Show 4rt0iatpwiwkAk4a6iitaMiles 1004 - 8W The Salt Lake Tribune 1989 24 Sunday September TT i:Fall jewelry forecast is big bold and layered r - Kathleen Silvassy United Press International 3M classic look and a tailored but clothing leans toward a pared-dow- 'As feminine silhouette accessories become the focal point — especially jewel- ry which truly shines this season "Anticipate the resurgence of fine jewelry this fall especially diamonds for day" said Henry Dunay a member of the Council of Fashion Designers of America "Whether city smart or country chic fall and holiday jewelry will boast 'the royal treatment' Other trends to look for this season are textured gold finishes (brushed and faceted) oversized pins worn alone or in clusters on vests jackets and lapels coins and medallions with a Mediterranean influence and layered necklaces combining gold diamonds and pearls Pearl necklaces continue to ride a tidal wave of popularity thanks to the overwhelming influence of first lady Barbara Bush Monet a leading jewelry manufacturer even offers the Barbara Bush signature triple-stran- d necklace The Gemo logical Institute of America reports that only natural or cultured pearls can be considered "real" pearls The Federal Trade Commission says faux pearls no matter how expensive are not considered fine jewelry and must be labeled as "imitation" or "simulated" in advertise- ments For consumers who can't afford the higher price tags of cultured and natural pearls Monet offers the following guidelines when shopping for fabulous faux pearls: in pearlescent lacquer — The finest quality faux pearls are to simulate the look of genuine pearls and individually — Look closely at the surface of each pearl It should feel smooth and be free of burrs pits and blemishes ""'t— The size and shape of each pearl should be consistent and the necklace should be perfume resistant in order to maintain color and luster — Fine faux pearls can be cleaned by wiping with a soft cloth imitations on the market today" said "There are some Freddy Kohn president of the Cultured Pearl Association of America "But what's really important is how a woman feels when she is wearing them" Christian Dior Bijoux plans to introduce a new line of "original classics" this fall known as the Signature Collection " "'What were seeing in our segment of the market is jewelry that is valid not just for a single season but for years" said Claire Kellam executive vice ' r' ''''''""-14-77-- " By IN 141: -- Me 100000'44 n : - ::- - t'l 2- - ' 1 45 '''' I el N1 - —tt7-r- st ''1471'''''''° ' ' v t''t!:'' '4 N' A i i "t' ''0 11'1 York the exclusive licensee for Christian president for Grosse Jewels-NeDior Jewelry "Women are buying fewer more expensive pieces of fashion jewelry" she said "The customer is definitely trading up" Dior's new line features styles that interpret the classic "CD" motif such as an gold electroplate necklace set with European crystal pave stones along with sporty pieces that combine sterling silver with gold vermeil Trifari another leading manufacturer is leaning toward rich regal jewel tones for fall from the proper purple of amythest to the opulence of black jet for luxe Art Deco appeal in terlinked chains with braided gold Trifari offers Renaissance-inspiredetailing and engraved accents in crimson Chains and beaded combinations come in a versatile length Bold button earrings are back for fall along with lightweight hoops in Also gold and silver popular are earrings in a variety of shapes — hearts stars triangles squares and teardrops Plus sizes catering to the American woman size 14 and up have been r around the market for some time Carol Goldman believes this special group deserves its own line of jewelry and her company Verve provides it "Plus-sizclothing is a $30 billion market and nobody ever bothered to market jrwelry to these ladies" said Goldman "Studies show that up to of American women — that's more than 35 million women — wear accessories large sizes but most buyers know almost nothing about plus-siz- e woman myself I "As a designer for our jewelry line and as a plus-siz- e know how important it is for the specially-sizebuyer to be able to accessorize her wardrobe with fabulous fashion chokers chains bracelets rings earrings and pins" Plus-Siz- e jewelry does not mean the pieces are bulkier said Goldman women often can wear larger items better than their although petite sisters In the Verve collections pieces are sized to fit larger necks and wrists Standard-sizchokers are usually 15 to 16 inches but the Plus Size line has sizes ranging from 20 to 26 inches Rings are sized up to 13 and Chanel-typlink necklaces are as long as 48 inches However Goldman pointed out Verve Plus Size jewelry is priced about the same as regularly sized pieces "I don't want women to be penalized for being a special size" she said ' ' ' 4 1N rq ' d ' 4 1itow h ' ' '' 'I ready-to-wea- - 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Trexler Designs' new book A Col leeof Afghans including directions for naking more than 20 knit and crochet afghans can be ordered by sending a check or money order for $895 to Afghans PO Box 419148 Kansas City Mo 64141 d h By Thomas R Lee PhD Associate Professor and Extension Specialist College of Family Life Utah State University LOGAN — As parents and teachers we wonder how to help children reach their potential We worry helping avoid they social problemsso prevalent in the world of young people to- day We want them to be happy The solution at least partially to all of these concerns is to help 'v r Aro 4r4 r "FlPip tt A78 1:4 Dr Lee develop self-estee- self-estee- made up of a sequence of thoughts and feelings about ourselves It starts with the picture tAe have of ourselves called tthe self concept This iis