Show The Wife Who Earns More (Continued from page 5) did Or they may turn inward and withdraw “If the man’s career thrust isn't as strong if he doesn't have the drive you have he may tend to shrink into a shell" says an executive of a large department store who is now separated from her husband “My husband began to recede more and more and I began taking over his role in the family” Another problem that faces women is that their jobs may demand that they stay in town for business dinners or that they take business trips The husband who brings home a slimmer salary check — and on top of that has to take over the role of feeding and caring for the children — is apt to feel doubly resentful The most diffie cult male situation occur when the wife is a celebrated actress high-inco- me out-of-to- wn ego-wis- politician novelist or company president and he is referred to as “her husband" The public ignores his career even his name How can a happy household be maintained in those instances where the wife earns more? 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