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Show 6A 5 STD‘County, Via Sunday Herald | The Mature Parent Gather ‘Round, Gals . Don’t Confuse Anger With Hurt | | Here’s How to Fix a Flat! MRS. MURIEL LAWRENCE Newspaper Enterprise Assn. Dear Mrs. Lawrence: Though our minister ; has tried to help me, I cannot get any comToday . . . an essay on chang- off all the nuts until you have! ee & y ing a flat tire. It’s as simple | jacked iieucarmunwacain or (ort from the scriptural texts that used to . | . » mean so much to me. For the past 18 months as falling off a log. First, | tn, hol heel ht s " : bring the car to a halt, shut off| © whole wheel might come while he lived with us at home and worked the engine and pull on the f, and the car could fall offjin his father’s real estate office, our son, emergency brake. Take off|the jack. (22, has been secretly married to a women your coat, and don the overalls} Isn’t this fun? We knows I have no use for. He has driven yorkie yout along for abeh| Slip tks “mpate, tub)! theint. iragelnfavoriteole.beenos te.hae emergencies .. . you overalls, didn’t you? did bring Te trunk. ae . | 2 MS - , s “his is ih moving 4) jlways been while all the time he has been Open the trunk. Clear away Piano out of a hayloft. Now, using his home and his job to save the money all the pop bottles, blankets and Slide i. on in place of the flat./to leave town with this woman. I am so beach gear so you can locate Install the nuts, tighten them, hurt that I cannot even cry . . youspare tire and tools. Don’t|and lower the jack until the! ANSWER: You are not hurt; you are furJaugh. Lots of women don’t| Wheel touches the ground again. jiously angry. And I don’t know why you know where their spares are. /Don't try to put the hub cap |have been unable to know this unless anger Generally, a spare is on the back on. It’s impossible. Just /has been made into discreditable emotion for opposite end of the car from|toss it into the trunk with the |you by your moraltrainers. the engine. It may be in the ee, flat tire. You're" iq your parents make you ashamed of trunk, under the trunk, over on the engine, in a wheel well or} y yanger? Are you afraid of it in yourself, disNow, you step on the gas, |qainful of it in other people? If so, we can suspended from the outside of|but the car won’t move. Some-|pegin to understand why you haveto call this the car. - thing is wrong. Call the local raging anger at your son “hurt.” why you Jacking up the car is easy garage, which you probably have to think of yourself as cruelly abused after you’ve figured out how|should have done in the first cme eerWonious to fit the jack under the bump-|place. The man comes to your) 5 eiqhatdh om: ma er. Before you try this, block|rescue. He removes the cinder) . expec a ele ris some real hurt in one of the front tires with cinder| block from in front of the wheel \what you feel about yOUT BSNS ralstreatment blocks, bricks or pieces of 2 x|(where you had so carefully (of you but its biggest content is pure rage. I’d pe so glad if I could help you feel it. Anger is a fine, openly demanding emotion. Unlike this hurt you’ve told yourself you feel, it duesn’t whine and beg for better treatment from others indirectly It doesn’t say, “Oh, look at me poor thing that I am, abused and expl»ited by the child I thought loved me.” Anger shouts its honest rejection of mistreatment: ij “You have misjudged me! I am not a thing to be used for your convenience. I am a person with feelings and that you have ignored them to oulldoze your way through to what you want has filled me with the opposition of anger.” Such a declaration represents honest demand Please think about this, because I don’t think that your son knowsthe first thing about you and what you wanted from him. I think that he has mistreated you because he tad no idea of how much you have wanted his confidence and consideration. I think that for vears he has lived with the idea that all you wanted from him were kisses for his favorite pie. That was never true, was is? You wanted much more than kisses. You’ve wanted trust of this child. It’s as stupid to falsify what we want from childien as it is to try to beautify what we feel when we don’t getit. (All rights reserved. NEA) | 4 lumber (packed away with/put it) and collects his money. | your overalls) so the car doesn’t) Well, you can’t remember| é A ’ Jaycettes ] ittle ‘Run, iLook Pretty, Rain or Shine roll.Ifthefront tireis flat, |everything! HOSPITAL GIFT—Presenting a new portable television set to the-American Fork Hospital recently were representatives of A. F. Jaycettes. From left are Mrs. Sherman Christensen, president; Mrs. Kay Walker, secretary; Mrs. Malcolm Beck, treasurer; Mrs. Irene Evans, superintendent of nurses at the hospital. | ‘New Class for In Am. Fork Give Expectant fe . Piano Recital Is Planned Monday site side. Make sure the little