| Show PROPRIETIES EAR r DEAR Mrs Post ost The other day at atthe atthe the tennis club a boy who had been blen playing In the next court asked me very eagerly If I J would piny play with him some da day soon Would It be improper improper im im- proper for tor me to call him up Answer I 1 certainly would not nol telephone telephone telephone tele tele- phone him no not because of any especial especial espe espe- cial Impropriety but bUI because yov yo would seem overeager o to see him again But nut If you see sec him at the club dub some day there Is no reason why you might not ask him casually Would you rou like to play S e eDear Dear Mrs Post ost Is It essential In Inthis Inthis inthis this day of unsettled living lUIng to have ha an address on a mans man's visiting card card If It there Is no address on the card should one be written on In pencil when hen necessary Answer The address on a card Is Isso Isso isso so convenient con that It Is best to hn have e It put on as ns several se successive suc sue addresses can bt cut on the same same plate Of course If yo YG hano ha have no address on it and the person for whom you jou leave It dies not know where you rou live write in pencil S S S e eMy My dear Mrs Post 1 I am planning to be married this month and must have a very simple and small wed ding Several weeks ago a friend of mine had a shower party and Invited almost every one of at my friends I 1 feel as al though I should Invite Ue to my I wedding all these kind who gave ga me lovely gifts but how can cnn I 1 I when I cant can't even en Include my InY own I rf relations outside of our Immediate families families' How flow does one draw the line in making up such Buch a list I Answer I 1 dont don't think that you rou can an very well accept shower presents present J and then not invite In the let givers alone the friends who give the shower par par- to ties the wedding wedding Y Yoc Tor at would better bet bet- ter have bave said Thank r you u Mary but don dont don't t have haTe a shower for me because I 1 cant can't ask anyone but the family to my wedding n It i. i quite possIble to cut your list as you ou please 80 so long Ii as YOl 1 8 are 1 consIstent Ask aunts aunt and uncles and stop at first cousins Or ask cousins you rou know well and omit those you never see Ask really intimate Inti inti- mate friends and no others 6 o by POL POIL SonIc Service |