Show A A ' s iS - 'sam u fil I ' V-4- £': L ' A: y'V'g1 Alpha Rho & V" IHlBMIS-JFsiEl- tll uf fewptj 1 Xrn RIVERDALE tm 4A Ogden Standard-Examine- r Friday Evening Nov 23 1979 Judging Others Not Our Business DEAR ABBY: I have a great husband Not perfect but close enough My problem is his father SUSAN ARKEKETA Of Tulsa Okla age 25 wears the crown of Miss Indian America which she has worn since July 1978 Her colorfully headed crown and banner was made by a Sioux Indian woman She was in Ogden adver- tising the Indian National Finals Rodeo being held at the Salt Palace this week American Indian Proud of Heritage By ARLENE IRWiN Standard-Examin- Staff er Her father is of the Otoe Indian Tribe and her mother of the Creek Indian Tribe and Susan Arkeketa Miss Indian America is proud of her heritage Born and raised in Oklahoma she lives in Tulsa and is a post graduate student in business at the Northeastern State University in Tahleauah Miss Arkeketa is a guest and has helped with the publicity of the Indian National Finals Rodeo being held at the Salt Palace in Salt Lake City During the past year she has traveled through all of the Western and Midwestern States To win the title of Miss Indian America she competed with 37 other Indian maidens age 18 through 25 Representing their state or their tribe they were judged on personality appearance and knowledge of their heritage TWO TALENTS Each were required to perform a modern talent and a traditional tribal talent She gave a poetic presentation and performed an Otoe tribal dance Miss Arkeketa says she enjoys most all kinds of sports especially football basketball and rodeos She enjoys playing basketball and softball and her hobby is playing the clarinet The country type atmosphere in small towns is her prefer2nce over big cities She participates m tribal events After receiving her master’s degree she plans to work in administration type work for the Indian Tribes She concluded at present I have no plans for marriage About four years ago he told me he wanted to go to bed with me and had felt that way for a long time I was insulted and sickened by the suggestion and told him so He has a lovely wife he’s not senile and I did nothing to provoke it At first I hated him then my hate turned to feeling absolutely nothing toward him I bitterly resent the love and respect this vile man receives from his family I am constantly hearing what a “wonderful” person he is and it galls me to keep silent RESENT ADORATION But I must of course I also resent the adoration my husband has for his father when in fact his father has betrayed him in the worst of all betrayals A few months ago my father-in-launderw went emergency surgery and the family was informed that he has six months at the most to live When I heard the news I am ashamed to admit that I secretly rejoiced His death will g be the end of my and I look forward to it with no reservations Abby do you think I am going to be in big trouble with God for feeling this way? 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