Show l Etiquette f uette o of a Cl Widows Widow's s 's Wedding I BY Ili K J K PJ I With ith regard to the garb galb of or widows who tube are arc desirous of ot entering upon a 0 second second venture however fashion may moy I vary vavy in to the attire o of the marriage of ot a a- maiden n it is unchanged in requiring that tho the widow bride should wear a n. ahat ahat hat or toque or even cven a a. bonnet If It her age be somewhat beyond mere merc maturity ma ma- The Thc wr wreath nth and veil are arc for tor the first marriage only Nor Nor- d does cs a a. widow widow- bride carry a bouquet though she may Wear teal real flowers in ht her dress and ana often often ortAn of- of of or- ten tAn does docs She is not p permitted to o have havo bridesmaids brIdesmaids brides brIdes- maids but Ul is usually attended by a n. I 1 who friend friend who Is is In everything but name a n. bridesmaid who bridesmaid who 1 who stands behind be behind be- be hind the bride during the ceremony and holds her prayer book and hen lieo g glove OVA if nees necessary ry Tire Tile we wedding 1 ring of or lie me previous marriage is not removed l till the mornIng morn morn- ing ng of ot the se second bridal on and ami 1 the widow should not wear her second engagement engagement engage engage- ment ring on un the linger which Is spanned by this wedding ring rho Tho widow bride is given away by her bel nearest male hale relative E sometimes but not often otten by her mother and the Lila routine of ot the ceremony and reception is exactly the same as ac that of ot an ordinary ordinary ordinary ordin ordin- ary wedding It is 18 s not unusual for lOl a n. I relative r of the first husband t to vo her n. n away way In regard to marriages in general irrespective of or whether the bride Is a 0 widow or a maid it is the time hon o ored ed prerogative of the thc bride brido lo to name namo tho the wedding weding day an and most brides show favor Cavor for summer r marriages The clay y of or tho the week is sometimes s an In m. m Dort nt consideration especially to tho Cho who recall tho the old oil 1 j 1 w for l t J o a r f Wednesday Ve heat i rest st da day of oJ n all U Th Thursday day for crosses Friday for or losses r to And Saturday no luck luett at all The last doleful prophecy dogs does not seem eem em to au affect ct society brides at all all as Sa Saturday nd y Is the favored 1 tl day fur fm- royal an and ana society weddings c Moro More ordinary 1 and humble stumble Individuals show a a. prefer l 9 nee ce for or Tuesday Wednesday aril anil 1 Thur Thursday The fhe supers superstitious r further ciuc to follow v the Cite tco ml given Iven n In n an old olt Scotch r couplet which 8 says she says ys she sho should we wear wear wear- r- r 1 r ig old ohIo something now lime 1 Something borrowed 1 something blue bloc J Another n ic couplet Is s Ir In Tto ref ref- o Happy 13 is the bride hat the tho c autt 3 I es on on 5 And heat hoit t otio c- c cO O iJ l i Io logical ical Who Vho changes her gel namo and not notter Her ter letter J f Marries for COl worse and not for Tor bettor hetter There are arc brides who feel feol eol a assured r ot or C every sort soi of or good luck lucid Jt it only oh oil their hoir wedding day they can manage I lo or drive a few tew steps 1 titter after a t cm This eccentrics eccentric idea Ideo is 19 of ot a u s very very- df dismal ml 1 character rather akin t tri tor gamblers who think It ver very lucky to get tet a a. lilt bit ot ut rope with which criminal h has s boon been hanged or 01 anything some that thai has hos once b belonged long to it a a suicide It If Is is difficult to Imaging how guru sU such h I ghastly Ideas originate 1 t Every very one is c to arrive be- be toru too the bride and her ew await ll her Inside the door 1001 bridesmaids bridesmaid I ranged range J In Iii tile the order in hr which the they ojo aTo to follow her up the aisle 1 Th The order of or coming and going to and front from from the church U is the r llo Ih The brides bride's mother drives to cl lr h a a few b before tole it lu less r daughter uh she is giving Id tho the bride awn away In Which e C the cafe mother molher drives it is more with her help r more usual should 1 UI the father b be dead lead or 01 unable si l to give his nto d from Illness or absi ab- ab laughter q t. t the e next n nearest aWa away rOl f r so In to hIs nig male re relative e to do rO ao rl place ee The a oldest Im I'm I her ic JC lp av available a gives gnes tho Ihn bride mv away or Dr an uncle ar at an 01 old 1 friend or of the the may do clo so sn y en the bride is married In her tr traveling dress her ed In I su art II lap go of tIe the 1 type 1 carb e being taken talen In h here nero re to lace lacea semo n a 0 sUle l log Inc Children color color- OIOI as far as possIble he quaintly cr attire In treat t Tian ce th their tl charm I on- on The rho 1111 bride 1 a as she vivo rive the In last l to 0 hr ar J Js the tho tInt first to leave lea driving ort off with two time the cl chur tu r t the oom e brides bride's father q t off r e rooms room's with the r mot mother her then r I. I e iii m other with the follow follow- th the lather do o that the tho H are ro at home to respective This is welcome the thc guests tB C quite qUilt English wh When hen n n gone Iun the IC brides malls th they are e the t 10 are mc handed hande I into t carrIages b by the 0 nian or of b t course playing ht mal II U 1 or cavalier cn to t h Q It H Is not n r t to pro for tor th the 0 b brides bride's guests carriages Por t i exec except P t t tho he many do so l The length ot of tho rho h greatly has Altered ot of It late c m month 1 f it Itt stead or doo t ha tr It Wes down di n to 0 two or three end case n n In n bride of or lu Tuesday on ono at the se or of a b bride I ld C was present lowing un on the fol g Saturday A h hinny are in 10 love e IW couple ho do not nott a month or of each Other tude ue too 00 long ong a tote fete e soil Many changes have I the tho token taken place 1 c of at for of eve T p e are aloe years dowdy whereas tort How w considered ler ll quite 0 the they I wired MEU ell an unu d 1 encouraged us used 1 to bo 0 11 JS ary evidence th fiat as n eC and nd frivolity of n mill amidst 1 1 t a all the tho fuss fuse the e solemn Inert cr J solemnity Y or of f the n tr occasion quite ut i oat lost sight of or on wits w not r v |