Petal eau shops are inR gizmo on the jack is in “up” stalling Finnish sauna baths inj NEW YORK (UPI)—Those any for days except on eyes, AY- i A piano recital will be given position, or the jack will refuse ue salons. Pa Bs a ritual|April showers bring the May|and lips.” J on, un Mothers Set by college students of Robert to move. cleansing through perspira-|flowers, but they also put a i | | * B. Smith on Monday evening Whenthe flat wheel is off the tion and relaxing through heat,|burden on a girl's Bere b a eeltise i brunette) As consumers, we demand Hospital Gift A new series of classes for) at g p.m., 774 North 12th East, Lo q S ine. a Pwsso Sheerer and sheerer hosiery, but ground, pry the hub cap loose followed by stimulation through of appearance. jexpectant parents will begin|proyo with a screw driver or the end cold water. One prominent! some women manage to look lice DHEhLool A r yloften we don’t exercise the ne- AMERICAN FORK—American Monday, April 6 at 1:30 p.m. at| performers will be Kay Tay-* of a lug wrench. Hub cap re- New York physician, Dr. John} gjamorous rain or shine. Others a ze on ae a son P 8Y\cessary care to make these Fork Hospital patients are in-|the Red Cross Headquarters,|jor, Portland, Ore.; Mary Alice moved, you will see five or six M. Bishop, has installed ajfing their hair droopy as a wet| ae said perfect foil for color,’ |\riny beauties last. ele Sal: Here are a few pointers to|debted to the Jaycettes for 356 N. 200 E., Provo. Classes Collier, Provo; Harriet Grass, hexagonal nuts which hold the sauna room in his office and| naniel’s on a ma An wheel on. They have to come by a Public Orem; Karen Jensen, Portland, \their contribution of a portable will be taught fi ir| 2 have Iseveral i tt sauna baths regularrelaxant | Wednesday for three weeks, and|Qre.: Fred Clayson, Orem; and ee aa eae Pcabe Ory aayou7 eget longer they do help think handsome W h Be eee; 2 fh ait/ymbrellas. and| ater as an excellent off. Use the lug wrench and prescribes |television made this week. The| will be taught by aPublic| Roy Hills, Orem. Also performtwist. The wheel will turn. You tension reliever. Dr. Bishop ae ae Cath a er ae something for a costume. I’ve|YOUr Geucate nylons. a alk: fe never owned a raincoat. I hate| Sit when you fasten your front esteeeege equipped with polea Nurse. |ing will be Bill Brown, 16-yearjacked the car up too high. says he would recommend|*”. th S ne Lower it until the tire touches sauna for people undertension, he ae e wet sidewalks, thelr/ty concede that much to the|and side garters, but stand 4g) igh stand to make viewing by| ‘The class covers information| old high school student, Provo. eliminating, in some cases, the Kd gloves stiff as a motorman’s| weather.” fastern the back ones. ‘his|the reclining patent more com-| things to know before the| Compositions by Haydn, Beetthe ground again. mitt, their makeup proving it/ 47./i¢] Johnstone, a handsome|8ives more knee action andless /fortable. | bab th ; ,_|hoven, Chopin, Ravel and BarTwist again, but don’t take necessity for tranquilizers. isn’t so waterproff after all. 11.,4e who heads her own ad-|StTain on the threads. Mrs. Sherman Christensen, |P@Py comes, the mother’s nutri-|+ 3) will be heard. The: public How do those in the lime-|vertising agency, relies on a| Be sure your stockings fit|President of the 16 member|tional needs, mother’s and|is invited and there is no ad|light maintain their glamour,| overall rain cape with hood—|closely around your legs. If they |Jaycettes, made the presenta-|baby’s supplies, processes in| mission charge. : : Win At Bridge re : Optimism Key to |though dampened? | “Stand straight Success and “J just can’t cope with umbrel-|are too loose, they will catch|tion. which was accepted in be-|actual birth, cate of the new va New pendants are bigger, walk/las,” she said. “‘And if I HAVE:on any object and snag. — oo pa Apaete \baby and mother, baby’s home-| en ; , jeer said Jinx Falkenburg, | to wear boots, I shed them asi Wear shoes with snugly fit-| ene a “\coming, daily care, Mrs. Jim Hall was chairman | ae |radio and television star. “‘Don’t|soon as possible. I tuck an ted heels or the rough lining and the Sree Cie eae ee On ra ri pressive chains, the Jewelry In- By OSWALD JACOBY |the cards a chance and maybe look as if you’ve been beaten extra pair of white kid gloves) will rub your stocking heel and of the project, and had and the the as-|first development a ©|dustry meanwhile, Council reports. sistance of the president year. Practical work in|lets, range Bracefrom Newspaper Enterprise Assn. | they will come through for you.” down by the drops.” in my purse for say a lunch|preakit. \lother officers, Mrs. Gary Gra-| the various phases of baby care|slender bangles to heavy en NORTH | “I took the ace of diamonds. 