Show i6itfWHtfiH m Standard-Examin- Monday April 7 1980 er DEARABBY 9A Social Interacting on Bus Nauseates New Rider Abhy Says Buy Transistor Radio bother him with that If the blonde tells him he smiles and thanks her! I’m tired of doing most of the work and not being appreciated Don’t tell me to find another job I really like my work Besides we’re in an area where the auto industry just laid off 3300 workers and jobs are scarce Any suggestions? — Had It By ABIGAIL VAN BUREN DEAR ABBY: Since the gasoline crunch has become a fact of life I have stopped driving my car to work in favor of taking the express bus I am appalled at the total lack of breeding exhibited by those who ride the buses They discuss the most personal things at a shouting pitch Without wanting to I have learned what color shorts one woman’s husband prefers and even more personal preferences expressed by tasteless loudmouths who ride the bus The other evening on returning home a group of regular riders passed around cans of beer large bottles of wine potato chips salami and cheese! Are these people so friendless that they have to do their social interacting on the bus? How do I escape? — Nauseated In Northridge DEAR HAD IT: Tell Dr J that for sake of his business and your peace of mind you simply must unburden yourself Then let him have it And if he knows which side his bread is buttered on he will be more sensitive to your feelings and will show more appreciation and consideration in the future DEAR ABBY: I can’t understand why a woman would feel hurt or insulted if a widower proposed to her and offered her his late wife’s wedding rings When I was 19 I married a man with five sons ranging from 9 to 16 years old His wife had been dead for two years When he offered me his first wife’s rings I felt honored To me it symbolized that he loved me as much as he had loved her Furthermore I felt that if I could accept five human beings that were her flesh and blood I could certainly accept the rings she had worn Although it was hard for the boys to accept me at first after two years we have a loving family relationship — Proud To Be No 2 DEAR NAUSEATED: Buy a transistor radio with an earplug attachment and stick it in your ear! DEAR ABBY: I work for five doctors I’ve been here for only one year and have the responsibility of running the entire office There are four psychologists and one I will call Dr J) psychiatrist (the boss whom There is another girl in this office and between us we book the appointments file type fill out insurance forms call in prescriptions do hospital billing etc The girl I work with is blond cute and She’s nice and we get along fine What bugs me is that she can get away with anything If she starts working on an insurance form and it gets tough I have to finish it If I tell Dr J that he is behind on his dictation he gets hostile and asks me not to DEAR PROUD: You are No 1 in expressing an unusually broadminded unselfish attitude well-bui- lt What's th truth about pot PCP colts and acid? Get Abby's now booklet: WHAT EVERY OUGHT TO KNOW: Send $2 and a long stamped (28 cents) velope to ABBY New Teen Booklet 132 La Dr Beverly Hills Calif 90212 TEEN-AGE- R ed Teaches Responsibility Egg-Sitti- ng NEW YORK NY — A group of students at Arizona State University found out that being a parent is a lot more than it’s cracked up to be The students spent a week carrying around a fresh egg as part of an unusual experiment for their Courtship and Marriage While most of the students were practicing “single parenthood” Dr Hudson pointed out ‘that a few steady couples saw the experiment as a test run for their own would-b- e family They reported later that they had fights over who had to take care of the egg “I wanted to give my students some feeling of what it means to be responsible for someone besides themselves” says sociology pro- “Before the experiment a lot of students and equated parenthood with baby powder cute smiles” says Dr Leslie Hoyt a sociology professor who helped Dr Hudson with the project “They didn’t realize that parenthood requires a lot of time and effort By the time the assignment ended a number of them said they weren’t ready to be parents” class fessor Dr John Hudson in April’s Seventeen “An egg is fragile like a newborn infant You can’t just stuff it in a pocket and forget about it Like parenthood caring for an egg is a job” 24-ho- ur After picking out their very own egg baby at a local supermarket the students were given free rein to personalize the little darlings however they liked The eggs were given a gender — “boy” eggs were called Eggbert Humpty or Benedict named Omeletta Henrieg-g- a “girl” eggs were — or Eggness and further humanized with faces and tiny bits of yarn for hair drawn-odresses or bow ties The students were told that their egg like an infant could never be left alone Most were forced to carry their egg with them everywhere because they weren’t able to find an egg-sitt- A-4- the neckline Jewelry Can be Passport to Fantasy Everyone indulges in fantasies de- - Of course you cannot run and purch- dares psychologist Dr Florence Rhyn ase a whole new wardrobe to be that new Serlin consultant to the Jewelry Indus- - f antsy personality but with a little help from your jewelry box you can set the try Council “Fantasies are not necessarily an es- stage for your alter ego cape from reality and an idle useless “Just as an actress employs props to pursuit” she points out “Rathera these create a character so can the average useful Dr Serlin says ‘waking dreams’ can perform service For example if you’ve always wanted “We dream about what we would like to be as likeable as the roles Doris Day to be — successful attractive admired and June Allyson used to portray (and In our fantasies we become that ideal still do on the Late Late Show!) wear your pearl necklace bracelet and ear- person” “But oddly enough in reality we may rings well possess some of the attributes we Pearls have always been a ‘sincere’ fantasize It is just a matter of bringing accessory Time was not too long ago out that facet of our personality” when every well turned out young lady One very common fantasy many a wore white gloves and a simple strand woman has is that she can change into a of pearls femme fatale a sleek sophisticate the Be that happy go lucky Lauren Bacall casual relaxed type or the winsome casual type Take out your gold bangle likeable girl next door bracelets several chain and bead neck- Dr Serlin says that each woman pos- - laces and put Grandpa’s old pocket sesses all of these characteristics to a greater or lesser degree in her own personality The trick is to bring out See The Classified these traits and emphasize them Only Ounce RUMMAGE about the size of a half dollar can be drawn into a fine wire 50 miles long or ham- 05 ss sheet 100 feet square according to National Geographic watch on a long gold chain for a pendant Wear a gold leaf pin or animal motif pin on your lapel Always yearning to be the seductive vamp? 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