Show 8E Standard-Examine- Sunday Nov 19 1989 r Horizons Husband is lucky for wife’s sensible attitude DEAR ABBY: M husband “Jim” had an affair with a neighbor I'll call “Carol” Two neighbors told me about it One said Jim would park his car on the side of her house and walk to Car- Orchids to you for your sensible attiYour husband is lucky And so is together and our husbands are good friends Carol has always been very nice to me and I see no reason why I shouldn’t be nice to her After all it takes two to tango and I think it’s over now Please tell me how to handle this — NEEDS GUIDANCE DEAR NEEDS: It’s history Don’t mention it to Carol or Jim And if one of your neighbors brings it up say it’s a closed chapter and there’s nothing to talk about tendon may develop into a chronic condition Keeping off that foot and avoiding any stress is an important part of encourag“Chronic or recurring Achilles tendinitis may mean an injury to the tendon did not heal properly” said Dr Joseph Fetto an orthopedic surgeon at New York University Medical Center "Running and activities that involve repetitive pounding on the feet are associated with chronic Achilles tendinitis which affects gion An Englishman once told me that pushv — SPEECHLESS DEAR SPEECHLESS: The safest subject to initiate a conversation is believe it or not the weather If you get a chilly response cool it If you're traveling you could ask “Where arc you heading?” Or “Where’s home?” If the stranger is reading or appears to be deeply engrossed in work leave him or her alone Most people appreciate a show of friendliness from a stranger but not all do so after you've initiated a conversation where it leads will be up to the other party Americans are considered rude because the first question they ask is “What do you do for a living?” I have also been told that it’s very poor taste to ask what race or nationality people are For example if a person looks Oriental you should not ask if he or she is Japanese Chinese Korean Cambodian Thai or Hawaiian Abby I was taught that in order to make friends with people you need to show an interest in them and find some common ground So please tell me what to say after “What’s your name?” and “My that’s a lovely dress” — or tie or pily — for 42 years We do not approve of this second marriage because he met this woman when a friend brought her along to pay him a condolence call when he was sitting shiva for his wife (the first week of mourning) Have you ever heard of such a thing? We think this all happened too fast and need your opinion — CLOSE RELATIVES IN JERSEY DEAR CLOSE: According to Jewish law the official mourning period is one kle which should indicate to a person to stay off the foot to permit healing to begin “Rest is the most important element in healing” the orthopedist said “If the rest period is rushed the person may become more susceptible to developing a chronic condition” During the first 12 hours aspirin and cold compresses may be used to relieve pain and reduce 2 percent of runners in the United States” The Achilles tendon is a group of fibers that connects the large muscles in the calf to the bone of the heel “Inflammation occurs when ing healing whatever It is frustrating to sit next to someone on a bus plane or train without saying a word Can you please help me out with a few suggestions on how to break' an awkward silence? I’m friendly not sore feet into serious injury Don’t pound Pain or soreness in the Achilles Press Syndicate Universal I AP Newsfeatures DEAR ABBY: I need a quick answer about whether to attend a family wedding or not A very' close relative buried his wife 14 months and six days ago They had been married — and very hap- Abigail Van Buren would wanted to know have to ask Jim When I asked him he denied it but I could tell he was lying I know this affair would never break up Carol's home because her husband is an easygoing guy and an excellent provider She has never had to work and they get along with each other like a pair of newlyweds How' should I treat Carol? Our children are about the same ages they play was ans thing Carol Dear Abby ol's (Carol's husband worked nights which made it en convenient) hen I heard about this affair I approached Carol (which I now regret) and asked her what was going on between her and m husband She said if there I year Judge not Wish them both well and go to the wedding DEAR ABBY: I have been told that when meeting people stay away from subjects such as sex politics and reli- tude- there is excessive stretch or tension applied to the muscle-tendo- n group’” Fetto explained “When the Achilles tendon is strained it undergoes microscopic tears which a person experiences as pain redness and swelling in the affected area” The first sign of Achilles tendinitis is generally pain in the an swelling Because the unused leg may become stifFer and weaker with dis- use the rest period should be followed by conditioning exer cises to strength and endurance Lifting the heels by standing on the toes is a good stretching exercise for this purpose Start slowly to avoid reinju- 1 1 Country Way Gifts & Antiques 10th & Wash Blvd Ogden ry “Evaluation is appropriate if swelling and pain persist” Fetto said “This may indicate damage to the tendon or an inflammatory disease” Chronic Achilles tendinitis occurs most often in people who are not limber “For example people who have difficulty touching their toes are at higher risk” Fetto asserted I PM 0 Monday Nov 20th thru Saturday Nov 25th 10:00 We Have Decked Our Walls With Boughs of Holly AM-7:0- Dried and Silk Flowes Caligraphy Sayings Make It And Take It Classes Gift Certificates Porcelain Dolls Shelves and Benches Custom Orders Layaways Coma In And Your Bears Bunnies and Much Mora To Add To Collections Your Own Gift Baskets For That Special Someone Craata Home and Holiday Decorating Done The Country Way e Brenda Klomp Sharlene Wayment 3S2-033- 2 'ipv f y my q? y y qry w Bridge BIG FALL SPECIAL By B JAY and STEVE BECKER King Features Syndicate The bidding: South dealer Both sides vulnerable NORTH 2 3 Pass Pass 4 4 Opening lead — king of clubs A good part of the skill in card play consists of establishing tricks that do not exist naturally For a good example consider this deal where it might seem that declarer can easily make four spades His only losers appear to be two clubs and one trump Yet the Q8542 KQ 106 0 AJ 83 ’ WEST 4 A9 ?J4 EAST 4 103 9853 0 108632 S7 0 974 4 A K 10 9 5 2 74 SOUTH 4 KJ76 0 A72 KQ5 Sooth 1 NT 3 4 West North 7-- Q-7- -4 contract went down one and South could do nothing to prevent it perfect defense was more than South could East-West- ’s cope with West led the king QJ6 East signaled with the seven to encourage a club continuation West continued with the ace of clubs on which East played the four and South the jack It was not difficult for West to conclude from the bidding that East had indeed started with the 4 of clubs rather than the South could not have held a point opening notrump bid without the queen of clubs Accordingly West led a third round of clubs Declarer ruffed in dummy with the queen — he would have gone down at once had he ruffed with the eight — and led the deuce of trumps from dummy to his jack East of clubs and West took the jack with the ace and continued his remorseless attack by playing still another club South did all he could possibly do under the circumstances by discarding a heart from dummy but East cooperating fully ruffed with the 10 of spades This o PERMS si 5 By Cut & d ' box He overruffed East’s 10 with the king but the net effect of this inspired defense was that West now had the setting trick in the form of the nine of trumps And so even though the spade nine had not seemed at all significant at the start of the play it eventually attained majestic heights Style Include Nails by Carmen 500 15°° HIGHLIGHTS Sherrie £ $20 Style Included HAIRCUTS uppercut knocked South clear out of the well-aime- PERMS S15°I full set DALES BEAUTY SALON 1987 W 5600 S ROY 825-12- 12 BERNINA SEWING Horoscopes Forecast for Monday ber 20 1989: ARIES (March 19): Job that had been pushed aside should no longer be delayed Telephone message relates to em- - 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