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Show i m Pt Balt : omen Section C Page One May 8, 1964 Friday Morning Salt Lake City, Utah 7,:::Swi'' By Louise Davis ' Dear Louise: We and another couple are planning to give a dinner dance at our country club and havent yet agreed on to call do no t want give it a name. The other couple wish to . call It a dinner and gala ball - -- J men are becoming lax in courtesies or if womens independent attitude Is to blame. Or Are Women to Blame - i ? Are Men Lax. in Manners ? a man opened the car door for you? Lit your cigarette? Tipped his hat in an elevator? Or put. himself next to the curb when walking down a sidewalk? Chivalry, to all . Intensive-purposesmay be dead. , to Blame? Men , But are men solely to blame? By Barbi Fouch '. Tribune Staff Writer. If its one thing that makes a woman fed all woman Its being in . the presence of a . chivalrous man. , : f Trouble is that little courtesies are becoming quite uncommon... , How long has It been since . ' , UW : . . , According to Dr. Henry H. Frost, head of the sociology department, U n 1 v e r sity of Utah, these kinds of courtesies were associated with a womans subordinate status and were recognitions on the part of men of the importance of women. Now that women are within a whisper of standing equally with men not as much importance is placed on a chivalrous attitude; Dr. Frost sald; "" " Could Be Automation Other contributions' to the decline in mens manners can possibly be attributed to automation. In days of yore when.a man walked. nearthe curb it was to protect his lady from getting splattered by a passing wagon. The tipping of the' hat in an elevator became passe when the countrys population exploded right into the elevator. Now, Dr. Frost said, elbows do more damage in an elevator than not tipping the ; : u L ? S . -- 'V' ' 0 hat In a good restaurant a man doesnt even have to pull out i your chair. A headwaiter will do it for him. Simple to Open A car door is simple to open these days. And with women's tower' heels she doesnt risk the hazards of a 'balancing act, when alighting from a :l ri&? I 0 V6 car. Its Jr) S' Automation may be partial answer to decline in mens man ners, such as not walking next to curb when escorting woman. Womens Unit to Charter The, chartering of the Salt Lake Chapter of Women In Construction will take place Saturday at a ' luncheon , at noon at the University Club. Charter members are ployed In architecture, gener al construction, sub contractors,: material supplying, construction engineering or construction news services. The group met in April and organized, .selected officers and directors. Representatives from the national organizations Will be in Salt Lake City for the chartering. Mrs. Connie H. Turner and Mrs. Alta Rae Monson are taking luncheon reservations until noon Friday. ':a meet 'V question: Has toe independence of women made men thoughtless, or has toe thoughtfulness of men made, women necessarily Independent? Its a controversy which will continue as tong as men forget to put toe cap on a toothpaste tube and women squeeze toe tube from toe top. Courtesy, however, does not change. . And a gentleman always practices it but my hus- band questions Miss Davis the word "gala. I would like your advice or opinion. J. C. P. Atianta, Ga. Louise Davis answers: Im agin, the gala. Why not just call if a ball and let "your guests determine the gala? Come to a gala party were giving is like saying, Come to our house for a delectable dinner. Dear Louise: A friend of ours was quietly married last weekend 'to a woman whom , 2 HOLLYWOOD we have never met Both are 4L My husband and the groom work for the same company. I would like to write the bride a note of congratulations. May I begin: Dear Mary? If it should be to both, it would seed! odd to write: Dear Jim and Mrs. Smith. Would it be all right to enclose the note with some flowers? W. V. P., Ottawa, Ont Louise Davis answers: Because of the brides age and because you have never met I suggest that you avoid the Dear Mary and write Dear Mrs. Smith. Since brides are n e v e r j congratulate you might write that you hope to meet her in the near future and .that you and your husband send sincerest wishes for their happiness. Why not substitute the flowers for a wedding gift? The enclosure card with your names (Mr. and Mrs. Lester William Brown) would be enough although you may wish to indude your best wishes message too. Mrs. Fred Thomas, Oakland, Catif.; puts her stamp of Apf proval on the American Philatelic Society. What else? Shes toe wife of the groups president! He didnt interest her In collecting, though. A friend did. Her interests are the Ryukyu Islands and topicals. I collect any stamp with an elephant on It even the microscopic variety. she said. Youd be surprised at the " historic significance of toe , Miss Carolyn Kaye Drew She has won several awards for her collections and served as an adviser on a book about Ryukyu Island stamps. Wives of toe societys officers usually go along for toe ride. Few are collectors, she said. Women collectors are on toe Increase and there are some really good ones. At one time, It was considered indecent for a woman to collect stamps. Stamp collecting was strictly for men. The