OCR Text |
Show News about people and their lives Review Wednesday March 25, 1987 IB Community ComsdiioD St. Rose singles party on March 28 Coping by communication St. Rose Singles LAYTON all invite divorced, widTogether owed, separated and never married Catholics age 30 and over to join in a Welcome Spring party Saturday, March 28, at 8 p.m. at St. Rose of Lima Education Center, 350 E. 5th N., Layton, just north of Layton High School. Bring a treat to share, $2, your favorite record or tape. Soft drinks will be provided. Call or Jan, Rosemary, for more information. LYNDIA GRAHAM Review correspondent CLEARFIELD Marriage isnt supposed to be something we just suffer through, says Family Counseling Service Director Anthony Hanebrink. It can be an absolutely great thing. Helping to make not only marriages, but lives in general, great things are what Hanebrink hopes to do as he counsels clients at the service in Clearfield. He said 85 percent of the people who come to the Family Counseling Service find their lives and relationships improved. At FCS people can find help dealing with marriage problems, personal adjustments, divorce adjustments and family problems. The service also offers . premarital counseling and seminars. FCS started operating in Ogden and expanded services to Clearfield a few years later. An office in Brigham City was recently opened. The service is funded by United Way and several local churches. Fees are based on ability to pay. Last year 100 families from Davis County were helped. At all the offices,. 227 couples were counseled for marriage problems, 293 people had personal counseling, 136 clients asked for help with family problems, and 29 couples participated in premarital counseling. More and more people afe realizing, if they have a problem, they can get help, he said. Many people call us when they personally realize they have a problem, and some are referred by other agencies such as the courts, attorneys, doctors, and 'More and more people are realizing, if they have a problem, they can get help Anthony Hanebrink clergy. Their biggest source of referrals are clients who have received help at FCS. In the premarital counseling sessions he has found couples who were given the sessions and seminar as a shower gift from parents who wanted to see their childrens marriages get off to as good a start as possible. That fee is only $25. Hanebrink has also counseled with displaced homemakers at the Ogden Weber Vocational Center. Those women are going into the workforce after a long period of not working outside their homes and are being trained to find good jobs. Private business is interested in helping people solve their personal problems too, according to Hanebrink. People with family stress are not as good employees as they could be, he said, and employers know if they solve those problems the person gives a better days work besides achieving a better 544-230- 9, 773-034- MARGE SILVESTER , Marriage can be great, says counseling service director Anthony Hanebrink. demonstrated in many ways. He said some of those ways include affairs, abuse of alcohol, physical abuse, and keeping a mate at a distance by working two or three jobs or by holding two or three jobs in a church or in the community which take up more time. counseling. incest wasnt there eight or ten years ago, he said. It just wasnt discussed. Counselors saw people with that problem but just didnt know to ask. We are Its not that seeing more of it. Its just coming out of the closet. A fear of intimacy is a fairly common problem in the 80s, Hanebrink said. Some people are afraid to let others get very close (emotionally) and it can be family life. Hanebrink said counselors see many of the same types of problems over the years but two are becoming more prevalent Incest and the lack of personal intimacy are causing more and more people to seek A fascinaCLEARFIELD tion with airplanes and a desire to learn to fly them was a dream of Eloise Wilcox, now Eloise Johnson-Jonefrom the time she was a youngster. I just always loved airplanes and travel. When I was a kid, I used to pretend my mothers umbrellas were parachutes and would jump off the porch, pretending to fly. She never did succeed in getting airborne, but did ruin several umbrellas in the process. Although her ambition to fly didnt materialize for many years, traveling became a reality during her college years and after she went to work at the Clearfield Post Office in 1946. She has traveled to