OCR Text |
Show Wednesday. July 15, 1981 AnnLanders THE HERALD, Provo, Utah—Page 13 Women Are Anyone for Group Jump-Rope? By RENEE C. NELSON Herald Women's Editor around, while others go through life moreslowly,’ I am tired a lot. I'm sure I am not unique. amount that is appropriate for your metabolism. Ihave always operated under the theory. “If you are tired. sleep My doctor has suggested that to achieve more energy I should exercise We have been at crossed swords. But he mayberight Dr. DeRosis says, “It is simply not physicallyefficient to be sedentary. Any effort to release pent-up energy increases your sense of physical well-being — which in turn motivates you to continue being active.” Dr. DeRosis is a psychiatrist who maintains that anxiety whether you use it or not, simply because you arealive. There is really no way you can run outof energy, andthereis can be made to work for you rather than against you “Some people mayneed to add onlyone special activity to really no way you can prevent its production.” free up their energy,” she says; ‘others may haveto take on more. One person might prefer solitary activity while She admits that medical problems must be checked out, “but after these conditions have been ruled out you should considerthe possibility that your fatigue is tied to emotional conflicts. “Some people, from childhood onward, seem to zip Sets Traditional another person might head for a group.” Anyonefor a group program of jump-the-rope” I need two people — one to hold each end. Acountryfair is pianned at Oak Crest Inn, 2600 Canyon Rd., in Spanish Fork in conjunction with the Fiesta Days celebration. it will be from noon to 5 p.m. July 25 and 26.It is free and open to the public. Quilts wili make up the largest part of the fair, though it will include antiques,dolls, art work, and other crafts. Unlike some fairs, many of the items The Utah Association of Women has recently sppointed to its State Board, Bonnie Marshall of Provo. Mrs. Marshall will serve as the new area Tepresentative of the BONNIE MARSHALL McCORMACK, UPI Education Editor Editor’s Note: Top ten college women of 1981 were asked if motherhood figured in their future. Their responses, though guarded, were generally Positive. A few were undecided. The second in the two part series examines responses from those who have severe questions on othe: * Here are comments from three who answered she explained. “Since I intend to continue with my career. there would be somejugtured for BYU Education gling necessary to Weeks throughout the provide enough time for Western States. She is both my career and famipresently the director of ly life. However, this is poise in the Lady Mis- not an impossible task.”” sionary Personal If at somepointsheis Improvement Program faced with dual roles, at the MTC. She is the wife of John F. Marshall, Associate Professor of Design at BYU, and the mother of four children and a foster Lamanite daughter. The Utah Association of Women wasorganized in 1977. It is a nonprofit, non-partisan and nonsectarian organization, thatis essentially education oriented. They endorse the philosophy that the family is the fundamentalunitof society, and that if the family deteriorates, society likewise deteriorates Their two main goals are: 1. To educate members (and the public) as to the pros and cons of pertinent issues. 2, Assist members in learning appropriate and effective methods of action. As area representative Mrs. Marshallwill act as liaison between the state board and the local regions. to you compiled by the U.S. LET US DESIGN Visit Our Showroom or Warehouse Sales Showroom for free consultation with a specialist in kitchen/bathroom design “There have “Béen decreases in physical activity due to shifts to more sedentary jobs that not even the national jogging kick seems to have been able to make up for,” said Department Administrator, Dr. Mark Hegstead. Hegstead also noted that the decline in calorie intake is makingit difficult for certain segmentsofthe ip Population to get the RDA's they need. renovation Also cabinetry tor living room/bedroom/family room/aunary Departmentof Agricul: sture indicate we are actually eatingless than we used to, but the problem of obesity is worse than ever Diet Center recom: mends a balance between good nutrition and exercise. Your meals should include fresh fruits and ‘0 Nw Member/American Institute of Kitchen Dealers vegetables, lean meat such asfish and poultry, eaten HANH and whole grains. This type of meal planning, will assure that you get all the nutrients you need, and not extra, empty calories. 