Show 80 Standard-Examine- Sunday June r 5 1988 Ef GOODBYE FRUSTRATION! HELLO BERNINA Horizons Advise adoption Finding A Pedissf mmn is Kid SfluM agency of death DEAR ABBY: Our son was killed in an accident this year We feel fortunate to have had this fine boy to love for 18 years and because we have so many wonderful memories we With Physician Finder you can now lots on of doctors from McKay-De- e Hospital Center and the Institute for Behavioral Health with one quick phone call Our free computerized network groups doctors by specialty location availability and even by the types of insur- Dear Abby Abigail Van Buren are better able to adjust to our Press Syndicate Universal loss j ! Since his death I have been thinking about a moral issue We adopted “Charles” as an infant and perhaps his biological mother has been hoping that one day she will find him Should we contact the agency that placed Charles for adoption and let them know that he is gone so they can advise his birth mother? Or would it be kinder to let her keep hoping that one day she will find him? If she desired it we would gladly meet with her and share our memories Of this lovely boy W'e know she gave him up only out of love She knew she couldn't take care of him and wanted him to have a better life I If our positions were reversed I think I'd rather know that he was gone than to keep looking for him for the rest of my life Perhaps his biological mother never thinks about him and all this pondering is totally unnecessary Please guide me Abby I would like to resolve this one way or the other —CHARLES’ MOM DEAR MOM: My mail tells me that most mothers who have given up their infants for adoption never stop “wondering” how they are where they arc and what they look like They also pray for the day they will see “their” child 'again c Yes do advise the agency of Charles’ death — so it may inform his biological mother And bless you for your generosity in offering to meet with her to share your memories DEAR ABBY: I am 25 years Old single and eight and a half months pregnant I never considered abortion from the word “go” but I have been seriously considering giving this child up for adoption I have many personal reasons for my decision — I: of which I believe are in the child's best interest My distress lies in having to defend my decision I am make over $30000 a year and love children so my friends and colleagues feel I’m an ideal candidate for single parenthood No matter in which condition I return to work parent or not I have no intention of discussing this topic with these nosy tactless people On the other hand I do have to maintain a friendly and professional relationship with them Abby how does one politely say “Mind your own business”? — SEALED LIPS DEAR SEALED: Try this: “I appreciate your interest but it’s a personal matter that I choose not to discuss” Good luck all college- -educated DEAR ABBY: I am a talented knitter who has knitted many beautiful sweaters for myself and others — as gifts I spend a great deal of time creating these original pieces of “art” — which is what they are (No two are alike) Therefore I find it extremely irritating when someone compliments me on my sweaters saying “It looks just as nice as anything you could buy in a store!” Or worse yet “It doesn’t look home- 12 Prjcy I OHE WEEK OKLY-W- HIIE ° 99 1gPrice THEY LAST! 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