4| @5965 appointment. Nothing looks) spot. West studied a while and days,” she said. It’s a good ed jcovered with the ten. I ruffed day to look fresh-scrubbed. And 3xe |in dummy, played three rounds my hair, I just tuck all of it! FAST 743 ¥3— of trumps and took care to win|under a turban type hat. @AK83 sz think too aved, almost cuff-like, bands short, your toe will go|colm Beck, treasurer, as well holding, are an important part chain finishes. bracelets Popular include gold through.If it’s too long, the toe|as the other members, in its | of the class. There is no charge |beads and colored stones, plus “Just because it is so difficult| will fold over an cause dam-| successful completion. |to feel glamorous on a rainy|age above the toe reinforce- , d ing. _I|“A bright coat, a bright _<- | for this class. Further informa- | the universally liked gold chain ____|tion maybe obtained by calling | and pearl. um-|Pauline Trigere, the designer|ing hosiery company, warns } | MOTH ERS One was going to go on my longa "boost. wear a_ bright|a glowing color, and a careful-|sheer hosiery. He also suggests \club. My problem was whether scarf,” said Anita Colby, the|ly chosen rain ensemble rather|that the garters be fastened on to lead a low diamondandtrust blonde beauty known as “The|than the miscellaneous collec-|the welt of the hose. | AQsB Both vulnerable BOWL AT em 3RING THE CHILDREN . . - Since nylons are plentiful and lee the inet ea sets to’ Face.” “Lifts the spirits on ajtion of boots, raincoat and ae come up or to play the jack and drab day.” brella too many women cling/po¢ ¢ 5 tend t to|| we tend — bea! |not 5 cce Opening lead—@ EK | Look Fashionable could establish two winners in |brella.” |who heads her own Seventh|against wearing a gem rin, | noe could discard two} Others asked for their rainy|Avenue dress manufacturing/when you examine tockinne of dummy’s four losing spades. day secrets agreed that color-is|firm. ‘‘Wear something special,/The sharp stone points can tear ¥Al04 sAs073 Pass irene ; ||\e third lead in my own hand.| “Get some bright color in/day, it is important to, look as|ment. Straighten a tangled fringe|the Red Cross Office at FR 3)~ ne ea zeeteas aus [yourwardrobe,” sheconttaned fashionable as possible,” said] Lowell Wilkin, head of a lead-| PY Tunning a fork through it. 8580. | $v 39732 1054 can @M Loe wet ar ake certain that you choose|ham, vice president; Mrs. Ka “I wear only lipstick on rainy| Worse to me than gloves splash-|the correct foot eat If it’s| Walker, eee: Mrs. Mal such = bathing ; cressing, (and i various veces WEST 29 SO Only Lipstick and promptly led back the nine| too expensive, EeeDoE the eight out oe Piyaanesatiar ne eagerein leavonevien be careless with them. 66 I '|thought a while before playing | gressed lists, said she relies on {coat with umbrella to match. try to see if a little care won't Barbara Wren of Dallas, Tex.,|the 10 and decided to try the/an oversize umbrella—like a “The colors,” she said, “‘make make them last a bit longer Cereoea and not strain the budget. * * hate the gray of a gray day, so I put on white. 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I remembered that| LEAVE IN OUR * dhathemode About those splashes _on snesarecovete Eva Gabor, “I|1|stockings. actress the Said against thatTshouldhavepassed) |AQye5 WAKS764 62 #2| dress knew “Carry tissue and|-otocial and treated to ornaweather. imum 17 high card points with What do youdo? three aces and a five-card suit and I decided to experiment ably has more elubs than you have hearts. with a slam contract. “When I saw the dummy, I TODAY’S QUESTION ou right then and es to oer opensane diamond. ve up experimenting, but I| You, South, S ESTFUL FOR R : Left: Picture of the King Baby—first baby in Melody Lane’s Play Room. i y remembered that West had often mentioned for those, best-|semble is an ombre red rain-a Beis they hg oe eS has helped with the typing of bump. I played my jack. West) golfer’s umbrella in several col- a bright spot for me and I hope these articles for several years|put on the queen and there was ors. for others as well.” and I will let her tell the story East’s eight. Also I had my Pamela Tiffin, the beautiful “T get into the brightest colof today’s hand in her own|three spade discards and slam.” ors I own,” said actress Joan young actress, skips makeup words. | Crawford. ‘Cyclamen, Kelly until she arrives at her desti“My partner’s two-diamond green, bright pink. Never black nation and then ducks into a response to my opening noor somber tones. I use plastic powder room for a quick touchQ—The bidding has been: trump was the Jacoby transfer raincoats so the color shows up. “Rain drives me to lavenbid, and I responded two hearts |1'¢ through. Or, when I can find| der eye shadow,” she said, just as I was supposed to. When|2 @ them, I get raincoat, boots and “because rain reminds me of lilacs.” he jumped to four hearts, I|Pass ? umbrella coordinated.” ominex | . DRUG CENTERS Pl hh,Lee Ses |