500 N Provo. They request no gifts The day for the event was erroneously an nounced in Monday's paper as Sunday The Wests were married July 17, 1931 in Lander. Wyo. The marriage was solem nized in the Provo LDS Temple on Feb. 15, 1975 The couple have two daughters. Mrs. Ray- moaning and sighing in the boudoir is a put-on to satisfy their egos” If one womanout of 20 has a climax half thetime, that’s a lot. Maybeit has something to do with their anatomy but women wereshort-changed in the sex department at birth. and it’s a rot ten shame Years Dear One; Granted, millions of womenare quietly servicing their bedpartners, feeling nothing and getting very little joy out of sex. And some men couldn't care less, but a great many DO care. Unfortuanately, they are com pletely unaware that while it's the Fourth of July for THEM, it’s Labor Day fer the person they are with. I have said it before, and I will say it again: it is up to the woman to com- I am sure you have received many municate her needs and desires to her partner. She should guide him — tell even printed a few — but you dismiss them with casual contempt, almost as if you don’t believe they are for real him whatis pleasing to her and what is Surely Ann Landers, the confidante of millions, must knowthe facts. Why stead of active participants are destined never to experience what is letters on this subject — and you've not bring them out into the open? Perhaps more female readerswill have the courage to express themselves. I believe it would be therapeutic as well as informative. And maybe the men out there, who always manage to get theirs will be a little more con not. In other words, women who are willing to be passive receptacles inrightfully theirs. A healthy, mutually rewarding sexualrelationship requires candid conversation, experimentation and practice. If women want “‘theirs,”’ they must speak up andnot be solaidback—if you will pardon the expression. Oren, Vin” 225-7368 cal OO oa 273 WEST CENTER, PROVO EATHER SALE ! cabinets, counters, appliances, fixtures, floor coverings, and decorating by 105p.m. at the Riverside high time men weretold that all that it—One Who Has Been Acting For SUMMER & Kitchen Cabinets AKITCHEN FOR YOU EL CENTFR Recentstatistics Willard and Lewver West will be Saturday from 12 Evebit the apple. Don’t youthink it’s Sree Our Services include complete or partial brought ding anniversary of sex Females have been faking it since siderate I realizethis is a hot potato. bu tossing it into your lap and will watch with interest to see what you do with “I cannot make a what problems might University of North wouldlimit it to one.” definitive answer to this come up if she did com- Dakota. Grand Forks Miss Renner. who will question, My career is bine motherhood and journalism major as reporter-anchor planned in advance and career. Her answer specializing in broadcast, work at WDAY, Fargo, N.D., well thought out and I am “The first thing that answered ‘maybe’ to the committed to pursuing comes to my mind in question about the pos- has won a second place award in a state broadpublic service. I cannot answering 1s that men sibility of juggling casting. She has held make the same commit- are never asked such motherhoodandcareer. numerous scholarships questions. We are ment to motherhood not a clearcut is- including three Scrippsknowthat I would enjoy socialized to believe that sue“Itto iswhich I can answer Howard Journalism being a mother and would there is a difference look forward to the chal- between motherhood and yes or no.’’ she said. “At scholarships. point there are simp“Thefirst thing that comes to my In the event she had a lengeof raising a child or fatherhood and that this ly too many variables. mind in answering is that men are children, Realistically women bear the major Myfirst inclination is to dual role — motherhood however also knowthat responsiblity for raising forego having children. I and career —she said the never asked such questions.” (Will a political life inherently children. three problems anthey combine fatherhood with their entails a limited personal ‘Indeed throughout do have a few mothering ticipated would come out instincts, but for the most like this: life. I would only have most of history this has career?) 1. “Times to devote to childrenif I could keep an been true but childbearing part tend to be very un“We are socialized to believe that equal balance between should not lead to having domestic. my career my child and there is a difference between my public and personal the sole or major respon- “I know I could not myhusband.”" 