Show fy yf frrr - !- 'T‘w i 1' '"V f" ty W’WW'-p-'V- "’ The Salt Late Tribune Sunday October 14 1956 Date With Debbie V i 1 By Deborah Paige teacher makes AM assignment You are to give a five minute speech on any topic you choose 10:20 a m panic strikes You sit numb thinking “What am I going to do? What am 1 going to say? How am I going to say it? class ends 10:30 am work on talk logins " ' 4 ! H t - 10:10 Think about it as you walk down the hall to your next dess don’t shudder or shun your speech duty Standing before any group Is enough to give anyone the Jlt ters but don’t let fear be drag on your success picking the topic Is the Important beginning Choose a subject In which you are Interested one about which you have strong feeling and a subject that would be appropriate for the class Remember that when you get up to speak you become an authority Your speech must have r' i I f i f - reason—- - meaning-en- d Giving talka In class may make Mary Ellen Brennan left 'wary but Sally'Tratt faces' th assignment With Confidence' - UNITY AND COHERENCE go hand In hand with the con- tent Df wharymr sajnre-- 1 Sincerely Edan Wright Teen Goes Steady Finds Self in Trap - Dear Edan Wright: Going steady Is the fashion in our town If you don’t you are left out of things For instance when you go to dances with another girl you have to stick with her all evening because the kids d only 1 with f steadies and Wrifht don’t mix " If you are Been with the same boy two or three times everybody has you pegged as Ldan his girL m Giving Talk Can Be Rewarding Forget ‘Butterflies’ Have Fun pare an outline emphasizing the plan of your topic using examples to illustrate your points Memorize by going over the titles and subtitles in your mind or out loud several times In the last stages of preparation stand before a mirror and give your speech using gestures—If you feel like It— and using facial expressions Your speech gains emphasis and importance with each body movement — Good posture la essential The Impression you z make upon your audience la the first Impression Your appearance and posture give your speech Dress in a lift or clothes you look well in and ones that will be correct for the situation This gives you confidence at the start -- n IF YOU’RE the shy type then speaking before the class jnay come as a dreaded Actually even some of the most accomplished speakers are frightened- they go before their audh ences Being tense and excited gives you determination And when you have something to say and you want your audience to hear It then your attentions are transferred to the listeners detracting from your own anxiety and nervousness Be yourself before your Be conversational in class your presentation Speak clearly No one wants to listen to bunch of mutterings —TO RELAX on the platform completely relax In your seat before you speak Try slumping In your chair to get comfortable if you have to Breathe deeply on the way to the front Before you begin take another deep breath your thoughts and then begin calmly Don’t forget to breathe during the course of your discussion Pause now and again to re collect Ideas and strengthen your outline In your mind - - One step in rounding out your personality IS to concentrate on others Forget your-sel- f even ' when giving speeches Think of your class and the purpose of your topic —“ — 10:10 am butterflies 10:15 am speech over You can’t wait until the next time wJ rV - ts'1 Open Mondoys 10 om to 9 pm Beautiful and becoming with many curls or few I col-le- is for you! One ofjthese Choose yourlouffant Cut “200 Companion Permanent 850 Next-dayf'- Vow moy m with or without appointment your ckorg at all Wt graduated from the same grade school and are go-- ' you have already accepted you should keep it I think anyone will uhderstand that a gal can get herself in a spot and to go with him this once won’t give you an undesirable reputation Dear Mist Wright: Whenever I don’t get home on time my father blamea it on my girl friend Then he forbid me to go around with her because he says she Is a bad Influence And this might be just the opposite if it’s true Ing to the asms high schooL I don’t especially care for the other girls In school or any around my house If my dad doesn’t change his mind I won’t have anyone to do anything with Could you help me? SUSAN ANNE If you data a lot of boys and play tha field you become known as “fast” and If you don’t a “make-outdate you are known aa an “odd" and a “square" Do you have 'a solution to this problem of modern dating? A DATING VICTIM ” I have plenty to say in a booklet on the subject Meantime let me aay that you teens' promoted and Insisted on going steady Then you set up rules and taboos to enforce It It appears now from ths laments I’ve been receiving from all over that you’rs realizing you’ve fenced your— selves In —r — — Many girls put the blame on the boys Here’s what on says: “They don’t aeem to realize that girl might not want to date one boy exclusively and they consider her Ineligible if she even datea the same boy twice “So what happens? The only way a girl can go with different boys is by dating dropping themWben does this then the boys brand her as heartless Oftentimes a - girl doesn’t care about a boy after seeing him once and she feels that to give him more dates will just be leading him on But if she turns him down she is branded as a JLate S)ay man-hater- ” Another girl writes: “The only way you can get around the situation Is to go with a boy for a while then break U Vhum iatlir ti may bo for Thih iimikBi ill A high with excitement ImIM by writing Kiai WrtfM Rem lenrlei DenertaiMt Ybe Bali Lake Tribnne TO Baa M7 Ball Lake City Vlak taclaeiav M rente (nIr only) n4 a ittanC eiMIreaet taveleii) up and find another steady tired of my steady and started going with another the very day I broke up” I don’t know who is to blame for this dating mishmash but it’s no help for either sex to point the finger 'at the other The only way you can break through the fence is to decide what you as an Individual really wish to do and strike out for it I got Dear Miss Wright: Yesterday s boy asked me to go to a party with 'him I simply can’t stand him and neither can anybody else I’m afraid if I don’t go he might spread rumors around that I stand boys up or he might be hurt And If I do go with him that Isn't it exciting — this new lavishness of fashion! So frankly feminine so very intriguing so nostalgically Edwardian in its opulence Our famous designers curve many such feminine beauties for your late-dadoings In some the emphasis is on simple in others graceful lines an interesting interplay of fabrics or unusual lavish trims y " — In all — that an air of drama devastating French Room — Second Let el OPEN MONDAYS I might get the reputation for dating creeps I’m going to high school In September and I want my reputation to be a good one So please answer me DOUBTFUL A girl is entitled to turn A boy down on a date But if fDmm 10 am ' td ? p m Buy The Eaiy Way Use Our FBA the Flexible Budgt Account that allows you to pay juit your totol balance each month Ask at the Credit Department for details ant-sixt- h - FREE PARKING - NO PURCHASE NECESSARY In our convenient storeside parking ton oc’ |