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Show ''"Ny1 2C DESERET NEWS, MONDAY, JULY Dont give 4, 1977 10 years, DICAR ABRY: My husband and have a friend who is married with two small babies. This man brings his girl friends over to our house. We are good ricnds with both him anJ his wile. I feel that by allowing this man to bring his girl friends here, we are condoning his actions. Should we just tell him bluntly that he can do as he pleases, but not in out house? My husband says his wife knows whats going on, and as long as she doesnt care, why should we? Should I find out if his wife really knows? And if she knows and doesnt 1 columns later . , , care, OUR READERS' ACTION 180. I 10 backing and freedom of operation permitted by the Deseret News management. Nor would it have done anything without the cooperation of many people in city, county, state and federal places and hundreds of individuals in the business world. The complaints and problems we have handled have shown us that human society is bound together by good will and confidence between man and man. Happiness, opportunity, usefulness, friendship, business, politics, almost everything depends upon reputation. Hence when a person or a business becomes branded in the public mind as one who cannot be trusted, or is dishonest, he has lost almost everything. There is only one thing more important than reputation and that is character. Its difficult to live among men without a reputation. What is precious beyond words? If we were to tell people how to live wed advise all to be honest in everything they do and to live by the Golden Rule. Solomon said, A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches. Shakespeare wrote in Othello: Good name, in man, and woman, dear my lord. If It caboose all my life. YARD OF LARD hcrnluih 4 Spontaneous Cold Cuts Pastrami Corned Beef Roast Beef Breast of Turkey Baked Ham DEAR YARD: Try a plastic surgeon. (But find ane who doesn't mind getting a little behind In his business.) hes breaking JP WHEN WE ONLY HAVE TWO SALES A YEAR YOU KNOW THEY WILL BE TWICE AS GOOD M mu (&M GREAT SAVINGS SHOES -T- WO PAIR FOR M0 CLOTHING JEWELRY 1 14 No. Main Midvale 2665 Washington 464 So. State Ogden Orem 412 So. 7th West Salt lake 225-766- - UP TO 75 OFF UP TO 50 OFF Trolley Square Salt take 6 4 Is the immediate jewel of their souls: Who steals my purse, steals trash; 'tis something, nothing; Twas mine, tis his, and has been slave to thousands. But he that filches from me my good name, Robs me of that, which not enriches him And makes me poor indeed. Goodbye, and thanks to all. McCormick, former editor, Do-- work out three times a week health club and am in pretty good shape except for the abovementioned. I've tried every conceivable exercise and diet Ive come across, but I cant seem to lose any of the flab back there. Its just plain fat, Abby, and no of sleep better. DEAR ABBY: Before the wedding X promised to give up cigarettes. For the first Ihree years after our marriage, he was still smoking, and his marriage vows on your sofa, when I would gently remind him of his whether his wife knows or not is beside promise, he would tell me that he was trying and I should be a little more the point. Since you disapprove of his conduct, dont make it any easier for patient. We have been married for eight him by providing him with a place to years now, and this turkey is still rendezvous. he tries to hide it DEAR ABBY : I am an independent puffing away, only from me. grocer with a question for you. W'hy do His deceit irritates me more than some customers (including relatives) ask for groceries on credit, but when the smoking itself. How much longer should I be they have the cash they will drive an extra mile to shop at a supermarket patient? And do you think he ever and give their money to strangers? sincerely tried to quit? DISGUSTED IN The people they give cash to CALIF. wouldn't give them groceries on credit DEAR DISGUSTED: Give him until if their whole family was dying of the 4th of July, and if hes still smoking malnutrition. FED UP WITH PEOPLE fireworks! I have no way of knowing DEAR FED UP: There are two if he sincerely tried. Perhaps he did. kinds of people in this world: The givers Im told its harder to quit smoking than and the takers. The credit customers to quit drinking. LINE 123. Salt Lake City, Utah 841 matter? dont DEAR FRIEND: mon Write to Do lt Man, P 0. Bo ABBY (including yt . relatives) who spend their cash eisewhere are takers. You may complain, but the next time someone is broke and needs the groceries on credit, you wont turn him down, because you are a giver. The takers may cat better, but the givers like the idea of a married man breaking his marriage vows on our sofa. What do you think? A FRIEND TO BOTH Today's (approximately) My place will be taken by someone else. In the past 10 years I have tried to perform the task with truthfulness, painstaking care and a solemn sense of responsibility. No miracles have been performed, but help has been rendered where possible. Many people have written to me expressing thanks for the columns help. This is much appreciated. The columns success could not have been achieved without the HI should it I still Man column No. 2,500 will be the last I write do-i- t DEAR ABIGAIL VAN BUREN amount THE CHALK GARDEN TROLLEY SQUARE John E. Man. Do--it Man attempts to solve problems, get answers, investigate complaints and cut red tape. Write. You must sign vour name and give your address and telephone number. PffW No fluorocarbons in new aerosols YONKERS, N Y. (UPI) The inventor of the valve for aerosol containers has just introduced a new dispenser system for pressurized products that works with hydrocarbons instead of fluorocarbons. 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Someone told me that it can be removed by surgery. Is that so? I dont care if the operation is painful and leaves a scar. Anything would be better at a than hauling around this outsized DEAR ABBY: I am a mail' who needs your help with an embarrassing problem. Its my behind. It is enormous! Im 5 foot 8 and weigh 1 2,500 Do-- It any more room 2-ti- mer wl 4b j j |