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SatWZV-IN- Wv‘x0iSiba4a4k6NMOWe0tMaa1riroaPoTo0 " 10 - - - ' '' ! - - - ' ' - -- 7- W : '' ' - 13 JANUARY' IC SUNDAY MORNING THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE - '':- - -"' ' - H - I ' - y - - '' By - - -- 00' t "- - 0'''''''' s t I n wig erpero"b cgealmeberi°tyf sylouweisnhvyl oltenitt - - z': ' f - Y 1 ' 1 -- - ' ' 0 tAl e - ''' -- 01' OS1 ' ' - -- - to- ---- t - These are the piople get top grades in Dr Marstas advanced happiness class: whty 'Helm--- - Hayes lives working bard giv art to stage ing her screen and radio who loves her friends associ- ates family her brilliant and unpredictable hus- - - — - - ” ' ( - bd' her lil ' - --- 5 ' 4 1 y'h I ? - 6 - S:t ‘ -- I sr ? f - t C'') 'it 1111 i ' cr ' wlt ' AcAstt ' le 4 ''' r ' kii t11 ' - - -'t' $ t '4 7 - ) - 1' 6 ' ' t ‘ r's -- w 1 11 - - -- ' ' he ' - Draw a triangle' Put an L on 'filch corner of it Evaluate your living loving and laughing 1 I ' I 9z 7 — -- - ' "s " Marston lists as one person who has drawn the perfect —triangle of happiness Mrs Lauritz Melchior seen here engaging in a few operatic gymnastics with her 'famed husband - - : have an aveision for it It's passe Don't says Dr Marston be afraid to jump from'one task to another while trying to find what you like An attack of stick-to-i- tiveness is fine in its place but if you are working at something youjike you won't always have attitude toward it ' that Now tackle your list of dislikes Disagreeable things are sure to creep into the nicest job Dr Marston warns not to try to escape from them nor 'ride over them Recognize them analyze them and then try to guide them into a channel of expression While working on his lie detector he hated all the legal quibbling When he realized detailt like these were precisely the same thing as the result he found just as much pleasure in his victory over prepare- as tions-product - : - 4 t ' -- - ' V '' - -- -- - -- - dio dala fr — g k - rco ( ' — - - ( 4'Sk 'Z:7- II 4k 4 i' k l :vou findyou haven't been livipgat IFjust existing you had better alter one ': s wn 61) y ro ‘ to- of-a- ll- 0 1 I e e e explains (piing tion" Dr Marston ''be good at immediate results:- - cleaning in success - 'Which brings us to the next step Find out hOw your likes can be expressed Dr Marston commends everyone to do what he likes for that way lies success Mney fame power what--ever it is you want necessarily followsbecause- '' you dobest what You find Pleasure in doing - you — the Puritanical- - tre -- :r V (2 : - olk (() e) - t A f14 it 4 4- :11100e — - - -- I 6 - p - - -? -- Zs e '‘‘ t ' 0) - -- - NIi k V ' 17 — - - —— — - --- — ---- - — ir-- - ' 1dgrci pyrtirT: of rt -- ' nonoi:t ' - right-so- - anything re- up yourself to do The love: is giving not takrng If you give because you Want to hoping for in return—your own - happiness something gifts prestige anything—your 1ove wont work But if you give thinking solely of -- other- person's - needs--an- d make the other person and yourself happy Try it sod at breakfast You hate grapefruit but your wife enjoys it utterly Make yourself Iikegrapefruit and discover thar it gives you 'both pleasure ' 3 Now how does look? D o e your 6-sides balance) Or is the triangle lopsided) it is you know what to do about it ' Start lamins your three Val ' ' ifaNs)1e‘eve‘er:icmcs 14'' 's largelypecause men specialize yourlyes-anclandlesa- ysl dislikes Put down the most petty things for they are significant 'of something fundamental Then analyze what is behind each desire Sup- pose a woman likes dishwashing' That indi— "She would?! cates she enjoys order neatness - - '- re-- N - - a1 sie--- ::::' 1 - 1: :': 1 v3V0K4 1i the time being! of your triangle---f- or Few people can' qualify in laughter It isn't 4 or read the comic strips enough to say "Ha-ha- " ( '' c 0 like the with face Rock of Gibraltar Can you a ' vssves ' ' N4 ' laugh at your own failures? This is the test '' ::''' ' 06 The essence of laughter defines the psycholo1 E:'1 