Show Weber Plus StancJard-Exanw- Thirsday July 30 1998 3 Center offers solace for kids CSSundation volunteers children through ttgrieving process hS BjANTONTl unconditional acceptance here at the center” corwoonwt isten to these children's fears when parents bvorce: “If dad left 'won't mom go away to©?- - Or “If I am really good n&&e mom and dad will get bftitlogeiher again" SLthild may react that way or sdETlf only I could be better" rT5t Family Summit Rmjdation A Center for Grieving Children addresses needs as a support center for children teens and their families whrhre grieving about the loss of someone they love through df ath suicide divorce or separation There are also separate support groups for cftSdtfen in foster care This is a nfclCjrofit volunteer-supporte- d pfpgram I “All of our group facilitators arrtrained in child and teen gnLThe center does not phiUde counseling but tdfoISiation and support for those going through the grieving process" said Barbara Norris Teigeler Executive Director of tiaJfamily Summit Foundation “82 hold workshops and give pfcgSentations to provide cgttion and trainingforon grief aijdhhe grief process cemenunity agencies schools and faSSes We provide crisis ldteaention and consultations in oJOTca” “TTtibrary with materials and books are available to the public "The center also facilitates hen it comes from problems resulting from death suicide or divorce" said Dr Forrest of the Crawford board of the Family Summit w “ Children experiencing grief of any kind are given S45£2Ernr Pardon Our Fless ‘RwuMUify Sfteciati WANGSGARDS THRIFTWAY -- Foundation - Barbara Norris Talgeler Executive Director of th Family Summit Foundation support groups for children who have a loved one that has completed suicide" Teigeler work with said “Volunteers the adult support groups" Judge W Brent West a member of the board of trustees at the foundation said “Today there are resources available for children who experience gnef in our community Children seem to cope w ith the loss of a parent by suicide or divorce These parents do not realize their child is also grieving in hisher own way Sometimes these issues arise during my pre-tncustody sessions At that point I can make recommendations to the Family Summit Foundation" The program offers support groups for children ages four through 19 There are also programs for adults “Children deal with emotions such as anger and sadness We let them know that it's OK to have these feelings" Teigeler said "Children feel safe here they do not have to taLk" Teigeler calls children the forgotten mourners "They too need to be heard and allowed to express their feelings" she said “Efforts today for children's grief should be more innovative "Volunteers from the foundation take an active role and are trained in education and gnef support services" Crawford said With the death of a loved one some children may experience problems For example if Grandpa dies in his sleep a child may be afraid to fall asleep at night thinking that he might die Ad Effective Date July 30d Aug 4th11 PEPSI DIET PEPSI CAFFEINE-FRE- PEPSI E & FilOUllTANl DEW Cans 12-o- z 12-p- k too When the children amve at the center they are divided into smaller groups by age where they engage in activities that allow them to express their thoughts and feelings These activ mes include a talking circle as well as games music an working with clay and journal wnting “Children experiencing grief of any kind are given unconditional acceptance here at the center” Teigeler said “We have 1 1 sessions with the children two times a month in a support group Parents and guardians of the children have their own support groups held simultaneously during the children's group" In January of 1999 the foundation will start support groups for children with anticipatory gnef - children who have a family member that is terminally ill" For more information about these programs and support 8 or access groups call the foundation's web site at OEEmG 2 for mm 2 Gallon CREAM O' WEBER ORANGE JUICE 12 Gallon CREAM O' WEBER CHOCOLATE MILK 12 Gallon 394-331- wwwfamilvsummitcom CREAM O' WEBER Imperfect shells more beautiful dollars pave the ocean where we play in the waves of the Gulf of M&rico My daughter is supposed - unlike the sand dollars at the souvenir shop these-ar- e more the color of newsprint than typing paper The gray sand dollars ulfderfoot are alive When we bring them up for examination theirtiny bristles glisten and undulate in the sun "The white sand dollars at the souvenir shops are dead Citured alive they are bleached and‘sUn-dne- d to an ivory pqflfcCtion then sold to tourists for pennies High tide offers up shells rock and mystenous bits Twice daily ftera Lee and I w alk the sh&tline looking for treasures 'The prettiest seashells come fifafn live animals in their prime These animals are harvested before their portable homes are worn or damaged and their shells are sold to tourists We beachcombers collect less perfect specimens but our SfK&iinens have character Get year shells from a souvenir shop aria you'll buy James Dean Search along the shore for your owti and you'll get James Stewart '"Most of our shells are broken arid Worn I find a cowrie shell fragment that has the exact colors of the enormous sea turtle that swam under our pier a yummy combination of cinnamon and pumpkin I tuck this shell in my examining them Sand snorkels poke fun at how silly we look and head to deeper waters We paddle about to discover the living: seashells inhabited by conchs and whelks a variety of crab and fish and of course more Sand dollars We may annoy a few animals but w e put them back when we're done Flora Lee finds a worn and bleached piece of coral as big as her fist and covered with rough symmetrical puckers I spy a collection of barnacles three times the size of the rock to which they cling During incoming tide we vtittfp our lips around our MM - 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