Show I I Advice Offered On Oldest Oldest i I P I Problem of Mod Modern n Era i i Editors Editor's Note liss Miss Amateur will endeavor to answer any questions questions questions ques ques- on social usa usages and customs Address your our letters to Anne Annc Amateur care Editor Chronicle office Dear Anne Amateur I know my problem is as old as the hills and that it is asked every every ev ey- ery year at it least once but I would like to know know to to neck or not to neck Can you OU give me an any advice advice advice ad ad- vice that will really work 1 Im I'm no prude and I dont don't want to bethought be bethought bethought thought one lint hut after all one must really draw the line some some- where How can I without offending offending of of- fending anyone Im I'm just a Treshman Treshman Tresh- Tresh man this year so please excuse my mynot mynot mynot not knowing the answers to these questions and please answer them f for me me Alpha Dear Alpha 1 i You aro are right about your our question question ques ques- tion lion and the reason it is asked so i much is that there is no hard and antl fast answer Toda Today necking is iR not frowned upon and yet as you OU isay I Isay say one must draw a line Being la l a freshman you ou are arc very probably ly Iy very Ver popular for that Is the way with fellows fellows fellows-a a new face a I different smile and the they all give I you ou a big tumble I To tell you OU whom to neck and whom not to would be an impertinence impertinence imper imper- i on my part But nut the fact remains that there are some you I r wont No girl need kiss er e every everyman everyman t man indiscriminately if she does docs I Inot not choose to and no smart girl k chooses to Keep yourself just a f little bit aloof and your popularity popular popular- i ity will last lon longer er j T War Tug ug-o ug ar 1 Now for when you ou choose not to i and he chooses to Well Vell the only I j thing you OU can do a about out it without offending him at all is to forestall him If you can see the green I light on the semaphore around the 1 curve sidetrack the train of con con- I That is the best way 1 But Dut sometimes you have arrived arrived ar ar- ar I rived at the bridge before you even 4 knew there was a river near this doesn't happen to a coed who I i knows the lines the fellows use I but some of us dont In this i. i case you have several courses still I left you although you are now on E dangerous ground for he may be i hurt at your refusal t. t You may be flippant You may appeal to him as a gentleman You Youcan Youcan Youcan can get angry As a last resort you can laugh at him This last course is risky if you want to date him again because nobody likes being laughed at but it always 1 works Masculine Advice If you dont don't like kissing yet dont don't want to hurt his feelings you might follow the advice a fellow once offered A CIA girl can repulse a fellow every time if she lets him kiss her once and shows only complete indifference I never knew anyone who successfully did this let me know if it works Experience is the best teacher teacher- you may have to work out your own system But there is one thing I want to emphasize emphasize emphasize-don't don't dont neck too much I and too freely Dont Don't be cheap I hope I have been heen of some assistance to you on this difficult problem Yours Anne Amateur |