Show 4 y Dear car Louisa I have a friend who is a widow She planning to be bo married married married mar mar- ried this next month and tl this s sis is s the question I should like to have hac lave answered Is it necessary for or me to give her a present She has asked me to serve at athe atthe atthe the he small reception she is giving giving ing ng after the thc ceremony but when she was married the first time ime my husband and I gave her a very handsome present I dont don't think she expects a pres pres- ent from us but my daughter thinks I should give her one 1 Puzzled Answer I dont don't think it is obligatory since you gave her a handsome present the first time she was married You might give her something ng of a personal nature not not too loo expensive if if c if it would make you and your daughter feel better about it Louisa Dear Louisa My husband lost l his s job with witha n a company he h had d been for lor or years and I went vent to work ork m in h a a job I had before beCore I was married lamed My 11 husband got another er cr r job last week which is really letter better than the one he had be- be ore My problem is that I have two wo small children who need me but that extra money would certainly mean a lot if 1 I could keep this job and my husband could work could work also But there is no one I feel leel satisfied to leave the children with What must 1 I Ido do Mary B B. B j Answer er 1 Give up the job and and take care of oC your yom children When they get to be school age if you need the money for their education you can get a part time job lob Children need special care in their formative years and unless un un- unless less it is absolutely necessary for lor a wife to work it l is better beUer for the husband to feel leel that heis heis he heis is the only bread winner in m the family Many men secretly resent resent resent re re- re- re sent their wives working t 1 Address your letter leller to Louisa care of the Davis County Clipper Clipper Clip Clip- per Bountiful Utah |