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Show The Second Time Around- - A Few Mules And Edeas May Help You En Finding Your (Dwn Might Answers The second (third?) marriage doesnt hold the social stigma it once did but there still are some consider ations for those brides that first-tim- e brides dont have to even think about. bride faces unThe second-tim- e certain ties. Not about her decision to but how to do it can become a headache. Many people turn the other way when second timers send out invitations but, as it is becoming more and more the norm the overall rules have become slightly relaxed. The second time bride can still make this time every bit as much a celebration as the first wedding. But there are some rough spots and a little wisdom in handling the social conventions will help make both you, your fiance and guests more accepting. One of the first differences to be faced is what the bride will wear. White, with a veil, is still the symbol of virginity and raised eyebrows will greet you if you choose such attire. A simple dress is the key. A finely tailored suit or an evening dress that can be worn again are both acceptable. Another consideration is your age. The older you are, the more toned-dowyour appearance should y, once it is unfair to ask the same people to do so again. If a few close friends and family wish to that is fine, but the guest list should be small and intimate. The reception can be as gala as you want, for, after all, this is a celebration of a new union. How many of your friends live near by will have an influence on the size of the reception and here you, your new husband and the families will have to use dis- ried before, but if the bride has not, she is entitled to the full treatment of a traditional wedding. The grooms side of the family, however, will use their own wise judgement of how many guests they should invite (and expect a gift from) for the second performance. Your religion will make a difference and here there are many attitudes. However, if you are a widow the situation is entirely different but you still will not choose the bridal veil and full blown bridal gown. Discretion must be used on showers and parties as well. If your friends entertained and gifted you cretion and wisdom. And, whether its your first, second or . . . (whoops) . . . your third, its too bad, but still its your business. Make it a happy occasion. Stii Jlo cJ-fai- x Saon cStyfang Becouse you're you... ...you deserve to look sensational! Our expert hair stylists can help you achieve the individual look you're after. Definitive hair care isn't only proper shaping, constyling and color... it's a state of mind. It consists of a beauty sultation that takes into account each customer's needs and lifestyle., and a determination of the perfect look. Phone for a n be. However, if your first marriage or ended was extremely short-liveby annulment, you might wear ivory or an wedding gown or a pastel dress with simple lines. Dont however don the veil for a second time. It might bring smiles as well as the raised eyebrow. The type of ceremony is up to you and your church, if that is important to you. It will be much simpler than the first one and, though you may not like it, it is the brides previous marital experience that makes the difference, not the grooms. The groom may have been mar d consolation today. PRECISION SHAPING COLORING BLOW DRY FINISH LUSTRE SHAMPOOING SCULPTURED NAILS PERMANENTS Open Mon. thru Fri. Appointments A Walk-In- s 8-- 8 Sat. 8-- 6 are Welcome! "Complete Family Hair Care I" 625 W. 5300 SO , (Next to E G ( 2795 W. 7800 SO. Corns) wY 262-604- 9 566-236- 1 RENTAL DRESSES For Brides Questions , Questions Questions Maids, Mothers, Formals, Proms - My, How They Do Crop Up The nearer your wedding day comes, the more questions arise. Here are some solutions to some of' the minor problems of the day. - Addressing in-La- Ive ws my fiances parents known quite a few years. I have always referred to them as Mr. and Mrs. but now with the wedding less than six months away, this seems inap- propriate. Ask them directly what they would like to be called. If you would find it difficult to call them mom and dad, should they request it, suggest something else on your own. sed around the office or displayed in a place where everyone will see it. If 5 there were people present from dif- ferent departments you should send them an individual note. Of course, We are not having a large wedding, its always nice to write separate yet some of our friends who are not notes whenever possible. invited have sent us a gift. How do I acknowledge them ? , ' Tu:X owne 344 So. 500 W. : -- Bountiful 2816 W. 3500 So. West Valley City Just as you would gifts from note as a thank-yosoon as the gift is received. Mention that you appreciate their thoughtfulness and look forward to having them visit when you are settle. anyone-wi- th u Clergy Contributions TELEPHONE CENTER a Bell Every time! The Gift That Rings What is an appropriate gift for the clergy performing our ceremony? Wall or Desk Most clergy have a set fee. Call their office to get that information. You may also check with members of the congregation who have recently been married. Reg. Group Gifts 79 gave me a shower My and contributed toward one gift. Should I send a single thank-yo- u note to all or one to each of them? LOVE IS HERE TO STAY One thank-yo- u note for the group would be sufficient. It is usually pas- - Wall or Desk Wall or Desk 49 S Reg. $69 24 S 39 Reg. s Wall or Desk Sale m.49 $69 95 Reg. 69 Reg. 99 Refurbished Phones 90 Day Warranty WITH THIS AD on 20 10 SELECT GROUP OF BRIDALS 59 E. 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