l'e' ''''''' "::4I" '" gist is change When you feel defeated can Helen in see your-osays you climb up on a liilltop-an- d knows how to livs love and augh congruities? You mayfind that sense of incongruity by standingon your head reading Scho penhau'er or smg t -- Marx Brothers pipes S7 Dr Marston lays down a few rules for everyone who wants to achieve a perfect Finally love Dr' Marston nods pointedly when advising his friends to find love the life: I Draw a triangle put an L on each ' friend waits HI haven't time" That cries the a psychologist !Is one very important reason why corner of it 2 Evaluate your living laughing an 5I loving 94 per cent of the people in this country are not - I ' : by these standards: happy in love This is his estimate made after 1 i :: r '" tt ! J - : 'Th 4 - - - ''' --1 7 "1 vAcioiecLloMTakeliyingfirsoilsancLeases J't ( - : k' 46issotor have-4tha- us A -- -- shell-shock- — 4 t'sk ' ' nourIced her caieer success friends She trav eled into the backwoods of Canada with her husband a victim of the war who claimed to be a Scottish Earl with large timber interests She eursed kirn lavished affection on him cooked for hiph wept for hi! She discovered he was working lumberman that his wealth and title were imaginary Never- theless she stuck One dayhe left her and her devotion Friends gave her money to return home and now she is working in a library again "A bacCactoir' Dr Marston shakes his head "No worse than most men with whom Too much women fall desperately in love l e3t ' ' Ss' ut C dorri I' ' 3 4 i 001 'm t4 ie 4 4 tgi11eIgn 1 :f ' I ''' 77 k imi--- 46 Vbg i'71: do-or-- l - kb 1 t t are working at something' t youlike you won't always attitude toward urn i k - - - if you - " -- -- 40 Hollywood! -- Aw"6 -- o Louise Fazenda because she is that excep- tional clown who can make other people laugh' and laugh herself whose hard faithful work has earned her success and who has been hap- pity maryiect for years to the same man in - is famed—as-th- e - (4- ' - has gorgeous gowns designed to express her ' it fts i m alma 0mo0A - t- - lady if you ' a hundred homes each one housing the followers of her growing "I-AGroup" a movement dedicated to the slogan "Be yourself" whose —usband and son are her loyal op the phtform and off who laughs writes music --n- - k Dr' -- ‘ - 1- ' d - ' - k o - 1 ' ' - i - - ' 'd s'1 (1--- - k - -- ' -- - - - :i - r "'" 00 ' r j i If - ' ' --- 1 - - - - i-- - 'el ib N It : 1 ' -- ') 4 -:i :-- '- I 1 " ‘s - — i - " k9 41 '' ( 0 °'"-7----' ally flooding she cries wiping the eet eez zo funnee I tears away Roosevelt who traveled 'alone - Eleanor studied art organized 'schools built furnitsre factories while still young who has a keen al truistic intereit in miters from rich and influential to unculttliest girl prisoners who laughed I more heartily than anyone at the caricature off berself drawn-ba relative Harvey C Weaver Dr— Marston's candidate for "one of the happiest individuals I've ever met" who has done 'what he liked flebbled in motion pictures is now surveying fields for black-golwho has been up and down laugh- 04 v t - I inventor MARSTONof the "lie detector" For years he has ' biel4 casulting psychologist and professor at various universities including Columbia ' : He isn't like most psychiatrists 'equipped with a little black mustache and an artful yocabli- larytTalt heivy-se- t robust he talks simply loves ood food and good fellowship His letting triumphs ing at his own faitures--zev- er cliiiits in the consulting room pay him$20 a e ' -- - curb the freedom of his life who has been in half lour but he is a genial person who likes love" i whose 3rives I here was the playboy tti friendship men swear by for laughter pakt You drop a noncommittal statement ancl Sonja Henie lovely gliding ray of north- - JJ1he Will pick it up quickly "DI you-- ) Why sort on the Maine coast bright summer days a ' ern sunshine who skims through hir work her k'What for?"he will press you lovely laughing girl who had grown up in the life laughing