DORIS DOlUS I 1 am 14 years vears old in Grade 10 Please Pleas d do J i not use that old you are arc too young answer for some of at m my questions since I r can pass for 18 with no trouble at restricted movies or pool halls M My parents give me too little freedom If I r want to go to a school dance that ends at 11 1130 30 they say Be in by 1200 Now I ask y you u what are the they trying to do only giving me a half hour What kind of or fun can 1 r have in ani only half hall an hour If a bunch of us Ul takes off in cars for fora a wild ride etc I am never in b by 1200 It Is more like one or two in the morning How can Eget I r get more parent-approved parent free freetime freetime freetime time Not Too Young DEAR DEAlt NOT Going by appearances appearances ap means you fool no noone noone noone one but yourself Just wait walt till you find yourself UI up against a a serious problem like an accident accident acci acci- dent an unmanageable girl girlfriend girlfriend girlfriend friend a drunken driver It'll HII be your parents who arc are called to account then If you were my year old boy you'd not stay out after 12 Its It's not how old you look but how old you are in mind body and per per- personality DEAR DEAlt DORIS DOlUS Could you ou send me some sort of flexible housekeeping schedule as the breakfasts for my crew eight boys and husband go on from six to ten and dinners from six sl sixto sixto to nine There just isn't enough of me My husband ridicules m my poor housekeeping habits daily The house is clean but not spotless Im I'm ashamed to say My monetary mone mane monetary tary allotment is not enough to have help Im I'm sure youve you've heard it all before God bless some of the poor souls you hear from Yours In Laughter DEAR LAUGHTER If you youcan youcan youcan can still laugh youve you've got it Il made One cheerful reader with wilh witha wilha a load like yours sent us us some hints for coping and Ill I'll send them on to you and to anyone else who'll send me a stamped self self- addressed envelope along with ten cents to cover handling handling han han- Wkly Weekly Future |