2. “Guilt — the ‘am I sbility for childrearing.If raise a child and continue motherhood and fatherhood andthat life Teonclude that such IT had children I would to be a broadcast being a good mother’ synwomen bear the major respon- a “Tf balance could not be expect responsibility to reporter. The paceis too drome.” sibility for raising children.” 3. Balancing the inmade, I would definitely be shared between my hectic and the demands terests of my career, his husband and me equal- 00 great. —Kathleen Wareham opt for mycareer.” Miss Wareham. whois iy." “Should the biological career, the welfare of our aiming for a career in —Carol Renner, clock start ticking and I child and the well-being I will be taking on the Kathleen Wareham politics, looked next at Richardton, N.D.: The decide to have a family. 1 of our faméty unit.” The responsibility to help Olympia Wash.: those children grow — University of which means spending Washington, Olympia. time with them as they philosophy and mature. economics major was “IT wouldn't bring a president of the 36,000 child into this world un- student body and a less 1 was sure I could Truman scholar. She give him everything he answered the question needs, including a mother about motherhood and that he has timeto get to career with a question mark. Herexplanation know.” Diet facts & fallacies These nutritional tips It’s the best-kept secret in history. Why don't you level with the world and tell us exactly what DO women get out of An open house to celebrate the 50th wed 1250 W piece of deception ofall time Miss Burtell listed her Miss Burtell will work twobiggest problems for the Pennsylvania 1, “Childcare during State Treasury before the day while I work.” getting an MBA. Her 2. “Organizing my time torte in economics and in a way that | won't finance was proved as shortchange mychildren business manager of WCor career opportunities. CB, college radio station. If I make the decision to She tripled annual ad have children,I feel that revenuein 2.5 years See 224-3640 greatest House Park, you are copping out by perpetuating the Childbearing Doesn't Mean Sole Role in Childrearing (Uae ae e €£ Contract Carpets ¢# Interiors, Inc.£€ North Utah County area. This area includes the Provo, Orem, American Fork, Pleasant Grove and BYURegions. Shewill be replacing Jackie Risser Provo. Mrs. Marshall, a resident of Provo for the past 16 years, is knownfor her work in the area of selfimprovement. A former Los Angeles model, she has authored a book, “Beauty Is...'’ by Bookcraft and has lec- Open Colo. will be for sale. Included in the dolls will be Oak Crest’s collection of apple-head dolls and kitchen witches. Unique Boutique, Spanish Fork Floral and Hobby Hive, all of Spanish Fork, are participating in the event. Kelander Fabrics in Orem and Grannies maybe’ or question Fabricsin Springvillewill also have itemsondisplay mark: and for sale. —Barbara L. Burtell Entertainmentwill be provided throughoutthe two Pittsburgh, Pa.: The days andwillinclude the ‘‘Happy Singers” childrens’ Clarion State College singing group. Clarion, Pa., economics Oak Crest dining room will be open for lunch both and finance major days and will feature the regular buffet on Sunday. *swered ‘‘maybe.” ‘I don’t anticipate having children for the nextfive to ten years. at least.” UA of W Appoints Area Representative Dear Ann: Comeon, Old Girl mond (Dee Dee) Reid Tooele; and Mrs. Robert (Billie) Elliott. Denver. By PATRICIA Country Fair... she says ‘but whether your pace is fast or slow, your body is engineered to produce the right amount of energy the I have always thought I was tired because I was overworked Butanarticle 1 read in anold issue of McCall's “Working Mother"’ suggests that the cause of exhaustion is often unhappiness or lack of satisfaction in one’slife Helen A. DeRosis points out that “It is a myth that one hasa fixed amountof energy that can be exhausted. In fact.” she continues, ‘‘whatone really needsto do is makesure that the release of energy is steady and continuous “Like electricity, energy is always being produced Oak Crest Inn Shortchangec West Here's Looking at You 2.Convenient Locations LOTS OF ‘EM! © Many colors and styles. Sizes 4-6X - Preteen. Great assortment! BOYS SWIMWEAR © Sizes 4, 5,7 @ Designs, Solids. © Great look! $599 Large Assortment SHIRTS © © © © Boys Name Brand Solids, Design, All Colors Sizes 4-20 Boys. Short and long sleeves Sug. Retail to 18.00 = UP! MENS SPORT SHIRTS © Good selection © Name Brand © Popular styles Sug.Retail 25.00 $43% EVERY DAY IS A SALE DAY AT yy & 225:3181 “own-uran £ Contract Carpets é# Interiors, Inc.§ eee DITTOS! DITTOS! DITTOS! 273 WEST, CENTER, PROVO |