Show Standard-Examin- vr f" 7A DEAR ABBY v ' ' ? Monday August 18 1980 er X V “ Of Establishment in Deadwood Would Make Four-St- ar Lot of Tired Wives Happy z: DEAR ME: Humility By ABIGAIL VAN BUXEN DEAR ABBY: You asked women to send you an unsigned postcard indicating whether they agreed or disagreed with Tired In Lincoln who said she was tired of sex could live without it and if most women her age (50) were honest they’d admit they were also tired Well I vote with Tired but how’s this for a coincidence? On the same page with your column in The Call (Lead SD) a news item appeared announcing that the court had ordered the closing of four brothels that had been in business in Deadwood SD since 1876! This caused an uproar in the little Black Hills tourist town of 2500 Some citizens wrote letters to the editor saying “There’s nothing wrong with prostitution — it keeps the nuts off the streets and keeps our women and children DEAR ABBY: I have never seen a problem like mine in your column and it’s a tough one For the last two years my fiance and I have lived together so it is assumed by everyone who knows us that we will be married (We probably will although no date has been set) The problem is his kid sister More than once she has said “When are you two getting married? I can’t wait to be a bridesmaid” Abby how do I let her know that I am not planning to ask her to be in my wedding party? I hate to come right out and tell her because I don’t want to hurt her feelings Thanks for a snappy comeback — J In Toronto J: DEAR More than a “snappy” comeback you need a gentle and diplomatic way of letting the “kid sister” down It’s unfair to let her assume that she’ll be in the wedding party if she’s not going to be S&f6e” Well I think legalized prostitution would sure do a lot for some of us tired wives (me included) I’ve often thought how nice it would be for both of us if on his way home from Work my husband could stop at a place that was given a four-sta- r rating by the health department After all I believe his need is physical not emotional But I know my husband wouldn’t take advantage of it because he’d consider it immoral — darn it! Incidentally how are you coming with your survey? I can hardly wait to read the results — Dead Tired Near Deadwood The next time she mentions it tell her the truth The longer you put it off the more disappointed she’ll be DEAR ABBY: I am 18 and very much in love for the first time in my life Michael is 21 and a more honest and decent guy I’ve never met He doesn’t drink or smoke and he’s working to put himself through college So what’s the problem? My father doesn’t like Michael And why doesn’t he like him? Because Michael doesn’t look you straight in the eye when he talks to you Abby Michael is shy and it’s hard for him to look people in the eye but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have good character Don’t you think my father is wrong for DEAR DEAD: I’m glad you asked The response has been overwhelming! My mail has been coming in trucks instead of bags and my staff is hardly speaking to me Unfortunately (or fortunately) Marion Tetsecretary who’s ley my beautiful blue-eye- d about to get her stripes sprained her ankle and is on crutches So I told her to stay home and I’d send her the survey mail to sort So far she’s counted over 100000 and the Tireds are winning e neck DEAR ABBY: Well it’s who are folks us of all time for lucky: city enough to have a nice little place at—the beach but only for the summer We love company il never-faformula a those we invite Here’s for discouraging freeloaders who drop in for the weekend uninvited Toward the end of the week let your groceries run low and when the freeloaders arrive greet them warmly but apologetically with “We’re sorry we weren’t prepared for guests but if you don’t mind driving to town !to” pick up a few things you’re welcome to stay Then hand them a shopping list Don’t stop at groceries Include beer liquor cigarettes and soft drinks too If the freeloaders actually get the list filled when they return with the stuff don’t offer to reimburse them After all it’s your cottage fuel beach boat towels etc and you didn’t invite them And don’t wait on anybody If they act like guests tell them that everyone pitches in with the cooking and cleaning When the freeloaders leave I’ll bet they don’t come back again — unless they’re invited! — Suckers No More holding this against Michael? — Loves Michael 20-ye- ar DEAR LOVES: Yes! The world is full of charming crooks who can look you in the eye and lie through their teeth if there’s something to be gained by it pain-in-th- DEAR ABBY : I recently lost my precious fiance in an auto accident I loved him very much but I must go on I have a problem I need help with At the time of our engagement he gave me a beauti- ful diamond ring which I have worn since the night he put it on my finger I’ve had many people tell me that now he is dead I should take the ring off They say it is an “engagement” ring and I can’t be engaged to a dead man Abby that ring symbolizes his love for me It comforts me to look at it TAKE IT OFF Is it all right to wear it or should I take it off? — Lost and Lonely DEAR LOST: As long as it gives you comfort wear it and don’t worry about what people say Whenever you’re planning a picnic menu in- Olga Touch Almost everyone likes Smoother be sure to Reg to $4 yd group of coordi- nated prints solids dresses blouses skirts Stripes 269 Reg them so prepare plenty Like potato chips it’s almost imposs- ® - for Plaids to $4 yd Yarn-dye- d stripes & plaids for the preppy look or western-styl- e shirts Printed voiles 269 to $4 yd- - make dainty into dresses to turn a tom-boReg y a young lady Border Prints 269 Reg to $4 yd whip up a dirndl skirt in nothing flat - with this cotton avril fabric Flannel Prints 229 Reg to 339 yd for pajamas gowns quilts - a great assortment of charming designs Embroideries off 13 Reg to 950 save now in Fash- ion Piece Goods Also save on 13 off Printed Velveteen white eyelet now 899 Reg $12 yd for blazers or skirts to wear for fall and holidays Fashion Piece Goods sale Tables Check our sale table for other 13 to 12 and more Shape ible to limit yourself to just one 4 vq ' Send Them Off to School with a Touch of Home - a Bucilla Afghan : & a - S't " £ frWyy Shamrock Afghan Reg to $14 100 acrylic yarn in a natural color Kit complete you need extra side chairs or want to replace your worn chairs Dinettes Unlimited has a limited supply of Beauty Craft chairs These chairs have a beautiful golden-roprint on easy-carThe vinyl legs are constructed of rugged tubular metal with floor glides While they last! 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