Europe eight times; the Middle East, Alaska, Hawaii, twice; Mexico, four times; and almost every state in the United States. She has also been on several tours to Canada. While in college, she went on a Brigham Young University tour of Europe for three months. I took it for credit, she said because I wanted to learn as much as I could. We went to all the countries but Denmark, Spain and Portugal. As soon as she returned from one trip, plans were made for the next. Following World War II Eloise traveled to Germany where reconstruction projects were bes, It ginning. was an unforgettable sight, she said. When I traveled, I didnt want to come back. There was always another place over the hill to see. Her opportunity to fly came about 1968 when she took lessons at the Ogden Airport. It seemed like it took forever to save enough money to do it. After receiving her pilots license she purchased a quarter interest in a Super Club airplane and flew for the next 14 years. I joined the 99s International Womens Group and met a lot of people, she said. That was an interesting experience, she said. You never knew from one time to the next who the partners were. The hobby would get too expensive for one partner, and that share would be sold to someone else. As a member of the 99s she flew throughout Utah, marking airports. We marked arrows, pounded nails in the tar and sometimes painted the lines, although usually the airport did that part, she said. It was hard on the knees. She entered three races, winning one in Elko, Nev. in 1970. JoAnn Williams and Barbara Whittaker, both of Ogden, and Barbara Barlow of Bountiful, along with seven other women were entered in that race. It was a lot of fun. Flying was an adventure, but starting an engine in cold weather could be difficult. When Eloises plane wouldnt start, her neighbor Don Martin would prop the engine by burning the propellor manually. It can be pretty dangerous, she said. You have to know just when to jump back and get out of the way of the propellor. We used to land on Antelope Road before it was paved out to the island, she said. I also landed 500 yards short of the runaway at the Ogden Airport" On her lunch hour one afternoon, she and a friend, JoAnn Williams, went for a short flight. On their return the plane ran out of gas. You cant imagine what a feeling that is, to have the motor go off and only air between you and the ground. I was able to land in a hay field. Shaken, the two women emerged from the plane, as two men who had witnessed the event came running over. Counselors are at the Clearfield office three days each week and phone calls are taken during all business hours at ;'"' . tx K i IH, F 's' . V C ' V "'s t ; s ' 'Y s'', '' ' r ' - N''S ' vs'' s ' ' s ' - ; . v Blossom Into Spring is the theme for a fashion show introducing the newest spring and summer lines of girls, teen and womens fashions. The show is sponsored by Girl Scout Cadette Troop 110, with fashions by ZCMI. The public is invited to attend the Saturday, March 28 event, which starts at 1:15 p.m., at Washington Alternative School auditorium, 3279 Washington E. n, u A"' $&& 5 ' ; ' V s'' ' '' N ' ' 01 ' ' s - I NsVv SO''' V ' S ' ' s -- ; ss s' TV s V 'x '' ' x'' - SS 'S'v ' A ' ' s . ''' ' x '' V ' ' and everyone would go outside to see it, she said. We were all fascinated with them. For her the fascination continues. Although she sold her interest in the Super Cub, she continues flying at every opportunity, just as she continues Eloise said, I was only five minutes late for work, but from then on they called me Crash Wilcox. She got the opportunity to fly in a homemade airplane at the airport on one occasion. The fellow called his plane Old Breezy, and it had no cockpit, no holds of any kind except for a bar on each side of the seat, and no radio, she said. Tap me on the shoulder when you want to go back, the fellow said. We flew all over by the mountains and over the freeway. The cars were going faster than we were. Eloise said that as she grew up, she never thought Clearfield traveling. Since her marriage two years ago to Raymond Johnson-Jone- s, travels have included the Oregon coast, Yellowstone and Jackson Hole. Australia is our dream trip, said Eloise. For a woman who has made it a habit to make her dreams come true, that trip should soon be in the planning stages. cant help chafing at the I have to spend a goodly each week replacing the combs I bought the week before. Do you realize, I asked by kids one