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Show ae Page 34—THE HERALD,Provo, Utah, Sunday, August 23, 1981 Here's Looking at You When Rage Is Love By RENEE C. NELSON Herald Women's Editor Everyone succumbsto rage at one time or another. But sometimesthis intense anger is based on love—not hate Some years back I had a son leave for an LDS Mission. It washisfirst experience away from homeand it was difficult for him. It was moredifficult for me. As I saw him offat the airport with tears welling up in his eyes, I wasn't sure I would survive. I spent the next 24 hoursin a state of delirium and shock unable to get up from the bed because of my dizziness and shaky emotional state. WhenI finally did get on myfeet, I wandered aimlessly about the house saying, “Who will do this now he is gone?’ and ‘Whowill do that?” Severaldayslater, the next youngest son — 16 years old at the time — lashed out in uncontrolled rage, after which he locked himself in his room. I was astonished. It wasn’tlike him. What was wrong? As I listened to his sobbing behind the closed door, I pleaded with him to Taylor - Todd,2/2/57 let me in Cautiously he opened the door to reveal his red tear-stained face ‘What is wrong?” I inquired You don't care about me," he said “You only care about him.” As a witness to mytotal despair over his brother's leaving, he ight 1 didn’t have room in my heart for him. Feeling terribly inadequate, I placed myarm around his shoulder and explained as best I could that he was very special to me, and my love for him would always be there. ‘It's just that one of my birds have left the nest,”’ I said, ‘‘and I'm not sure he can fly.”’ This incident melded our relationship, and though we now disagree occasionally, we both know our love for each other is secure. I learned a good lesson that day. I learned’that sometimes the anger and rage someone showstoward youis not because they hate you. It is not because they areindifferent. It might be because they love you, and you are important to them. T hope I don’t forgetit. FABRIC MILL 1300 S. 374 E. Orem, 225-3123 Mon.-Sat. 9:30-9:30 Grand Central Shopping Center Taylor - Fisher, 5/12/59 gue?‘ gael” Seven Times Elizabeth Taylor 1 98 Todd (who was killed just 13 months after their wedding): ‘‘I have given him myeternal love ... This marriage will last forever. For meit will be the third time lucky."’ — 2/2/57 & 3-days Eddie Fisher: ‘I have never been happier in my life ... We will be on our honeymoon for 30 or 40 years.” — 5/12/59 Richard Burton: ‘I'm so happy you can’t believe it ... 1 love him enough to stand by him, no matter what he might do, and I would wait." — 3/15/64. Then after their divorce and subsequent second marriage.‘There will be bloody no more marriagesor divorces. We are stucklike chicken feathers to tar — for lovely always.” — 10/10/75 John Warner: ‘‘John is the best lover T've everhad... I wantto spend the rest of my life with him and want to be buried with him.” — 12/4/76 The condensation in the September issue of Ladies Home Journal is the final installmentofa three-part series: “Elizabeth Taylor: The Last Star” which will be published in the fall by Simon and Schuster. Education Week Hair Piece Special 4? On selected wigs Includes styling Styling and cutting available 2 Dan River Poly-Cotton Velours Register Now Professional DanceTraining TRAINING CLASSES BEGIN IN SEPT. Ib. Twice a week classes include: Ballet, Jazz, Kicks, Splits, Marchiffg, Rhythm & Showmanship Ages 3-4; 5-6; 7-10; 11-13 Place: 484 W.Center, Prove Call 225-0725 or 375-STAR ust knockin around ding.” — 2/21/52 9:30-6:00 Mini-Mall New Shipment T-Shirts - Knits Found ‘Mr. Right’ In a condensation of Kitty Kelley's kata! unauthorized DIOETApEYot Elizabeth Taylor, she reveals that Ms. Taylor vowed with each of her seven marriagesthat this would be thelast. 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