first floor of her home has toe third largest Philatelic Research Society library Letters to Landers Dear Ann Landers :1 am a girl who just found out why kids are so sassy to their mothers, The reason is because mothers are too bos sy. Why do moth- ers think they have to be in on every little thing that happens? If mothers would leave were more considerate her MOTHER WOULD not be so What is your bossy. MY SIDE. ver-dic- t? Dear t Your Side: Ann Lander will b glad to help you with your problem. Send them to her In care of Home Service Department, Salt Lake Tribune. P. O. Box 867, Salt Lake City, Utah, enclosing a tamped, self --addressed enve All I would not be so Irritable. My life is an endless; round of picking up books, hats, coats, underwear,, damp towels and , whatever she decides to drop. Children today treat their mothers as If they were hired - Mrs. Fred Thomas '. . . Society gets her stamp ,of approval. too bossy.' finishbet you your hus(Ill bands sentences, too.) Children who are a u g h t early to pick up after themselves will not be slobs at age 12. But thats another column. Try taking toe whip off this girls back. Mow her more independence of thought and action and I promise you shell be more t . herei truth about hormones for facet neck and hand NEW YORK (Special) i Roams have been written about hormone. Will ther make women of 75 look It again? Abtolutely not. Will they make women of 60 feel like they were 20 again? hor, To know the truth about mones yon need to learn juit two simple facts: (1) Th beauty of a womans skin starts breaking down s sign of ago begin, because the h estrogenio hormones to feed the kin lea and leas as yon grow older. (2) Eatrogenie hormones can he supplied to tho skin by mb hing on a penetrating formula containing the hormones. Here is teat reported in scientific journal, one of many that showed similarly sensational Twenty-fivwomen applied hormones to one lido of the face and and neck, to one hand. On tho other aide and tho other band, a similar preparation containing no hormonea was applied tho same ... e ' If you are making bread crumbs at home, be sure the bread Is thoroughly dry before crumbing it by tolling with a rolling pin, putting it through a food chopper or in an electric blender. If toe bread isnt thoroughly dry, the crumbs - may mold.- that you are indeed worried about age? way.-,;- Dry Bread Thoroughly Sorry, as guilty act of charged. The very taking over your daughters letter as you did Is evidence it Dear Ann Landers: I found this unfinished letter to y o u on my daughters dresser this morning. I would like to ten ( you my side of the story. If I had more Know-It- from this are Mother, you would be much better for their kids and much' better for the mothers, too. alone more t fl help, and (hen expect them to be cheerful and uncomplaining. Perhaps if my daughter their kids lope. . Wyoming Student Mr. Morris attended Iowa State University, : and is now a senior engineering major at the : University of Wyoming. He is a member of -. the Institute of Electrical and Eectronic Engineers, Sigma Tau, Tau Kappa Epsilon and is: president of American Nuclear Society. ' jf-h Z' V Miss Drew is a junior education major at tiie University of Wyoming, Laramie, Wyo. She is serving as senator and historian for toe Student Education Assn., is a member of Iron Skull, Spurs, Alpha Chi Omega. She also has attended the University of Utah. in the world.. The research society uses toe, Thomas home : for meetings, also. , The couple is in Salt Lake Gty for, toe seventh annual meeting' of toe American Philatelic Society which begins Friday " at Prudential Federal Savings and Loan auditorium. elephant Mr. and Mrs. Donald D. Drew, 333 12th' East, announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter, Miss Carolyn Kaye Drew, to Maynard Blakemoore Morris, son of Maj. and Mrs. F. H. Morris, Langley Air Force Base, Va. The couple Is planning a late August wedding In Salt Lake C3ty. August Wedding Elephants Are No Joke To Female Philatelist - These ar tho reports Words: la simple Slda Hues (or wrinkles) quickly dimmed or disappeared from sight at Creases and hollows ' ' v filled out.e freckle' Blotches and faded on hands, face and neck. Skin was softer, clearer, seemed dry-aki- n old-ag- to lose its chronic dryness and taka on a revived freshness and vitality;-- ' All these amasing things happened on the side where ua hormone wer ased. Meanwhile no comparable changes occurred on tho other side. The same withered; lifeless complexion. - Now to select a good estrogenio hormone preparation, here la what yon need to know: the strength of the hormone preparation must appear on 'the label! The recommended monthly allotment for tho skin is 20,000 International Units. Tho base should bo as rich aa possible in penetrating Sesame Oil and moisturizing Lanolin and when rubbed in year akin should not feel greasy or sticky. On first application, yonr skin should feel radiant glow of revitalised youtlw fulness and refreshment. An eitra good buy in hormono roducts today is a preparation called HORMONEX Beanty Serum. It is made by a trustworthy laboratory. It is inexpensive to use. A 100- - ' day supply costs only $3 JO plus tax. 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