Show II ii I II l M Mothers others Mould Futures i Ii 1 I Whether ether It Il be ue true or not that t at he hr II Is tl u the perfect man who unie unites lu to I. I him him both anti and ont traits It I ItI I Is s certain that time the deep an and all al prevailIng prevail prevail- In Ing ng Influence or of a mother Po has Ms ut at all al times limes shaped or ci helped to shape the tIme te destinies of Individuals The Influence of Ir WUllen which has han always been beer exceedingly ln I great In iii II all ul the spheres of or pu public lc or private fr i I Is supreme In the lle home hom or 01 ut at any an rate late it I ou ought h t to io be c. c Th The Tue e entire men mental tu 1 and amid ald emotional 1 ma mila machinery t chinery of or women Is very ury or different from m C that of men and It i i Is b precisely pi the ie lc peculiar intellect of or wo- wo inch nen which when le duly dimly I 1 transmitted to n ft f young oung man inamI aal will wil him to lo tb do rc- rc things It I lots IM long been beCa that urn Irn arc aie far more inure likely to lo Inherit their gla gits of or Intellect lect from ruin heIr mother The Sch dl e c e een en that thal this els Is the time rca reason un vIi vh wl women v tb do not mint cure care for Cor or Intellectual men he lie says tays a s since time tho child IB is I su sure n to Inherit Inri f Its Intellect nm tl time the mother nother the thc latter later 11 Instinctively cl does doel not Hot Intellect In man mun and only cat cares os for rOI such sueh bodily 1 and oher olier features is us will wi he lie trans from limo tho tin ami not miot from rom time the mother to the time child Perhaps as mistaken and anil It Il mu may flay be le commonly observed that more timid and moral f futures features from froim side relatives such I is its aunts und and uncles than timan directly from tile tIC parent Yet Vet it cannot be 0 r Iver- IVr ll time the of or the time mother molher Croli tile We da day dato to to the ninth or tenth year of ot or ones one's life is Immense The Tue Gree Greeks ui paid very cry much attention to this critical and In many a Greek state ll they y hud bud t an tt ela elaborate system SH tern tem ter of or legislation on now to tiring bring up children un under tinder er the tit lie mothers mother's influence I rom frOl lie Iho the lr t year lur to t the thu lt auth Now v u a wr we and amid 11 1 our legislation ia- ia much I more inure ll attention to education fruit from flOI 10 to lo o 20 O than from rom 1 t to I 10 V. V A may d un much to mould the time future of her hel chili child b by accustoming accustoming- It I to ti tt scrupulous hones honesty ty to decent 1 behavior chalor I to cleanliness to moderation In Iii eating end drinking and to dutifully performIng performing perform perform- nor ing all 01 that he promised or a was wan j ed to All 1 this however the she can mu an do only b by loving her home hOll II hH having C rOw few w servants et and particularly particular by helping her son up to lo his fourteenth year eor under her direct superintendence It I Is moth moth- I Vs Cl'S like that who ha have C made mode many of I tho the moat successful men of or the world The Tho h period from our first to out out- tenth lenth the tho most critical years Is In man ninny many ways of our life Co If J the Ito right hc beginning INnot Is IN not made mude 1 during that time timmie It I will wil hemore lie he- for Cor the lie more moore than difficult to make mako up loss 8 Incurred by education In subsequent Sl- Sl quent years Our memory our Imagination our health and antI several love lovo of or work our other factors of success In fit life Ure depend on what has been done for Cor us in the first ten ton years of or our eXI experience This I again depends almost exclusively on the I action of ur the mother nail anil sad sal and amId ant dla- dla arc agreeable ble though It Is to utter such cla 1 a n athing thing it Is quite true that thal the astounding astound astound- lug ing number of Individual failures both bothIn Ine is duo I In Great Grat Britain and ant In merl AmeriCa a. a mainly to the thc neglect cl o of sons' sons c education to the tenth tion from tram the first year yeal For or we ave must not deceive w s. s While both bolh Great and time the United States are arc as countries as a to totals totals totals to- to a remarkable success yet taking It Individually 1 none of oC the hl highly civilized 01 Western countries In II Europe suffers suffers suf suf- Izel great a percentage of or fers Cers from so 80 the thc lie United waste wast In and wastrel as do States By ny this Kingdom of or If tile the United Is m meant ant not only time the appalling nun mini In both countries coun cool absolute Jer of or paupers tries irles although it H Is most inconceivable le I Jiow JIW the lie United States Stales with a territory 1 and natural wealth sufficient to maintain main maln- tain three hundred to four tour hun hundred million mil mu- lion lon people should have hae so man many paupers mi-I mi than hundred hun bun In tn a population of less one dred red 1 millions what millions what is meant is chiefly I persons who hot without l being exact exactly paupers have hu ma made e a mess of ot their lives The Tue number of such persons both bolh bothIn bothIn I In fn England and in the lie states is in time the better c classes vcr very much larger than either cither In France or In Germany If it I. I now now ono one tries to go 0 back bacic to th thap tan tup ap root of that thai undeniable le evil l. e inc will find that In tIle the majority of cases the lie person ierson concerned had boon been wrongly his or her ber first l prepared prepare for or life lite during rr ten tell years I. I I e. e I by ly his or r. r All Al this conies comes back hack to the tIme one great groat rent fundamental truth namely that there Is no greater Calac fallacy going than the tho tl legend of the self made c man None Nono ono of ot us is self There never has hns been a self made sel man or woman We all al need much making at tho the hands hon s of venous verlous persons and anti tile the first of these persons Is the thc mother mothe |