based on what v e helm e In be true of nurse' es A lutIi lir not it actually is We acquire this pnture throughout onr liis arid eSptcially in our rail ears from tthe ways cdhers re actt The is extrem(ly J(1i ful because it filters t IWO Wk1)411411C1' to agree itli this mental inflow Second ‘ke diiiV dlie in this of oursell is e 111(11110 Itr1111 nil image as inther good or is i I t V4 A r 1 self-estee- m bad capable or incapable courageous or fearful As we accept this image of ourselves and our interpretations of it we experience a positive or negative feeling about what we think is true of ourselves All of us experience a mixture of positive and negative feelings about ourselves The more we are able to feel positively the more effective and happy we can be Parents cannot make children believe in themselves Children must learn from their own successes and failures Changing the opinions children have already formed of themselves is difficult because they are likely to interpret our words and actions to fit the they alcreate can we have However ready an environment where they experience the acceptance encouragement responsibility and love that builds and nourishes their developing One of the first places to start in doing that is with our own self-conce- high Children w ith low self esteem view their world as threatening rather than inviting as discouraging rather than hopeful and as rejecting rather than accepting Child psychologist Rudolph Dreikurs once defined high as -- the courage to be imperfect" Somehow the child with high can try kk ithout undue fear of mistakes feels able to make a contribution and feels lovable and loving tokard others kV here does come ts --- ' I f :siii-- t ---- i t 71X174t'!'i'”111:-'14":r!'2!::- kLq'"i:--7-7n---'--'-'''a'-- 582-990- 3 4-- i ' :":' Self-estee- ''' - re? - -- II t t 4 4 t'l i 1 ' tkfk ' I ll ' : from' :' 7 44 ' self-estee- ":'5r::'':'!''::' 4 ' 4 ' ' 404444 44-4- self-estee- 41164-10 44 4 4 4 them : 41004"17 14441-- 07747arlii CI ktNi I investment E fr - ' i' ""-- 04 - 1161 44 xi C ' t'' ' '!'"'"t1 ' 4klit ' '''': them cll'-'1: 44 4 4 1 '1 ' 3 ' ' ' I I about ' Located in one of Salt Lake's finest neighborhoods these spacious condominium homes are a valuable Sandra a korma 4 11 ' classified ad to find a cash buyer for t 44 46 44 4 Building child's cash tal '6 f h qnunk : ?::' t BALTIMORE Caring for elastic - - tt count determines the number of floss strands to be used A general rule of thumb is: Cloth count of 22 1 strand floss Cloth count 18 2 strands floss Cloth count 14 2 or 3 strands floss Cloth count 11 3 strands floss Experiment and let your creativity be your guide (Because of the volume of mall she receives Pat Is unable to answer your letters personally However she welcomes all questions and hints and will use those of general interest in the column whenever possible) elastic-containin- a ''''' use Elastic in garments can be damaged by both soil and heat Elastic picks up and holds body oils which causes it to deteriorate and stretch To extend the life of garments wash them often using detergent and the hottest water temperature suitable for the garment Dry at the lowest setting and remove these items while they are slightly damp do not overdry a t d n off-whi- h hii'atd-iliot- - As clothing leans toward a pared-dowclassic look accessories become focal point Long multiple strands of pearls can bring just the right splash of class to playful sweater dress Treder N t e Pat craft t & ' : —UPI By Pat Trexler The popularity of counted cross-stitc- h seems to grow and grow s - ic' - ' - cross-stitc- h ways to express their creativity in this beautiful and rewarding needle- d d g Cloth for Cross-stitcher- one-thir- d - ' Nt vi' strengths and weaknesses we help them accept themselves When we send the message that "You don't have to change for me to love you" children can learn to love themselves is different from pride and arrogance Pride is based on comparison with others and the need to put others downi to feel good is based about ourself on comparison with ourselves — improving learning and growing from where we used to be Pride leads to bragging ("I can run faster than anyone in my class") leads to ("I can run faster than I used to") Pride is always on shaky ground because it depends on others As we learn to have it becomes more stable because it depends on ourselves Self-estee- Self-estee- Self-estee- self-prais- e self-estee- self-estee- 0 self-estee- At the root of how we value and are the feel about our beliefs we have about how we "should" be The expectations we have of ourselves may be unrealistic In turn we may pass on these unrealistic expectations to our children Changing these deeply ingrained "shoulds" is difficult but we can make progress if we become aware of them and keep confronting them with more realistic alternatives Most of these "shoulds" have something to do with feeling like "I should be good at everything" or "Everyone should like me" We can he good in some areas but it is impossible t() be good at eVerything It is likewise impossible to be liked by everyone but v)'e can be likeable and friindly to others When our expectations are realistic we are more likely to value and feel positively about our If our expectations Of ourselves are realistic VP are likely I() have realistic expectations of our children If Ike accept our children's Wedding self-conce- I - ateNta I i 'I - k g t ' A'''' 41 k !44-- - 3 :i ' - e" - - - 10 4 ' i - 1 1 - ' - - k t 4 gig i 4 I J :' 14 l' - ItatigialL 4 f SA' t c 1: Lah::1-- r -'' ' '' ''' )lr and Pace-Jam- ' 7' -- i i 1 ek t i Mrs James e g Rita Pace and John James wpro married Friday in the Plumtree Clubhouse A reception was given after the ceremony r 1 I t hr 1 - - "":"771:'11trrir-Tr"7":-!rriTr- ' |