day, that we could be eating steak more often, if you guys would each put your combs in your pocket and keep them there? Yeah, but then we couldnt dp our hair," one wise guy piped up. Besides, wed rather have ham burgers than steak. Once I tried buying combs in bulk. I came, home with a huge box of assorted hairstyling appliances. There were combs for unsnarling, combs for lifting, combs for fluffing, combs for spiking, and even a comb for cleaning out other combs. Here you are, I said rationing them out 10 per household member. The first person who says, I cant find a comb wins a quick 3. Layton PTA plans seminar for parents of flying led Eloise Wilcox to buy an Though she later sold her interest in the interest in this Super Cub in the late 1960s. plane, she still flys whenever she can. make a living doing that. My hell, lady, that was one With Hill came the airplanes, hell of a landing! said one of was not long before Eloise it the the men. Upon learning could identify a plane by the women were not hurt, they sound of its engine. turned and went back to their We would hear one coming car and left portion of my grocery budget egg-beat- er spring fashion show x... . A love Still, I fact that my fingers. Thanks to the new the ones that look hairstyles like they were arranged by an no ones ever been the 9. Girl Scouts to hold 733-189- f S s s' s sm- AlMtmtWWWWt v s' ; . Review columnist Rain or Shine 825-150- 11 Admission is $1.25. Light refreshments will be served. All proceeds go to the Girl Scouts. For more information or to obtain advance discount tickets, call Karen McFarland, z Z'iixo '?V , wiser. -- 825-74- Blvd., Ogden. SHARON NAUTA STEELE w The Kiwanis CLEARFIELD Club of Clearfield is selling first-ai- d kits to help the Association of Retarded Citizens of Davis County to raise funds. The kit is a hard plastic box containing Johnson and Johnson first-ai- d products, including bandages, burn cream and other items. The Kiwanis members will deliver the $10 kits to homes. or Call either Half of this cost goes to ARC. pre-tee- Where do all those combs disappear to? has used the My brother-in-la15 years. over for same comb This babys been through thick and thin, he says, running it through the remnants of his hair. I wish I could keep the same comb for 15 days. Combs disappear around our house faster than Fritos corn chips. Many times Ive had to part my sons hair with a toothpick, and untangle my daughters long tresses with nothing more than 5, Kiwanis sell first-ai- d kits to raise funds Eloise has plane old love of flying Review correspondent date LAYTON The East Layton Elementary PTA will hold a seminar on assertive discipline for parents on Thursday, March 26 at 6:30 p.m. It will be held at the school's cafeteria, 2470 E. Cherry Lane with David Turner presenting the information. Parents may bring friends and neighbors. There is no cost for the seminar. Easter egg hunt set by parents of twins LAYTON On Saturday, April 1 the Ogden Area Parents of Twins will sponsor its second annual Easter egg hunt. Those families of multiples who wish to participate must 2 contact Debbie at no later than March 26 for details. 1 776-075- Kays Creek writers to meet March 28 KAYSVILLE John L Hart, staff writer for the Church Section of the Deseret News, will speak to members of the Kays Creek Chapter of the League of Utah Writers at their monthly meeting on Saturday, March 28. League of Utah Writers is open to anyone interested in improving writing skills. The meeting will be held at 92 N. 100 W. in Kaysville. Interested persons may or call 544-83- 28 544-868- 2. Exercise, diabetes topic of meeting The North Davis LAYTON DiabeAmerican the of Chapter tes Association, Utah Affiliate, will hold its monthly education meeting Thursday March 26, at 7:30 p.m. The meeting will be in the Davis Vocational classroom located Within three days, I had to eat at the northeast end of the Hosmy words. It was either that or parking lot behind Humana North. Davis shell out enough money to trans- pital form the whole family into Yul trip to the barber for a shaved head. Bryner clones. And practically speaking, it was cheaper to go out and buy another bushel of combs. Too bad were not all chickens, I told my kids as I left for the store. Then wed never lose our combs." Beth Arabah group plans April meeting Beth Arabah CLEARFIELD chapter No. 24 OES will hold a business meeting April 1, at the Clearfield Masonic Temple, 452 E. 700 S., Clearfield at 7:30 p.m. |