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Show "WASATCH COUNTY COURIER _ Genes 7 21, 1999 : FOR THE HEALTH OF IT Behavior Throughout the Athletic Season Editor Note: reprinted from Wasatch — County Recreation Department handout for youth soccer. Ten or 20 years ago, watching a youth game was fairly simple. Parents would bring the kids, hang around the field and chitchat with other ‘Moms and Dads. Then, when the is the golden rule applied to sports. ‘Watching kids’ sports tends to be a social affair. When you’re making conversation your on friends with team, there’s also a loser. Be prepared neighbors, think to cushion your child’s disappoint after a loss by pointing out that he or she played hard put forth a tremen- about what you’re saying before you actually say it. To always be on the safe side, other only voice praise children. That for. the z ways: oe Ad never go wrong. 2. It’s nice to give the coach a pat on however, life at youth league games is no longer so pristine and pure. And it’s: the parents, not the kids, who are the main reason so many problems and concerns are cropping up. Moms and Dads too often are losing perspective not only of what’s important at these games, but also of what’s appropriate sideline behavior. So, parents, here’s a quick reminder of how grown-ups should behave at kid’s games. r Talk about the other kids on the team - indeed, on both teams - in the same manner yOu would want other parents to talk about your child. This the back when he or she wins. It’s even nicer when you give the coach a pat on Remember the back after a your child climbs back into your car, avoid at all costs the detailed, excruciating post game analysis of every- Besides, loss. rulebook. fun 9. If you must of to team relax. The 7. If you aren’t a “good sport” at the games, the kids won’t be either. This their on-field efforts as well. should be self-evident. 3 Why don’t you lead the way? pattern that and 6. Smile. A lot. Kids’ sports are about having fun, and because kids take their behavioral cues from you, try at least to look like you're enjoying yourself.- give-the - ref, child played, If you set a of being a sideline loud- mouth who likes to yell and scream it’s the Wasatch County Courier offers to print Remember: Muzzle Loader: Extended Unit: Deer: Aug. 21 to Dec. 12 Elk: Aug. 26 to Dec. 12 ’ IBOHUNT ARCHERY CENTER 29 S. 500 W. * HEBER CITY 654-2725 noise at the Above all, be there for your chil- let them counted know you can always be on for Sone love, reeardless of the final score. questions to Guide, NY 1800-327-5557). P.O. Box 10185-5574 him 5574, You can at Parents’ New York, “_ birth ) Dr. | Erik M. Johnson adding ‘omin obituary Treatment and Rehabilitation for: Car/Work Accidents Neck Pain Headaches and ZOINS Low Back Pain Chronic Pain announcements The Wasatch to: County Courier Weight Loss Nutrition 10. dren. 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They like when parents and fans acknowl- your the them your to help umpire or official a pat on the back, 4. Remind out, savor learn it’s a good a well-deserved salute, especially when their hasn’t fared well that day. edge chill child games, shout only praise and encouragement. If you’re a screamer and time hésivate your thing she did right and wrong. Just having Don't. the game. A lot of kids these days are playing sports you may not be familiar with. So if you don’t know the rules of the game, why don t you and coaches are volunteers who are sacri- 3. 8. Take the time to learn the rules of 5. Avoid te PG. a the Post game Analysis. When the game is over and let her kid. So give them _ start copying your behavior. You will have only yourself to blame. dous effort. that the vast majority of ficing their own at the ref, coach or opposing team, don’t be surprised when your kids — ee OT SUERTE AUT) RR o These days, effort that counts. We know all the kids want to win. That’s a given. 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