at its quIrks and inconsistencies r::4 He can name the happiest personalities he village They fell madly in love Her step own who haslet neither adulation - t!knows-bhe is familiar also with their tragic - -- - mother mistreated her and so it the end of the nor hard work spoil her happiness summer they were married They went to his opposites To him eventually come the twisted forms the shadtives of creatures once glamor Dishwasharg bills what the Stepin Fetchit who changes his gorgeously city to live '—painted Royces to suit Ms moods gives away uswho drInk deep of one cup7 and neglected bride who wanted him to a groceryman said most of Ms salary and goes in debt for other all else- - Sordid stories that he says we seed absorbed in her—it wasn't any fun any people- laughs at people for laughing at him– to know because we learn by contrasts To more He tugged at his bonds and finally ran Thomas E Dewey whose love of honest know what to do we must appreciate what not away ' people and disgust at the ugliness of professional to do Todaili 10 years later he is getting ready to criminals has made him become the countris One should give up all for 42ve according divorce his fifth wife! His life dedicated to : to t °mantic ionceptions' imagining oneself an ' fun mocki him laughter is as empty AS the champion racket buster: who is devoted to a -- -' Iso Ide or 'Juliet charming Wife delightful chiklren and ill odd But cries Dr Marston' n:)- ' tinkling of a tambourine - ' Music to the he studied as a youth: —man can stand too–much of–love--tells of ' Now that you know the best and the Mrs G NV Ballard a young woman with the librarian who fell in love married and re- how do you start finding your own path to 1 - : He 1 4 vt t0 - — ea ' ? 4' I - ! --and-- at-her t : - - 4 - N c f ' a111 ' 41:c3 Nimi'l - : t0- '''' - t l'f ks d : J ' ' it 00"""A y — ' 4''' Co''' ar ' ': ' - I - c :- t s' friends enjoys people kids and home runs would rather have fun than success iinterposes every seriotis act with three chuckles and a loud guffaw and is perfectly happy with the smiling hearty Mrs Ruth Mrs Lsuritz Melchior because as Maria Hacker one of Europe's favorite motion picture stare she had a three-yeHollywood contiact signed and waiting for her when she decided who living and laughing were not enough found love when she married the operatic tenor a new career in laügbteiinT How) Ha she'll large operatic doses chuckle and tell you of the time Lauritz turned a huge fire hose in the bedroom windolyjikr die - ego 1( : " ? - ' - - - 11" - ' because - i4°111111141' Nst anticsst movie Ruth -- 1' ' week Babe ' - -- who laughs atiLherself at Husband Charlie' Mac- - Arihur's VOste - ) dilrughter e producers who can't un- derstand why she prefers I haPpiness to $3000 a t' - t I ' J ' 1-- - ' a' who - ' 71 4 - 41' x ' ' ' e ' ' ' i 41 kA0-- - - - 4?:' ' 11 ) 4 1 - ' '' - ' ' ': ' : - Ar I 4 - ' $a'151 NAe ' atilt ' - ' ' le We t A to - ' -' - - - ' - ' diocll'' - - 1:11---- ‘ : - ttNt1" 10 ti t4‘ttst0S :t - - - - 01 tP: ': '' - ''- ed matical formula- that Py of thagoras never hard-Not the three R's but the three L's Therhave learned to Live Love The soluand Laugh tion) That triangle! ) N aVe- 011 ologist - - - - ! : the abBlyecsreched j ' x r ' ' ii quite uncomfortably on one end of a tri- angle—and not the triangle you think It's the "triangle of happiness" evolved by Dr William and author and it is guaranteed to solve they riddle that irki stenographer and king: how to make the most out of'llfe now that you're-he- m In ether words how to be happy Out of all the flotsam on the crest of success Dr Marston points his finger immediately at only 10 persons he knows who have Unbuilt the perfect triangle for themselves known or renowned they shine serene perFor they have solved a mathe- fectly balanced Moulton-Marstonpsych- '' 711) too - 0 indulge : I ' Mieloorgan not to k - '''''!'''4 14- - I 14 i - : " ' ' (111 - - ' - ' t111i:le 0 - - :1 ''' otoT2 sT'S wiser 11161420641 - - - - - ------ - — - AI |