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Show t REFLEX mwrmm uni LEDER JOURNAL BULLETIN FOCUS T AUGUST 19, 1982 mmmmmmmmrn the unconscious level. All dimensions of the Christian church underline Gods unconditional love. The acceptance of pat don and foigivenes can be a event, but if you cannot or do not know how to accept your fellow pmoni forgiveness, then the guilty feelings will prcsist and in one form or another, will be resolved or served, cry had served iwo tenteace ia for grand theft, and forgery. After ht bad lirvlng hi second term, Lc vu, pd-Frno- m I I fxr lice back in jfcj, C2 HAD been opening kza fl tif after fc Gary would take off bii glove f..;jrpfint be kft mad M niixu-lossl- y rJ5 y crr Landed -- io trace trim, He wa ONE PART 01 this is that we punish as intensely for false guilt as for real guilt. A woman who had not been able to sleep for many year told me in a counseling session that there was really nothing wrong wuh her life, Bui two things came out in the fu st session. She hod had a bad scxuaJ experience as a young girl leaving her with guilt feeling which were the result of misinformation ami repressed strong hostility toward her father. and sentenced to a third time he was tent to San term. Thi Qscoia, Apart of the human makeup, an inner it own edict, ' coo fe or be punished." Kuher we secure a sense of largivenevi. r elc we puntb r.sst;:ry enforce ounetvc. GARY SAID that he experienced a release from guilt feeling when be was in prison, but he knew he had oof been by his family. He was released bat his inner judge condemned him to be punished, so he put his bare hands on the front of the safe. He was saying literally but unconsciously, I am guilty, find me and punish me.1' Whatever else there is. feelings are facts and guilt is a very read feeling. One of the maxims of police investigation is to look for the obvious because very often the criminal is saying: "I am guilty. Come and get me. Subconsciously. I wish to be caught and punished.' TF.Z CRIMINAL may never admit this, even to himself. He protest loudly, that he desires to escape. The truth is that the unconscious part of him needs to be few-giv- en - WHEN WE were able to openly talk about these areas of guilt , t he real one and the imagined one, and deal with them ut a healthy level, insomnia w as no longer a problem. Freud told u that many people turn to wrong because they will be certain of punishment. Gary is textbook case in point. PEOPLE WHO make consistently wrong life judgments are seeking punishment through failure for their buried sense of real or false guilt, When this become too great or overbearing, the mind passes its pain on to the body ami induced organic disease becomes part of the punishment. Wc have a choice to be open to God and man and be free of most of our ills of mind and body or wc can conceal our failures and shut ourselves off from the healing and forgivness. THIS IS the area that your pastor, priest or rabbi Is highly trained to deal with. Why not go and talk to yours about this if you have chronic depression or other symptoms which might be caught. When Gary had been released from prison, he wished unconsciously to stPd keep on paying the penalty for his crime. He did not feel forgiven and went to great lerjlhs to get himself locked up again. YV2 ARE so made that our guilt, real or imaginary, must bedcalt with and resolved. These feelings come through to our inner self as feelings of shame, inferiority, rejection or simply worthlessness. These come to the surface as irritability, alienation and anger. You have a person who is being motivated by guilt at Anud I V Wild Ideas Can Make You Money I like The next time you come up with a crazy idea to make money, dont immediately dismiss it as impractical. It might just work. SOMETIMES THE wildest ideas turn and-o- r back- YOU CAN get your car washed almost anywhere. 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Despite the fact they charge $2,000 to $4,000 for the guih-rclate- fund-raise- rs TWO SAN Diego men are making privilege. Gary has a chance to hit the streets and make it this time because he has dealt with a lot of the causes of his behavior. money teaching how to become a game show contestant. Apparently, plenty of people are willing to pay $ 1 00 for the four-hocourse. In addition to tips on how selected for such programs, student get to practice in a mock game show that awards real prizes. A creative man from Illinois recently came up with an idea that may do away with the traditional funeral hearse. He converted a recreational vehicle into a ur to-b- combination flower car, hearse and limousine. It allows up to 35 members of the funeral party to be together on the trip to the cemetery. And it substantially cuts the cost of a funeral motorcade. Even though the vehicle sells for $95,000, it is in demand. THE OWNER of a Florida truck stop devised an unusual way to make more money. 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